Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

Ok i rele need ur help now. My mothers boyfriend lives with us in our house with his 15 yr old son. His son is an complete asshole to us, and his father doesn't care he just says that we are being mean to him, which we are not! He tells my mother wat to do, and he doesn't do anything. All he does is eat and lay around and complain. Mom's boyfriend won't let her go out unless he knows exactly where she is going, and he goes out every day without letting her know. He says he loves us, but sumtimes he doesn't show it. They fight all the time, and most of the time it's over his son. he doesn't get my mother anything for Christmas or even her birthday. I'm tired of seeing her hurt, and I wish she would break up with him. He uses my mom's money for everything, and never uses his. He never does anything to his son, and he gets on to us all the time. mom says that he won't leave so we just jave to deal with it, but I think that is bullshit. Mom won't ask anybody about, so i'm asking you guys.

2006-12-27 07:42:03 · 7 answers · asked by Angel-gurl23 2 in Family

I was going down on a girl and she started her period, but I stayed down there. But when she left the next day, she wouldn't kiss me, and she hasn't called. What's up with her?

2006-12-27 07:41:01 · 39 answers · asked by white.devil 3 in Singles & Dating

ok well i have a question i asked before but ok i haev this one friend that my ex. dumped me for shes not my friend ne more but she is vietemese nuthin with her race just sayin and she is fat and she has had mono three times and then u look at me i just got my braces off super white and straight teeth and then my body well i am a cheerleader/dancer and i have brown eyes and shoulder length blonde hair wat do boys see in her thats not in me because she lets boys do ne thing with her i mean ne thing she gave a boi a HJ and she had a boi finger her and all this crap he dumped me for her which she cheats on him too wat am i spossed to tell him or do i not say ne thing????????/and wat do boys see in her??????/

2006-12-27 07:40:41 · 10 answers · asked by FVSDANCER 1 in Singles & Dating

I've considered hypnotherapy but I'm not sure if that'll work.

2006-12-27 07:40:31 · 26 answers · asked by stanno 3 in Singles & Dating

okay i have this ex boyfriend and i cant seem to to ever forget about him, i have a differant boyfriend and i love him alot but i cant get the thoughts of me and my ex out of my head! help!!

2006-12-27 07:39:55 · 9 answers · asked by Belle!! 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was going through his pics I saw her pic. It was his girl friend way back in high school. She is blond, has big boobs and is chubby. I am asian, I have small boobs and I am skinny. He threw the pic in the garbage. Somehow it bothers me. He said she could have been a nice girl but he tells me he is glad he didn't marry her. How ever he had sexual relations with her. She was his first girl. I haven't been intimate with him yet. I am saving it for marriage. And I haven't been with anyone else. He was disgusted in dating women after he went out with her. So for over 10 years he didn't date anyone until he met me. Ironicaly his ex and I have the same name. And every now and then he does talk about her and tells me he is glad that he met me and didn't marry her. He found out that she is divorced now. I don't know why every time he talks about her it bothers me. Am I jealous?

2006-12-27 07:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday I talked to this guy I have liked all year and told him I truely miss seeing him since he moved away. He said that he missed me too, and today he was going to try and stop my by house for a visit. Do you think he is coming over for more than a friendly visit?

2006-12-27 07:39:23 · 9 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

i want him to answer me, i wish i could see him......., please help??

2006-12-27 07:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by sam j 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in 7th grade and very shy.I had lots of friends from kindergarten,and until 4th grade.Then,I moved in 5th grade,and I still don't have a lot of friends.I want more friends,but don't know how to approach people,or start conversations.I have friends,but they're not my best friends and only talk to me sometimes.What should I do????

2006-12-27 07:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by COOL♥ 3 in Friends

my friends that are together did it and when we go to a movie its kinda uncomfortable to put my arm around my girlfriend is that a good alturnative

2006-12-27 07:38:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 07:38:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a long term relationship, I don't dress like a single guy any more. I'm athletic, very clean but my hair is a little long and usually a little messy, sometimes I don't shave for a few days. I'm most comfortable wearing climbing boots and levies. Actually I only own levies. I own a business, have money and can buy anything but dressy clothes just ait me.

Am I ruining my chances?

2006-12-27 07:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Singles & Dating

My so is breaking up with his girlfriend. she is just 16 he will be 18 in feb. they have been such a cute little couple, all of their friends say things like, cutest couple, when are you going to get married...they dont argue or fight.from what my son ha sshared with me , he has just grown apart from her, he is thinking about being 18, maybe leaving for school...but his girlfriend, whom is the sweetest thing in the world, still loves him as much as she can !! my heart breaks for her and my son really hasnt "TOLD" her he has kind of just given her the cold shoulder.. I told him he must talk to her and tell her, he said he didnt know how....... any "SERIOUS" advise for him

2006-12-27 07:38:08 · 9 answers · asked by crazartgirl 4 in Singles & Dating

i work with this guy who i hav been attracted to for a long time..i don't always see him, he is shy..about a year ago we started talking about snow skiing and so on,, well today i saw 3 times and he waited to talk to me..how do i let him know i m intrested or should i leave it alone?

2006-12-27 07:36:45 · 7 answers · asked by lost 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 07:36:30 · 18 answers · asked by ahandsd 2 in Family

i've been single for goin on 8yr's , and told him that i wanted to go slow. but i think he's the one, cause after all this time we see eachother i still can't tell you what color his eyes are.

2006-12-27 07:34:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 21 (white) and my husband is 23 (black) and we have 2 of our own children and my litlte sister who live with us....we have been looking for a rent house for 2 months and everytime we turn in an application we get denied??? Do you think it's a racial thing? Because we are young? Are there certain things I should ask the landlord?? I'm so confused!!!!

2006-12-27 07:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by atchisons2006 2 in Family

my EX boyfriend broke up with me on a text message and said that he cried about it and that he still cared about me he just thought it would be best if we were just friends. now when i see him he is realyl mean to me and then he says he is just playing put it doesnt seem like it. the other day he was nice and tried to hug me and hold my hand. why did he do that????

2006-12-27 07:32:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plus that person 1 lease in that house. specila had 2 kids in that house 1 that kids is disabled.

2006-12-27 07:32:45 · 3 answers · asked by superstar_0467 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just found out that my soon to be husband is also a soon to be father. During a 3 month break-up period my fiance had a fling w/ a woman and now she claims she is pregnant with his child. He says he will take care of his child (DNA test pending) but wants to move forward into the future with me. I'm really not a factor in their decision, but I have no idea how to handle this.

2006-12-27 07:32:27 · 8 answers · asked by mizmouth99 1 in Weddings

2006-12-27 07:32:26 · 24 answers · asked by SUPERSTAR 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been divorced 8 years, have 2 daughters of whom we share custody, & have been able to work past a lot of obstacles to become close friends. There is no romance between us any longer, but we try to do things as a family regularly. For the past 4 or 5 yrs we've worked unbelievably well together raising happy, smart girls. Both of us have been involved with others at several times over the years, but it didn't change the way we co-parented. Then about 1 1/2 yr ago, he started dating a woman who is also divorced with kids & not at all on friendly terms with her ex. She believes that our friendship is "weird" & constantly makes things harder than necessary for us. Up to this point, my ex has let her vent but not changed the way we handle our relationship. Now he has begun to change things, like not discussing decisions about the girls with me. Worse, he won't listen when I try to discuss issues & probs the girls have brought up, blaming me for any probs they may have. What can I do?

2006-12-27 07:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Zizzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 07:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by milad f 1 in Singles & Dating

heres what happened i was sleeping over my boyfriends house, i happened to eat alot of gassy foods, then without realizing i ursted with a loud, very embarassig fart, we all stayed silent but i could ell from my boyfriends face and body language that he was grossed out and completely turned off by me!
, is their anything i should do or say now since i never said anything about last night, i feel so emabarassed and disgusted about my self, how do i change my boyfriends nasty thought about what happened to me??

2006-12-27 07:30:59 · 70 answers · asked by freshcalmbreeze 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 07:30:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

plus that person 1 lease in that house. specila had 2 kids in that house 1 that kids is disabled.

2006-12-27 07:30:11 · 2 answers · asked by superstar_0467 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I prefer answers from girls, but guy answers are fine to. Ok i'm 15 in the 9th grade and this happened like the day before christmas break, I was walking down the hall after school and the halls were crowded I glanced at the girl I really liked and she had her back turned and she was in her locker, and I could have sworn some guy beside her said "he was staring at your ***". She knows I like her and I talk to her sometimes and sit with her sometimes at lunch and I am going to ask her out soon but...What do you think she will think of me next time she sees me? She doesn't speak very much english... I hope she didn't understand.. It makes me want to kick that that guy that told her that's *** !!! I mean come on.. I did not look at her butt...Even if I did every guy has done it before..Unless you are a queer..

2006-12-27 07:29:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have some writings on my myspace. on is about life and the other about a crying woman. Its on the left side and has my name at the end. random thoughts for not-so-random events in life. what do you think??

http://www.myspace.com/albertozavala

2006-12-27 07:27:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend (which is a girl) and im a girl left to BC last friday and wont be back till this saturday night and i miss her alot what should i do? thx!

2006-12-27 07:27:47 · 8 answers · asked by Carly L 1 in Friends

I have been dating this guy who claims he is in love with me (I love him too), doesn't want to lose me, but isn't ready for a relationship. I found text messages that he was sending to another girl that were obvious that he is talking to other people, but yet he persists that they are from a friend. He says he wants to be with me and loves me, and feels that I am the one, but he just isn't ready right now. He just got divorced and he claims that is why he is not ready. I think this just makes it so that he is not responsible for his actions. If he sleeps or sees other girls, then it won't be like he is cheating because technically he is not in a "relationship" with me. He tells me he loves me all the time, and I believe him, but I think he wants his cake and eat it too. What is your advice?

2006-12-27 07:27:29 · 52 answers · asked by schaves55 1 in Singles & Dating