When I was going through his pics I saw her pic. It was his girl friend way back in high school. She is blond, has big boobs and is chubby. I am asian, I have small boobs and I am skinny. He threw the pic in the garbage. Somehow it bothers me. He said she could have been a nice girl but he tells me he is glad he didn't marry her. How ever he had sexual relations with her. She was his first girl. I haven't been intimate with him yet. I am saving it for marriage. And I haven't been with anyone else. He was disgusted in dating women after he went out with her. So for over 10 years he didn't date anyone until he met me. Ironicaly his ex and I have the same name. And every now and then he does talk about her and tells me he is glad that he met me and didn't marry her. He found out that she is divorced now. I don't know why every time he talks about her it bothers me. Am I jealous?
2006-12-27 07:39:46 · 7 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Possibly.It's completely normal to feel jealous even a little bit after seeing your fiance's ex.But just remember he picked YOU.(I know that's a bit cheesy but true)
2006-12-27 07:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by pinkandblackoneone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you don't know what really happened between them and anything he tells you, you will doubt. It's just the way a female mind works. Women have to know everything. I felt like that, but eventually I was able to let it go. Being jealous isn't a bad thing what is bad is if you let it control you and your life. As for saving your virginity, that's a very wise decision and you should be proud. Look at this way, at least you have enough confidence in yourself to keep from sleeping around!! Apparently she doesn't have that same quality.
2006-12-27 07:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by missfinley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all bothered by exes, unless we meet them and they have a really great personality.
You need to talk to him about how you feel, especially the fact that you both have the same name. Ask him if there are similarities between you and her in his mind that drew him to you. Be open and let him express himself and don't get upset if the answers are not what you thought they should be.
2006-12-27 07:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
♥ of course ur jealous & it's perfectly normal. it bothers u becuz how do u think he'd feel if he saw a pic of ur ex bf? he wouldn't like it, so just think of it that way. ♥
2006-12-27 10:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out right
2006-12-27 07:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by ringer6942 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the opposite of you, maybe you think he thinks of her as pretty.
2006-12-27 12:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you think that he still have feelings for her
2006-12-27 07:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by cute_thang4714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋