Ok I prefer answers from girls, but guy answers are fine to. Ok i'm 15 in the 9th grade and this happened like the day before christmas break, I was walking down the hall after school and the halls were crowded I glanced at the girl I really liked and she had her back turned and she was in her locker, and I could have sworn some guy beside her said "he was staring at your ***". She knows I like her and I talk to her sometimes and sit with her sometimes at lunch and I am going to ask her out soon but...What do you think she will think of me next time she sees me? She doesn't speak very much english... I hope she didn't understand.. It makes me want to kick that that guy that told her that's *** !!! I mean come on.. I did not look at her butt...Even if I did every guy has done it before..Unless you are a queer..
2006-12-27 07:29:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she did understand him, she will probably think it is funny and be flattered. You most likely have checked her out and like what you see, and she knows that because she knows you like her. Ignore the guy (he may have been trying to sabotage things between you two) and ask her out already! Life is too short to put these things off. Plus, when he sees you two holding hands in the hallway, won't he be jealous..... Good luck!
2006-12-27 07:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Hey Hey! Even Queer's look at butts! Therego J-Lo. Don't worry about that guy. She probably took it as a compliment. Your assuming you know what her reaction was. It could of been like OMG girl he just looked at your butt and as you walked by she said "DAMN BABY you got some fries to go with that shake" and you just didn't hear that part. Your stressing over nothing. You'll be fine. Ask her out today! When you guys out casually mention that her bum is very attractive! '-)
2006-12-27 07:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was in 9th grade and people looked at my ***, I took it as a compliment... most teenage girls do. I wouldn't worry about it so much and if she asks about it, tell her that her back was turned... what were you supposed to do... stick your head in her locker so that you can gaze into her eyes... you glanced in her direction and that was it, if she trips, than you'd be better off finding somebody who isn't so insecure about themselves and will at least give you the benefit of the doubt once. I just wouldn't let her catch you looking at her breasts or anything after this... that wouldn't be good at all.
2006-12-27 07:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's not start degrading homosexuals because of your insecurity. Secondly as you get older, girls don't neccesarily mind that you look at them in a sexual manner that's probably more your own issue than hers. Not to say that you should be impolite, but looking at a girls *** is more of an instinct and an admiration of the female form. Don't worry about it and relax I'm sure it'll be fine, she might even like that you were looking...especially if she likes you back.
2006-12-27 07:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by ajax138 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step back... and view this from a different perspective. The guy that said that to her... well, maybe he likes her too and is overprotective of his future conquest. A word of advise... going to ask her and asking her out are different and if you want to do it, better do it fast because it seems like she may have other suitors.
As for you looking at her butt... well, it is natural for people to look at nice things. And as a side note... I know many gay guys who check out the opposite sexes butt. So... yea...
2006-12-27 07:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat the small stuff, you look, we like that you look, we look, you like that we look, life goes on. If you think you may have offended her then let her know you would never do that knowingly, that you just thinks shes pretty and special. That should get you out of any hot water you think you may be in. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 07:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Um I am 15 too and I've gone through similar problems. Try not too freak and ask the girl out. If all else fails, kick the *** of the guy who said that to the girl you like.
2006-12-27 07:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by JUDI 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First, calm down freshman. You have three plus years of high school and then hopefully college. You should not even consider fighting every knuckle head that tries to block. Remember, she is your objective (2nd to grades).
2006-12-27 07:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by slim-n-shaddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have your mouth cleaned out with soap, young man, for using such foul language.
That having been said, if indeed she heard the young man tell her that you were looking at her, she was most likely flattered. The seed has been planted...now it's up to you to harvest...
2006-12-27 07:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down - it's not the end of the world! Like you said, every guy has checked out her junk, so just because he pointed out that fact, don't freak! She probably appreciated the info, so don't make a big deal out of it. Just continue on like nothing happened, and I can almost guarantee that it didn't harm your future with this girl. I wish you well!
Happy New Year!
2006-12-27 07:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋