Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

Well Im coming up on our Anniversary in Jan.I just want to know what would you do if your husband did the things mine did.He came to my G-Ma's house for 2weeks break from schooling from the Army for Christmas.Well its our 1st Xmas being married & with our son.He said he was gonna go for a walk at 5pm and he then came home at 5am Xmas morning.I found out that he went to a bar on our 1st Xmas.On top of that a few days ago we were at a jewelry shop and I asked him to buy me a nice wedding ring but he didnt get me 1.We dont have alot of money bcause we're just starting out but he ended up spending $1,000.00 at the F*cking bar! This whole year we only seen eachother 39 times because he just started joining the Army.He said sorry but he said sorry last year too.It was just worse this year.We broke up in the past bcause he drank to much.What do I do? I will not get a divorce so what should I do? How can I ever trust him again? He says sorry so much.I know we Love eachother with all our heart.

2006-12-27 08:13:12 · 32 answers · asked by K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 08:13:10 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friends HOTT uncle is 26 and im 19. He asked me to go to his house so i did. He started touching me and then we had sex. What do i tell my best friend

2006-12-27 08:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Mia 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:12:18 · 37 answers · asked by liveurlife411 1 in Friends

2006-12-27 08:11:32 · 6 answers · asked by Ola C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the story. I'm dating two girls and I'm at a bind of whether to choose one of them or date neither. The first one is a past girlfriend and I broke up with her to see what else was out there. Well, I started to date another girl and now I backed off on her too. But all in all, I am currently dating both. The one has a wonderful personality and I really connect with her but some times she feels more like a friend because I'm not highly attracted to her. The other girl has a good personality but not as good as the first girl but i'm much more attracted to her. I don't get a long with her family though. How much should looks and sexual attractioin count towards a relationship? Should I pick one or should I venture on to try and find someone else? Thanks.

2006-12-27 08:10:46 · 29 answers · asked by Jack W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:10:00 · 14 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:09:49 · 19 answers · asked by coasterfreak110 2 in Singles & Dating

i have to write a paper on it

2006-12-27 08:09:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Not sure what to do for my man when he comes back from work(could be a while yet) Hes off shore for 2 months, but i want him to know that I care for him, and have been waiting for him. We were together(as in dating) for just over 2 weeks, then he had to leave for work. We e-mail every day, and he rings me when he is on-shore. I want to do somthing unique for him(non sexual, cuz we are waiting till im comfortable with it)and ideas??

thanks

2006-12-27 08:08:54 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

my daughter has benn going out with guy who has made the rounds in her circle of friends . they brokeup ans he is now going out with her best friend my daughter got permission from best friend before they started going out she still likes him but does not want to ruin her friendship with best friend how do I help her with out ruining friend ship or breaking her heart. she really values the friend ship .

2006-12-27 08:08:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a 23 year old woman trying to decide between 2 guys. They are both in their early 30s.

Guy #1- he cooks for me, very sweet, very attentive. Comes over quite often and finds fun stuff for us to do even went out with his parents.My close girl friend just told me he has feelings for me.But i dont feel the same for him as he does for me.

Guy #2- Really nice,very sweet, affectionate and kind only thing is he keeps telling me he loves me and I only found out about his feelings for me a few days ago. I didnt even know he had any interest in me like that. But he keeps saying I love u after every conversation we have and I don't know what to say. But he is very interesting.

My biggest dilemma is trying to figure out which of the 2 i should consider dating.. #1 has insecurities while #2 constantly tells me he loves me both of which are some what turning me off.. none the less both of them deserve an opportunity but which one should I go for?

2006-12-27 08:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by minime 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a very large family (Father has seven siblings, all married with kids, mother has four siblings, all married with kids). Given this, I knew my wedding was going to be large. However, I don't want to INVITE more than 250 people to my wedding. I have narrowed my parents' side down to 80 people (from 150). My fiance and I have 50 (wedding party and friends). His family, which is small (father has two siblings, married, with only eight kids including guests, mother has one sibling, married with six kids including guests), refuses to cut their list to 120 people. They included people I've never met before. They invited my finace's grandmother's sister (which is fine, mine is too) and her family...as in, Finace's grandmother's sister's husband kids and spouses AND their children. This is just a small example. I could go on.
I have talked to my finace and he won't tell his family to cut the list. He thinks its "proper" that they get invited. Again, people I've never met.

2006-12-27 08:08:36 · 10 answers · asked by Just tryin' to help 6 in Weddings

this is in no way a put down on Indian men. However it is said that variety is the spice of life. Is there much dating across cultures? Finally, in a society that has so many strong cultural traditions relating to dating and marriage, how do these cross cultural relations (assuming they exist) work out?

2006-12-27 08:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so HOW?

2006-12-27 08:08:12 · 5 answers · asked by benobo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:07:48 · 12 answers · asked by Fruitful 1 in Singles & Dating

1st, 2nd, 3rd.

2006-12-27 08:07:14 · 5 answers · asked by coasterfreak110 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think?

2006-12-27 08:06:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with 1 guy, we planned on getting married, he wanted 2 adopt my son, and I found out he was talking sexually with 1 of my "friends". In retaliation, I started talking 2 his friend. We broke up but i cant get him off my mind. I have been with his friend 4 awhile now and have grown 2 love him. The 1st guy admits he made a mistake and asked 4 me 2 4give him and give him a chance 2 prove himself. The love with him is a passionate, cant breathe without him type of love, but i have doubts if he would be faithful. With the 2nd guy, its a warm love where i know i am loved back and i have no doubts in my mind that he would never cheat on me. What would u do? Choose a passionate love? Or choose a friendship that grew in2 love?

2006-12-27 08:06:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They discovered your questions on this website about them?.................Especially if they were bad orinnapropriate things you said about them..........Do you they'd confront you or just stop communicating with you??

2006-12-27 08:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got engaged and was wondering if anyone knows of a really good beach or forest wedding site in Northern California. Thank you

2006-12-27 08:04:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It is 50 mile's round trip

2006-12-27 08:04:01 · 49 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a "big girl"...if you want to put it that way. But I'm athletic and pretty damn hilarious ;) But I feel like I'm LAST in line when it comes to someone choosing who they want to go out with.

2006-12-27 08:03:35 · 32 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by boobird 4 in Family

See we were jjust playin until she kept callin mt bad names so i said i wasn't playin. She started to scream at me so i barly sqeezed her arm so she starts cryin and is being so insane.

2006-12-27 08:03:00 · 2 answers · asked by The dumb only seem to get dumber 1 in Friends

Just want some pointers to tell someone how much you miss them and want to work things out??!!!! I'm going to talk to my Ex tomorrow and I dont know how to start all this converstation.. I want him to know that I'm serious... want good things to come out of it...I'm nervous on how to start it....

2006-12-27 08:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

I almost had se.x the other night with my boyfriend. We love each other very much and he says that he respects my decision to remain a virgin till marriage and I don't want to get married till I'm out of medical school and blah, blah, blah. So, its kind of a long wait for him. But we got so close to doing it. He said it was very hard for him to hold himself back and that it would of happened had I not told him that I trust him not to do it. Is it really that hard for a guy or was he just saying that?

2006-12-27 08:01:34 · 26 answers · asked by You Lucky Dog 1 in Singles & Dating

how can I tell someone whom I have been seeing for the last 5 years that I am done. Yes I am married, and he is also, I understand it's wrong and I should know better but we have both been through hell and back with our partners and 2 wrongs don't make a right. I think we got together to support each other in our marriages and ended up falling for each other. There have been several times we both tried to end it but we couldn't. I would end up call him or him me. I would stop but I have to see him. He owns his own company and we have a contract with him so I will see him every month or so when he comes in. Please help. I know I am wrong fromt he get go. I really adore him, but I know I can't go on with the relationship we have been having for the last 5 years..........

2006-12-27 07:59:47 · 20 answers · asked by live, love, laugh often! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and did not see him on xmas either. Hes not much of BF is he?

2006-12-27 07:59:27 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lied, did drugs took aadvantage of my kindness, only made professions to change with their mouth,verbally and mentally abuised me.and despite it all was my only friend if yu can call them a friend, never wrong them just tried to love them and help them but to have went through it for so long what does that say about me my selfesteem i keep to my self have no close friends.

2006-12-27 07:58:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce