I'm a "big girl"...if you want to put it that way. But I'm athletic and pretty damn hilarious ;) But I feel like I'm LAST in line when it comes to someone choosing who they want to go out with.
2006-12-27 08:03:35 · 32 answers · asked by Kitty Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell yes ... guys don't want a waffer thin female as a partner ... we want someone that we know we can hold onto with out breaking when we hug them.
May sound strange but any decent male goes past the looks when searching for a mate ... we all know that looks generally fade by 35 for both male and female and we want someone that we can converse with ... males want a healthy partner - someone who can survive more than 15 minutes in a stuck elevator :)
2006-12-27 08:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of coarse someone can be overweight and attractive. Its sad that society has decided for many people what is pretty and what isnt. But i am not one who follows it. I am 5"4 and 150 i am a little overweight but it doesnt bother me i know i am still beautiful i dont need to be 110 to be pretty and either do you. I have seen some gorgeous "big girls" in my day. I think the most attractive characteristics anyone can posses are being CONFIDENT friendly and funny! i would rather be those 3 than 110 pounds any day! Dont ever let your weight determine who are you ... If you dont think your beautiful ... no one else will either. And if your truly not happy with your weight ... do something about it There is someone for everyone ... and you will find him one day!
2006-12-27 08:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by NA2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. Unfortunately most men are only into looks but a real man will seek the beauty inside of you. Do not give up as there is someone out there for everyone. Just like there are some men not so attractive but fun to be with and have a great personality. Your time will come and he will love you for your wit, charm, and size.
2006-12-27 08:10:11 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have many overweight friends that are just gorgeous. So yes, it is definitely possible for someone to be larger and attractive. Some of my friends felt the same way, being "last in line" but when they did find their significant other it was a long lasting relationship. Looks only get you so far anyway. :)
2006-12-27 08:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes You can be! You have to be confident with yourself before you will accept any thing from anyone else. If you are confident with urself then you can move the world. I know I have been there. I am a big girl too and I know how it is to feel like your being passed by. Finally I did something to make myself happy with mayself and things started changing for me. No I didn't loose weight or anything like that. I made myself look pretty to myself by changing the style of clothes I wore, getting a tan, wearing my hair different, things like that. I stared getting compliments which made me feel better about myself cus I knew people were noticing me..
Good Luck if you try any of this.
2006-12-27 08:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by curious_59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible!!! i know for a fact! im a big girl working on toning it down a bit but regardless youll be surprised at how many guys will fall for you because of the way you carry yourself, self respect and also your sense of humor. Its a wonderous thing and it feels great and worth it when you do meet that person that you connect with. Be patient and don't worry abou the people that don't spend the time to get to know you. :)
2006-12-27 08:09:58 · answer #6 · answered by lstgrl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES. There are many men that prefer bigger women with great faces and super personalities to thinner, flat chested, humourless women who worry all the time about their hair and makeup. The truth is there really is someone for everyone and it is only a matter of time before you find the right person for you.
The best way to look is to not look and he will find you. Just get out there and do things, get involved and let him see your great athletic ability, great personality and hillarious sense of humour.
In poll after poll, men and teen boys say that humour is the most important thing for keeping interest in a woman going. You have it all !!! Good luck! I hope this answer assists you.
2006-12-27 08:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Be urself and thats what makes u attractive. Don't wear the wrong kind of clothes in ur pursuit of looking slim. Thats a big turn off for men that will increase ur present challenge. Good Luck !
2006-12-27 08:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by borndude2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that don't care enough to take the time to get to know you because of your size aren't worthy of a relationship with you. You shouldn't feel bad about not hooking up with them because they aren't worth pursuing. They guy you end up with will see you for the beautiful PERSON that you are. Those kinds of guys are fewer and far between. Most are very shallow. Anyone who ends up with one of those losers to me is settling anyway. What happens if God forbid they marry and she gets fat? Relationship over? Who wants to live under that kind of scrutiny & judgment from the one who is supposed to love you unconditionally. It make take some extra time to find your Mr. Right but I promise it will be worth it in the long run.
God bless you!
2006-12-27 08:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, I have definitely seen some attractive, overweight people. Usually those people have a really pretty face, nice smile or eyes, good personality/sense of humor, etc. Attractive (and unattractive) people come in all sizes.
2006-12-27 08:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋