It is 50 mile's round trip
2006-12-27 08:04:01 · 49 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you're the one who is willing to drive there every weekend. that's your decision, not his. make him come to you half the time.
2006-12-27 08:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
How long have you guys been dating? If you want to see him and you make the choice to drive all that way no he shouldn't. If it's a problem for you don't go. Tell him he should come to your house. I dated a guy who lived further than that from me round trip and I went to see him 5 days a week and on the weekend he would come see me. I felt if I made the choice to go see him it wasn't his responsibility to pay my gas. We dated for over a year before we married.
2006-12-27 08:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by askywalkersmom 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you go to his house does he take care of your needs? Do you pay his gas when he comes to you? 50 miles isnt that far if you really care. If the gas is a big deal maybe you should rethink the relationship
2006-12-27 08:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by jake622003 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends does he pay for everything else once you get there like food and dates and stuff if yes Id say no. However perhaps you can discuss it with him if its becoming a burden to you for him to help. either that or don't go EVERY WEEKEND. let him travel and pay to come see you sometimes if if it means staying in a hotel.
If he doesnt pay for anything, and doesnt want to help with the gas if you ask ... I'd say Dump his cheap broke azz! Men will only do what you allow him and a closed mouth never get feed!
2006-12-27 08:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are driving with him or not. Well if you are going to his house I dont think so because you are making the trip because you want to. Try to split the weekends. You go to his house one weekend and the next weekend let him come to your house. That way the gas cost is equal.
2006-12-27 08:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did he ask you to come to his house, if he did you bet he should pay for the gas, the meals and all the entertainment. When he starts saying , TIMES ARE GETTING HARD, YOU NEED TO TIGHTEN THAT BELT UP A NOTCH OR TWO , CAUSE A DOLLAR SAVED IS A DOLLAR MADE. That is the time to find a new boy friend because that sucker is tight.and you don't want to
waste another day on him or the wear and tear on your car.
2006-12-27 08:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, with gas prices what they are, a 50 mile round trip ain't cheap, every weekend. But you want to go, and he wants you to, so you share the cost of what you both want.
2006-12-27 08:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
no, it is ur choose to see him and so it should be ur money. i know that gas is alot these days and u prob need the money for school or something, but just think of it as this. if u really like the guy then 30 dollars isnt alot to pay to see him. GOOD LUCK with the money sit. and the boy friedn sit. lol
2006-12-27 08:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
I drove 120 miles ONE WAY every weekend for a year to see my boyfriend (now fiancee). Never even thought about him giving me gas money for it.
2006-12-27 08:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's absurd Cleo. Assuming that he provides the place to stay and the food, it is extremely childish to gripe about a measly $6 for gas.
2006-12-27 08:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by snvffy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Alternate weekends with him driving to your house half the time.
2006-12-27 08:06:28 · answer #11 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋