Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

What should I speak about? I've been asked to personally talk, any ideas on quotes.. etc.?

2006-12-27 08:37:35 · 4 answers · asked by sikes 2 in Friends

i'm chicken scared or something but i 'm not that close to her anymore either but I ALWAYS CALL her on the holidays..
well ever sence she has been in and out of hospitals and i seen her all plugged in lost her hair she weights about 1 lb and don't look too good!
I had her phone number in my phone all i had to do was press send! and I didn't I'm a terrible friend and i feel bad because of my selfishness but i really have not a clue what to say i want to keep her moods up not bring her down if i was to call her i would be searching and i still am search for some sort of word then Hey i just called to say marry xmas well i'm going to let you go now...

i mean that sort seems like a slap in the face! but i want to call her! I want to know how she is doing! I want her to know that i love her.. i also want to tell her i'm so scared and i don't know how to act around her!
should i say this stuff to her?
please help me I love her like a sister and she is my oldest friend

2006-12-27 08:37:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i notcied ever since i was little he would put his hand on me like my lower back or walk by me and reach out and grab my arm shoulder...but he never does it to anyone else. not my sister or aunts. only me and he did it again on xmas and it makes me very uncomfortable my bday is coming up and big family dinner i dont want him there i dont want to invite him. im scared to tell my family or parents cuz what if they think im just being silly or lieing or something...what if they dont believe me ? or just tell me to grow up....how do i tell someone or get over this.....please help me

2006-12-27 08:36:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-27 08:36:11 · 15 answers · asked by L 4 in Singles & Dating

He's mad at me and I was about to ask him if he wanted to come over to my house to study and watch movies but he just started yelling at me. He was like, "No, just go away." The only thing I could possibly think of is because I was some-what flirting with his girlfriend, then she broke up with him because she was actually cheating on him with my other friend and I kind-of knew...
But I just want to know how to make him befriend me again. I really like him and I want him all my own.

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2006-12-27 08:35:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 37 years old and don't have any friends that visit me. I work alone. My wife is leaving me. Basically, I'm gonna be alone. I'm too shy for the bar scene to work and I'm fat so even if I went I wouldn't have any luck.

2006-12-27 08:35:43 · 15 answers · asked by david419_2000 1 in Friends

Are there any people out there, who has felt a deep passion for someone, before you even got a chance to be with him/her? Its like deep down inside you know that he/she is the perfect one for you? What goes through your heart and mind?

2006-12-27 08:34:49 · 34 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:34:10 · 10 answers · asked by Lady Tiger 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, my mom's friends daughter (we've never met) want's me to email her. i want to write her, b/c i don't want to hurt her feelings, but ..... what do i say???

not that this matters, but they only wear skirts.

2006-12-27 08:34:09 · 3 answers · asked by ThinkPink 3 in Singles & Dating

we chat and flirt sometimes and talk about personal things and share our secrets and things that happen in our life, now i want ot meet her but she tells me, not yet nothing personal, why can't we just meet?

2006-12-27 08:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by ramdor20002001 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my gf that we wont get married till i get rich !! im 20 years old now,,and she got kinda upset cause she wanted to get married at age of 26 which means after 6 years ,, but i dont think i'll be able to
get rich in six years...and the reason WHY! well.. i believe that rich people have better marriage than US ,, not all of them but most
because i believe that money makes you happy , yeah it does trust me
see , what money does is give you less strees which makes u able to focuse on ur marriage give it more time,. instead of thinking 24/7 about your job , agree ?
everyone knows that rich people get more rich and poor people get more poor everyday !! i dont wanna waste my life on focusing on my job and leave my family .. i cant do two things at the same time
agree?
now i dont want answers from kids/teenagers who think that life is all about L O V E , and with love you can live happy lol , because honey u cant live happy when ur broke !!

2006-12-27 08:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I have never cheated nor have I lied about cheating...he says since I lied before how can he trust me now and he searches my phone, notebooks and private things I guess I dont mind cause Im being honest but does anyone know how I can handle this or prove my innocence once and for all? Will he ever trust me? Not to mention I am in councling and working to be a better person so I never make a mistake like that again...anyone help??

2006-12-27 08:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-27 08:31:53 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years, though wei have known each other for over Five years. Anyway, We have gotton engaged over two months now. My b/f has a 7 year old daughter with his ex,which does not bother me.

What bothers me is that, ever since we got engaged, his ex calls him a lot more at late hours of the night asking for things not relating to their daughter. In addition to this, my b/f is now whispering to her whenever she calls him when i am near by or if we are sitting down with each other, he moves away.

We have never had this problem before, neither do i have any other problems with him.

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2006-12-27 08:31:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem with one of my best mates. he buys something e.g. clothes, trainers, jackets. He would use them to the maximum amount of time which is a good thing because you have paid for it but..... He would have minimum amount of clothes in his wardrobe for e.g. 2 trousers, 2 tops, 1 jacket 1 trainers and he would wear them for a year or two. As a friend i'm cool with that but i heard other people bad-mouthing my mate saying how cheap he looks. financially he is healthy so i dont see why he would not would to go shopping. i have tried several time to tell him about going shopping and he says he is happy with what he has. can you please help me as he is a really good friend of mine and i feel for him.

2006-12-27 08:31:21 · 1 answers · asked by Jack 3 in Friends

2006-12-27 08:31:12 · 8 answers · asked by liveurlife411 1 in Friends

my cousin is not a supporter of it but i really like him & he's kinda acting like he likes me 2 like giving me stuff & we text each other all the time

2006-12-27 08:30:38 · 27 answers · asked by hannahsbigfeet 3 in Singles & Dating

I highly suspect my girlfriend of cheating judged from messages on the computer back and forth from her ex-boyfriend. She cares about me a lot, as ironic as it sounds, and she does not know I have seen the messages. I do not know what to do as I love her to death but its eating me up inside not knowing whether in fact she has slept with somebody else. Please give thoughtful advice only.

2006-12-27 08:29:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Called a friend a bit ago, and he talked "in code" because his parents were close. Come on---we've been friends for 5 1/2 years. I'm offended...would you be?

2006-12-27 08:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Friends

Here is the history: my exgirlfriend left me ten months ago to start dating this guy. the problem is we just met at the wrong time, both just got out of long term relationships. I have tried to walk away, but we connected, I have never felt this way about anyone in my life, I am convinced she is/was my one. since the breakup, we talk daily, have gone out a couple of times, she keeps telling me she is leaving, is constantly telling me she wants to be with me, but she doesnt leave him, always excuses to stay: he wont let me go, his divorce is almost over, his kids are here, etc. she makes plans with me time and time again, but fails to follow through. I am so tired of being hurt, tired of getting my hopes up to be with her only for something to happen and we cant be together. I dont want to give up, date someone else, then find out she finally left him. Should I give her the time she needs? although she has been saying she is leaving for months. when is enough enough?I do love her

2006-12-27 08:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by brent f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:29:40 · 5 answers · asked by Courtney 2 in Singles & Dating

Where are you going to spend that night, with whom...?

2006-12-27 08:29:29 · 6 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm very distraught over my hubby. I work everyday and he hasn't had a job in 3 months and I don't see him hustling to look for another one. In the meantime, I'm going to take another full-time job just to make it and I'm overwhelmed at the thought of it. I will only have time to sleep. There are many things wrong in this relationship.....I don't know why but sometimes I can't stand him and I'm irritable a lot. He isn't very romantic--pretty immature and only acts sweet when he wants sex, food, or money. He has many issues and a costly addiction but isn't a bad person. How can I leave this situation gracioiusly? Whenever I bring it up, he just rolls his eyes like it's a game and treats me as I were the villain. He's handsome, not fat or anything-so maybe he'll find someone else to take care of him. I just want to be able to relax and focus on my kid and have a healthy life! I can't stand to smell smoke and I'm tired of his mood swings.

2006-12-27 08:29:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First of all, I had all the songs picked out when my fiance and I decided to have a DJ, however, now that we've decided on a guitar soloist and possibly a duet w/a violin...I have no idea what songs to do. They of course will be instrumental. I would like suggestions for bride/groom, father/daughter, step-father/daughter, etc...Thanks in advance.

2006-12-27 08:29:12 · 4 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

Looking for a THomas Warren Kadell and dont have his ss# DL# are any other info. please help!

2006-12-27 08:28:52 · 8 answers · asked by talley 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months we havent had time alone 4 about a month . he has been watching his lil sis and working we still talk alot but havent seen each other in a long time!!!!.............What should i do ????????????????

2006-12-27 08:28:30 · 7 answers · asked by JonJon's Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

it start out he's all happy with you then the next thing he's all like im confused. and he doesn't know what he wants. see this is why i don't get about guys, well i guess i don't need to. they always think the grass is gon be greener on the other side or something. is this what it is? he's the one who ask me out, so i accept it because i have feelings for him also. at first, it started out good. cuz we trust each other and honest each other. i even spend nearly a month of my life with him. i would plan things out with him because he means a lot to me. i do really love him. he's a really sweet bf. weeks after that, he told me he needs a break and want us to be friends. i got mad at him, we didn't talked to each for a while. but then we both nice to each other. i have to accept what he wants. *sigh* give him space. even though, we hang out a lil while. then a few months, i got mad at him for sum reason. then we were kool. then he's like i dunno if you want to go back with me anymore?

2006-12-27 08:28:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were goin out for bout 2 months.n he made me rly happy.We both thot we were perfect together.1 day he broke up with me and said he was confusd and wantd to b single.He said he still lovd me and it was not my fault at all. But I was crushed.Even worse, the next day he had a new gf.He dumpd her after a week and told me it was cuz she was a creep.Which i could totally see:she would cut her ex bfs name in her leg and a broken heart in her stomach..so i kind of saw were he came from.he says he regrets breaking up with me and only did it cuz he wantd to be single.But he still like me alot. And didn't even like the other girl he went out with and that he only did it cuz he cudnt take feeling unlovd..he either wants to go out with me or no one at all for a while. Even tho he can prtty much hav any1 he wants. But, i cant hav any1 i want, there is also a chance of him just wanting to hook up with me. He did say if i didnt wanna go bak ot wit him..he wudnt make me. i wana tho.dont no if i shud

2006-12-27 08:26:55 · 28 answers · asked by vayyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

he has the looks but he is so .....so......girl Crazy!! PLease help

2006-12-27 08:26:45 · 17 answers · asked by rhysisit 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 08:26:32 · 31 answers · asked by educator 1 in Marriage & Divorce