i told my gf that we wont get married till i get rich !! im 20 years old now,,and she got kinda upset cause she wanted to get married at age of 26 which means after 6 years ,, but i dont think i'll be able to
get rich in six years...and the reason WHY! well.. i believe that rich people have better marriage than US ,, not all of them but most
because i believe that money makes you happy , yeah it does trust me
see , what money does is give you less strees which makes u able to focuse on ur marriage give it more time,. instead of thinking 24/7 about your job , agree ?
everyone knows that rich people get more rich and poor people get more poor everyday !! i dont wanna waste my life on focusing on my job and leave my family .. i cant do two things at the same time
agree?
now i dont want answers from kids/teenagers who think that life is all about L O V E , and with love you can live happy lol , because honey u cant live happy when ur broke !!
2006-12-27 08:33:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion your thought process is pretty twisted.
What do you believe is rich?
Yes it is nice to have money but that brings on a different set of problems.
Living comfortably (not rich) is nice because your not to worried that it is a marriage for just the money.
When two people agree to a life together forever they sure should be something there like LOVE.
No matter which course your life takes it is a journey and it takes many paths.
That is what I really believe.
I am sorry to hear that you can't do two things at the same time. Maybe you should relax more and let time handle the fine stuff. Just do your best.
Good luck to you and your girlfriend.
2006-12-27 08:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i agree with u wen u say that if ur rich u live kinda com4table and so on and u dont have to worry bout certain things and i dont think life is all about love but i think that maybe if u wait 2 long some1 else will come along and snatch her and dont say its coz she didnt love u or anything but maybe she got frustrated.I wudnt want 2 be rich and live a lonely life and i do blieve that wen a person is rich he is motivated to work harder neglect his family in his quest 4 more success and riches its like a drug u just want more and more.
I dont think u should put money in front of ur quest 4 love and a family.If u died today and ur not rich at least u had some1 who stood by u and loved u and motivated u.Rich is good its great but sometimes otherthings r more important
2006-12-27 17:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money can't buy you love and there's no guarantee that you will get rich in six years or ever. If I was her, I would be upset too and leave your sorry excuse of a man. Well try telling people who are broke and see how happy they are. Well there are a lot of rich miserable people around because it's hard to find true people let alone true love.
2006-12-27 16:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a teenager myself. I recently just turned thirteen, but I think I process a fair amount of maturity essential for an answer. I apologize for going against your age group expectations.
The main factor in generating a conclusion would be the question of what quality of marriage and after-marriage you and your girlfriend desire? With a good amount of bills and bank deposit, you would be able to afford a higher quality marriage and better honeymoon. Without currency, a lower quality marriage, honeymoon, etc would be the only choices. Do you wish to enjoy married life sooner and satisfy your girlfriend but not live as high-class, or do you wish to wait and make your celebrations and after-marriage life of better quality? Which one of the two process more appeal to you?
Since you believe that wealth is essential for a good marriage and happiness, waiting and saving up would likely be better. Tell your girlfriend that you love her, but that you are not financially fit enough for the heavy expenses of marriage. Satisfy her desires with a reasonable conclusion, and make it clear to your family that you are on a mission for financial currency. Don't spend all of your energy on your work, but make it one of your top life priorities.
2006-12-27 16:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by Pariah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the wrong outlook to what marriage is. It is a binding contract and has nothing to do with statis in life. It is about committing yourself to that person, not how much money you make. And BTW, if you are rich, chances are you work your *** off 24/7......there is no free ride to being rich....unless you plan on being a movie star or paris hilton.
2006-12-27 16:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by ben 3man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I do not agree with you at all. Money can not buy you happiness. It can buy you trivial things, but not happiness. If you love someone, you love them regardless of financial standings. Why would you put a status symbol such as richness on love?
2006-12-27 16:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's y u marry a rich lawyer or doctor and then u won't have to worry about gettin rich
2006-12-27 16:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jade W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she reads this, realizes how superficial you are, and leaves. Because that is a pathetic way to want to live your life.
2006-12-27 16:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by aimeelopez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money is the root of all evil.
The more you have, the more you will want and that brings its own kind of stresses.
2006-12-27 16:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by PomOnTour 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do u not think making her wait is going to bring stress to the relationship as well?
2006-12-27 16:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋