He's mad at me and I was about to ask him if he wanted to come over to my house to study and watch movies but he just started yelling at me. He was like, "No, just go away." The only thing I could possibly think of is because I was some-what flirting with his girlfriend, then she broke up with him because she was actually cheating on him with my other friend and I kind-of knew...
But I just want to know how to make him befriend me again. I really like him and I want him all my own.
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2006-12-27 08:35:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were a man and you flirted with my girlfriend I'd not be your friend either. Leave him alone. Maybe he'll get over it and maybe he won't.
2006-12-27 08:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend who was cheating on his wife. He knew I'd out him, if I knew it, so he guarded it from me very carefully. I played the beard to some of his meetings with his secret gf UNWITTINGLY -- she'd ask me if I wanted to go see a movie. I was single and said "sure." And then she'd throw in "Can Bob come along too?" I'd say sure, and I thought it was all above board.
Eventually, his wife found out he had been cheating. And even though I swear I knew nothing about it, she always had a problem with me after that, like I had been a party to the destruction of her relationship with her husband. I think I just brought it all back to her, so the only thing she could do was just sort of flush me, in her mind. I hated this, because I considered his wife a friend at one time.
But I bet your friend sees you ALL as party to the end of their relationship. Not a lot you can do about that, sorry to say. It's emotional, not logical.
2006-12-27 08:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are sorry about his gf breaking up with him and if he needs to talk you are there for him. I dont think he is so much mad at you right now as he is sad about the break up. He is just trying to deal with it the best he can and right now that is by pushing everyone away. Trying contacting him on the computer to say hey wats up just wanted to know if you wanted to go do something? Let him know you are there for him when he is ready to talk.
2006-12-27 08:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time. Just go on as if you didn't notice him being mad at you and maybe he will come around. Don't pressure him into anything or being your friend, if you were a good friend then he will realize it and forgive you. Good Luck!!
2006-12-27 08:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by smores 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his girlfriend just broke up with him, he is probably mad at the whole world. If you can give him time, or patience, he should be back and be friends with you again soon. Good luck.
2006-12-27 08:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just come over his house and talk to him, bring a movie and some popcorn, have a blast talk about a way to get his ex to come back to him, that way he will know that u care and want to be ur friend again
2006-12-27 08:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Katleen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. wow, she sounds somewhat "casual" approximately hooking up... She ought to have a minimum of informed you that the two certainly one of them had "a ingredient" in the previous introducing you .. pals /w advantages is positive, yet no longer while your different pals have had a similar "courting" with this guy.. and make constructive HE is conscious and you know up front no strings, to maintain the techniques video games away.
2016-11-23 20:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick a wall and say, "My friend's buttocks smell nice!" five times, punch yourself in the nose 8 times, and spin around until you vomit. Your friend will see how desperate you are and take you to the hospital and sign the papers to give you an operation on your leg and nose. That's what friends are for.
2006-12-27 08:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Maninblack 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is just mad at everybody probably... He just need time. Apologize and then give him time. He'll come around....
2006-12-27 08:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself "Was i really a friend to him?" When you answer that one ask yourself this,"what would i do if he did this to me?"
He'll forgive you, just give him some time!
2006-12-27 08:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋