Here is the history: my exgirlfriend left me ten months ago to start dating this guy. the problem is we just met at the wrong time, both just got out of long term relationships. I have tried to walk away, but we connected, I have never felt this way about anyone in my life, I am convinced she is/was my one. since the breakup, we talk daily, have gone out a couple of times, she keeps telling me she is leaving, is constantly telling me she wants to be with me, but she doesnt leave him, always excuses to stay: he wont let me go, his divorce is almost over, his kids are here, etc. she makes plans with me time and time again, but fails to follow through. I am so tired of being hurt, tired of getting my hopes up to be with her only for something to happen and we cant be together. I dont want to give up, date someone else, then find out she finally left him. Should I give her the time she needs? although she has been saying she is leaving for months. when is enough enough?I do love her
2006-12-27 08:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by brent f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look have to forget all ur problems and try to put in ur mind that u shouldnt be sad for such things like this
u can find many not many millions of other girls one day u will love one of them and u will be happy again
2006-12-27 08:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Til the person in question is sure that he's leaving and have already left. First of all does not seem to me that she wants to leave all that bad as long as she can keep you hanging she's fine with that. Married men do it to the other woman all the time. Keep them hanging on for years and never leave and if they do leave they leave with someone else. I would say move on if you are still single when she leaves her partner then you two can hook up but right now I would find someone that is free to date. Walk away now before it's too late.
2006-12-27 08:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 09:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by mundell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she truly was leaving him she would of done it right there and then, but since shes making all the excuses. forget her. find someone new don't waste your life waiting around for her. to me she wants you on the rebound . go and find someone that will give you thier all attention and respect. and you won't have it with her. enough is enough was weeks ago.
2006-12-27 08:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain to her. Tell her you can't keep waiting. You can't spend your life waiting for someone that wont commit to you. If she is true then she will leave him. If not even though it hurts you'll have your answer. Blessed Be
2006-12-27 08:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by harmony moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited for a guy for 6 months and he turned out to be a lying jerk...id move on
2006-12-27 08:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. If she claims she's with the wrong guy, she would have left. She stringing you along in case this other guy don't work out.
2006-12-27 08:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now.. you are being played for a fool. She left you once and is now using you while she's with someone else.
2006-12-27 08:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are better girls out there
good luck buddy!
2006-12-27 08:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait i understand
2006-12-27 08:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by bnbnbnb123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋