I'm very distraught over my hubby. I work everyday and he hasn't had a job in 3 months and I don't see him hustling to look for another one. In the meantime, I'm going to take another full-time job just to make it and I'm overwhelmed at the thought of it. I will only have time to sleep. There are many things wrong in this relationship.....I don't know why but sometimes I can't stand him and I'm irritable a lot. He isn't very romantic--pretty immature and only acts sweet when he wants sex, food, or money. He has many issues and a costly addiction but isn't a bad person. How can I leave this situation gracioiusly? Whenever I bring it up, he just rolls his eyes like it's a game and treats me as I were the villain. He's handsome, not fat or anything-so maybe he'll find someone else to take care of him. I just want to be able to relax and focus on my kid and have a healthy life! I can't stand to smell smoke and I'm tired of his mood swings.
2006-12-27 08:29:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick his lazy *** out!!!
2006-12-27 08:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out as fast as you can. Either put him out or you move out. He not looking for a job so he just hanging out while you work hard to pay the bills. He has it all right now, you give him money and sex and all he has to do it is act sweet.
2006-12-27 16:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good idea...now you just need to hand him the walking papers and child support papers..I have no pity for a man who takes advantage of a good woman...I say RUN FAST
2006-12-27 16:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Radtech1996 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to re-evaluate this relationship and if it's not healthy for you and your child you need to set some ground rules. Tell him what is expected of him. If he refuses...kick him to the curb. You don't want dead weight. Good luck
2006-12-27 16:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get ANOTHER full time job and he's not really looking for a job. Honey, don't put up with that! He has no respect for you OR himself. On to bigger and better.
2006-12-27 16:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the one paying the bills right now..and he is living off your money and not being nice to you. why would anyone want that? you need to leave him. you aren't there to mother him.
2006-12-27 16:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE... trade his lazy *** in....
2006-12-27 16:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lovley RT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋