We were goin out for bout 2 months.n he made me rly happy.We both thot we were perfect together.1 day he broke up with me and said he was confusd and wantd to b single.He said he still lovd me and it was not my fault at all. But I was crushed.Even worse, the next day he had a new gf.He dumpd her after a week and told me it was cuz she was a creep.Which i could totally see:she would cut her ex bfs name in her leg and a broken heart in her stomach..so i kind of saw were he came from.he says he regrets breaking up with me and only did it cuz he wantd to be single.But he still like me alot. And didn't even like the other girl he went out with and that he only did it cuz he cudnt take feeling unlovd..he either wants to go out with me or no one at all for a while. Even tho he can prtty much hav any1 he wants. But, i cant hav any1 i want, there is also a chance of him just wanting to hook up with me. He did say if i didnt wanna go bak ot wit him..he wudnt make me. i wana tho.dont no if i shud
2006-12-27 08:26:55 · 28 answers · asked by vayyyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl , I would run, Not walk, back to this guy he sounds like your kind of guy.. I wouldn't waste any time either,, He just might go get him another gf.. If he can get any girl he wants ? I just wouldn't let them have him,, I would take him, charish, and keep him for yourself..
THE BEST OF LUCK TO YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-27 08:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to your heart. a girl can't listen to anyone else;they can ake advice..but in the end they always end up doing what they think is best. I would say move on, he doesn't know if he can be honest, trustworthy, and a good boyfriend that can keep a relationship yet. And that there ae plenty more fish in the sea, and you should wait for Nemo. :)
But, I am deff not going to say that. hahaa, because i am pretty much going through the same exact thing right now. it suckssss.
He said he regrets breaking up wit you and some crapp?? haha yahh. i know how you feel and i think that you should give him another chance. Make him work for what he wants..don't go right to him and ask him out. Make him ask you out again. Also, know no matter how much you love him and you know how much he loves you.. remember how hurt he made you feel. Even if he felt bad- he still did it. Soo, no matter what your friends say, his friends say, or all the other girls that like him thinkk. LISTEN TO YOUR HEART. Nobody elses.
because i bet at least some of them other girls he can hook up with.. but if he wants you and promises to care and love you. GOD BLESS. & good luck. <33
2006-12-27 17:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by kelzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I wouldn't take him back! You said that when he first broke up with you he said that it wasn't you he just wanted to be single, well if that was true then why would he have gone out with the creepy chick?
It would be best if you just moved on! It will be hard but you have to face the truth he might not truly care for you that much! Yeah he said he still loved you after he broke up with you, but if he loved you then why in the world would he have broken up with you and gone out with a creepy girl.
Have you ever thought that he was/has been lying to you? Cuz it seems that way. Guys are just like that sometimes, I mean there are some very sweet guys but its natural that they will lie to you just to get you back and break your heart again.
There are alot more fish in the sea so just move on to some one alot better and some one that won't treat you like that.
I hope some of this helped!
2006-12-27 16:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by ***ROCKSTAR*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You can go out with him but if I were you, I would date other guys as well.
He just isn't ready for making a commitment yet, with you or anyone else.
He will probably break up with you again, the first time he meets another pretty face.
Don't leave yourself wide open for a broken heart again.
He won't remain faithful any time soon and neither should you.
You might want a male friend waiting in the wings for you, if you should be hurt again.
2006-12-27 16:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. He is a liar. He told u he wanted 2 b single but he was with someone else.
He said he went out with the other girl cause he wanted to feel loved. Lust is more like it.
I don't think you should. Sounds like he wants sex. And once he gets it from you, he is done with you and moves on. They like the chase. Once the rabbit is caught, time to hunt for a new rabbit.
Why can't you have any1 u want? If he can, you can do it, too.
2006-12-27 16:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you should let this guy go or at least give him time to clear his head and figure out what he wants. I know it hurts when someone leaves you and doesent make sense, but the way he explained it is not of someone who values you as someone that they truly care about. Trust me, he's not the only guy who's done this (speaking from experience). Try and move on..put it down to experience.
2006-12-27 16:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by trida702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt. If he really liked u, he would have at least given u a reason, other than its not u its me, for the breakup. He needs to understand that going out with u is something worth while, and can't be taken advantage of. Ur not there to b some1 he can return to after a bad experience, ur there for a good and meaningful relationship. good luck
2006-12-27 16:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by hazel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, do NOT go back with him. If he had really loved you he wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place. From personal experience I know that he just wants to hook up with you or he can't find another girlfriend or in your case he did but she was psycho!!!!!!!!!!! You shouldn't take him back because if he didn't know what he wanted the first time what makes you think he does now????????
2006-12-27 16:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by coreen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really tough question, because I know you really want him back and you probably still love him. But if he leaves you once, he will do it again. So my advice is to take the other road and forget about him, find someone worth your tears!
2006-12-27 16:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by hollicrombie92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would't go out with him again, especially if it's just about hooking up. don't make a mistake. You could hook up with him and that be the end of that and one day, I promise, you will regret it. Think about this before you make any rash decisions.
2006-12-27 16:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by aimabbs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't wait to try being single very long. Make hin wait a week before you take him back. If he dates anyone during that week, don't take him back at all. Don't tell him he has to wait a week either, just tell him you need to think about it without giving him a timeframe.
2006-12-27 16:31:15 · answer #11 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋