heres what happened i was sleeping over my boyfriends house, i happened to eat alot of gassy foods, then without realizing i ursted with a loud, very embarassig fart, we all stayed silent but i could ell from my boyfriends face and body language that he was grossed out and completely turned off by me!
, is their anything i should do or say now since i never said anything about last night, i feel so emabarassed and disgusted about my self, how do i change my boyfriends nasty thought about what happened to me??
2006-12-27 07:30:59 · 70 answers · asked by freshcalmbreeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hilarious. if he has no sense of humor or himself, then dump him.
2006-12-27 07:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hushyanoize 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well, you could just apologize a lot. just say 'im very sorry about that' or even 'oops' (thats not so effective though). next time maybe avoid gassy foods when you plan to be with him. or if you feel all bloated or you feel a fart coming, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom or something and let it all out as much as you can! maybe turn on the faucet to drown out any sounds youre expecting.
but technically speaking farts are natural and i'll bet anything your boyfriend farts too. it just so happened he hasnt had an accidentally loud one in front of you. (or has he?) so if he got really grossed out then thats pretty immature. if he does fart in your presence maybe you could give him the same grossed out look instead of pretending it didnt happen, and he'll get the picture ;-)
2006-12-27 07:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by dumb.doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be that he thinks girls shouldn't do that in public and he thinks girls who do are rude. So, do what is natural when you are rude and say something along the lines of "I'm so sorry about what happened yesterday, it was awfully embarrassing and I wish it had never happened". Then drop it from all conversation and if he is a gentleman he will never by word or deed convey the idea that he though you were gross.
What men overlook between men is not always what they believe women should do in front of them. But he should be mature and caring enough to recognize how uncomfortable you found your faux pas to be.
2006-12-27 07:40:01 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the long run, I don't think it will really matter, not if he really likes you. but, if you want to make him forget all about your fart (like yesterday) you should make a secret and special candlelight dinner for him (alcohol is a must) and dress very sexy
(i.e. slutty). Seduce your victim throughout the meal by using sexy foods (You shoudl definitely have strawberries and whip cream for dessert, that way you can suck the cream off the strawberries and really get his pencil moving). But keep in mind NO GASSY FOODS. When the meal is over (or sooner), you two should be going at it like a pair of crazed wilderbeasts in an ether factory. I guarantee you that he will forget all about your anal discharge! thats what I have to say...remember it..
2006-12-27 07:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone farts--and he needs to come to terms with that!! If he is "turned off" by that, then there is something wrong with HIM. I know that you felt embarrased, but really, why should you feel disgusted with yourself?? I guess I think a bit differently because I am married and let me tell you that my husband and I have gone through it all--farting included!! Sometimes we laugh about it, sometimes we don't say anything because it is NOT that important!! He has seen me sick, without makeup, with prickly legs, period problems, you name it. It happens to us all!! You will eventually be that comfortable with your significant other and it won't be an issue, ever again. Good luck and don't beat yourself up about this.
2006-12-27 08:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's partly society's fault, promoting the "women don't fart" idiocy. Real body functions don't always fit the Cosmopolitan image of a woman, after all.
Don't worry about it. Next time, though, start laughing... he'll probably laugh too, then you can laugh and talk about it, and that's much better than a strange, awkward silence.
If you stay with him, you'll fart in front of him many more times. He'll have to deal with it. If he can't, that's his problem.
Now go enjoy some baked beans and cornbread. ;)
2006-12-27 07:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by JStrat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he thinks that is nasty? It's totally natural. Just wait until you live with a guy, and you'll realize just how nasty guys really are. A fart is not a big deal at all, as long as you didn't get a surprise with it. That would be kinda gross.
2006-12-27 07:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by white.devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem was you remained silent. If you said something like...who let the frog in here?...then started looking for one, it would have helped...also you needed to fan it his way so he could get a good whiff...that's how men deal with each others farts....I think he would love for you to do it while he's eating you out sometime too.
2006-12-27 07:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that sucks...but I do not think that your b/f should be turned off by it. We all past gas and it is not like you did it just to do it. If he can not handle a bit of gas than maybe he is not the one. My boyfriend and I are very comfy with each other and he has not problem with a bit of gas etc. Nasty things happen and then you just move on!! Good luck!
2006-12-27 07:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing was ever said, then I will say that you should have said excuse me. Besides that, if he is not mature enough to understand, then it is HIS problem and not yours. I have heard of some girls who do that while they are sitting on their bf's lap and they think it is funny. Whatever. At least you have manners. And if your bf has never passed gas then stay away because he is due to explode at any moment! NEVER LET ANYONE MAKE YOU FEEL "LESS THAN" especially for something you could not help. Good luck.
2006-12-27 07:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he got turned off by a fart then he is gay because sometimes when you do it doggy fashion you pass gas through your vagina. would he be turned off by that? believe me passing gas is not a shame but next time dont let out all of the fart. first yu have to do a test fart to see if everyone around you can hear it and then if they cant you should really fart. LET IT OUT!!!!
2006-12-27 07:36:13 · answer #11 · answered by wendy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋