my fiance mother think everything is about her. she don't come see her grandkids unless she needs something done for her. she has two other kids and they don't have any kids. this christmas was the horrible christmas we've very had toghter. she didn't get very much for my fiance and her two other kids got like 800. a peiceon chirstmas presents.know he don't want her to see our kids.she been in a hospial cause she went crazy many time she's unstable.she has mutiply personality disorder and i don't want my kids around that. my fiance has another daughter and he can't see her because of his mother and i've been talking to his ex and she going to let us go see her next month
2006-12-27 08:18:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't sound like something you can take personally, since she's ill.
With regard to whether or not you want her around your kids, that's something you have to discuss with your fiance.
2006-12-27 08:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You've gotten involved with someone who has major baggage. He is her MOTHER. Regardless of what you think of her, or how many gifts she buys. I understand not wanting your child around an unstable person, but unless he cuts ties with her, you're stuck. I would just make a point to avoid contact with her as much as possible - and let the other children that received the million gifts host her on holidays. Good Luck
2006-12-27 16:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide first whether you will ignore her completely, even when she demands stuff, or be the "Dutch Uncle" and tell her bluntly the way it is, which won't but rarely be her way. Neither is polite. My experience is that politeness is very valuable, but some people take politeness for license. I find I cannot be polite with them. You might find yourself educating your mother-in-law in how to get along with you rather than merely having a relationship of any kind with her.
2006-12-27 16:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there, you'll have some explaining to do to your children but you really have to let this one go. She will ruin things for people around her. Does your fiance want her around?
2006-12-27 16:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Dizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has mental problems I would be a little Leary on letting my kids near her also. How does your partner feel about his mother. Just support him on his decisions because it has to be tough to be a son to a person with a disability.( mental of physical)
2006-12-27 16:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by crazy2733 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes ill have a heart
2006-12-27 16:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋