Well I have been going with him for a while now and everytime I tell him I love him.I feel as though as he doesn't belive me...PLEASE HELP ME!
2006-12-27 08:23:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't prove anything to him.
You're told him, and that's that. You shouldn't have to prove your love to ANYONE. A relationship where you have to prove your love is one that is doomed to fail.
You could be telling that you love him too much. Do you tell him that you love him everytime it gets quiet? While it may be sweet to you, he probably already KNOWS that you love him and it's getting annoying. Talk to him.
2006-12-27 08:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a unique emotion. Every time you feel love it is different each time. Not really better or worse, just different. You might ask yourself, "Am I showing it as much as I'm saying it?" Love is also a narrow road meant for two to travel. As a couple you must travel this road together. No one in front or behind, walk that road together. Many times someone will travel that road alone believing their mate is right beside them. Maybe that's why they say love is blind. To me, love is not blind. Love opens your eyes to the person you are with that you may see the whole person, flaws and all, and still love them. Are you walking this road alone? Has love blinded you or do you see clearly? You may say and express your love enough, but if he doesn't say or express his love in return just as much then maybe you should ask yourself,"Does he really love me?" If it were me I would ask him straight up and ask also for a completely honest answer to this question, "Do you love me and trust me as much as I do you?" I hope his answer is yes. If he hesitates or says "no", you will then be able to free yourself from false hope so that you may pursue a more fulfilling relationship. Good Luck.
2006-12-27 08:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Average Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him. Like other have said before me, you shouldn't have to prove that you love him. If you want to though, the best way to make sure that he understands you to the fullest is just sitting down and getting to the point. Start off with how you feel, what makes you feel that way (i know i sound like a therapist right now...) and just see what he says, if he still gives you that blank look, then you just tell him that you can't keep leading yourself on if he doesn't feel the same.
Best of luck!!!
2006-12-27 08:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he prove to you that he loves you?
Why should you have to prove that at all?
Are you trying to prove to yourself that you love him? Is the lack of belief coming from him or from you?
If you feel it is absolutely necessary, then the only way is to ask him. How can I prove to you that I love you?
And his answer may tell you something about how (or if) he loves you.
I have to say - I don't have a very good feeling about this. Warning lights are going on all over my radar as I read your question.
2006-12-27 08:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying I love you don't always mean is true. You have to show support and understanding in a relationship. Like listening to his problems, giving him advise, not judging him, helping him do things even cook a meal for him, take your time to listen, and just show him that you are caring so the next time you say I love you then he will believe because of your support and understanding you show to him.
2006-12-27 08:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a nice gift to show him that you care. You can also tell him over the phone that you love him. Call him a couple times a day just to tell him that. Take him to the movies and seea movie that you both like. Good luck.
2006-12-27 08:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you have to prove anything to him? He should be interested in you for being you. You can show him that you love him by being with him and doing some things together that you are both interested in. Occassionaly do something with him that you may not enjoy but do it because you want to be with him.
Guys it also goes the other way too.
2006-12-27 08:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you shouldnt have to PROVE to him anything if he doesnt beleive its because he doesnt want to or perhaps he doesnt want to have such a serious relationship, or he feel as though hell have to say it back and he himself is not ready to. Stop telling him, he obviously doesnt want to hear it and I'm sure the next time you tell him hell appreciate it. Anywho...Saying "I love you" doesnt prove that you love someone its what you do that make someone feel loved.
2006-12-27 08:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend kind of does the same thing..he always says "do you?" or ..."no you don't"... but i really really really do! i just try ignoring him everytime he says that, and keep telling him i love him. i tell him he's the only one for me and that nothing will change that. except the exact words i say "sorry hun, you're stuck with me forever" :) haha. he wants to believe me that i love him but its hard because we both had bad relationships in the past. just keep saying it and don't stop. don't ever joke around about not loving him. show him you care and you actually want to be with him.....and just love him forever :)
good luck hun
2006-12-27 08:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite sure your actions and word should be enough to prove your love for him. Maybe he is not in love with you and does not know how to tell you.
2006-12-27 08:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Grand Ma Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋