2006-12-27 08:19:00 · 7 answers · asked by mprice9802 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
having time alone is not the problem. I need ideas to keep things exciting. he never wants to go anywhere, he says we don't have the money
2006-12-27 08:31:47 · update #1
If you have someone who can watch the kids overnight for you like once a week, try that and you and your spouse have a date night. You don't have to go out for dinner or anything, you can have your date night at home. But spend that night alone together.
My wife and I have 3 kids and every Wed. night the kids stay at her mom's overnight and we use it as our date night and we love it. It's a chance for us to be alone without the kids, and we can just spend quality time together. We sometimes go out to dinner, and spend the night together, or sometimes we stay home, and eat dinner at home together, and just do things together.
2006-12-27 08:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have three kids and one on the way and the best time to make love is right after the kids go to bed and know that we always have the mornings that he dose not work we have found that if we do not find time things get hard and we do not want to cheet
2006-12-27 16:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ela J Pete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to be away from the kids. Get a babysitter for a night, and go on dates with your spouse. Or leave the kids for a short weekend with relatives, and take an adult vacation together to reconnect.
2006-12-27 16:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First he needs to get of his butt and enjoy life.There is lots of fun stuff who needs money.Go for a nice walk in the woods,set and tell each other your thoughts fears fantasy's,hopes and dreams.Set one day aside a month and do that special date night.That way you have 30 days to save for that night out.Maybe 40 -50 bucks for just time with you and him.
2006-12-27 16:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THE KIDS CAN GO TO GRANDMAS OR SOMETHING THEN DECORATE YOUR ROOW WITH FLOWER PEDALS AND CANDLES COOK HIM A CANDLE LIGHT DINNER AND START OFF WITH A CANDLE LIGHT SHOWER TOGETHR WASH AND RUB AND THEN PUTON A LIL SOMETHING AND HAVE A CANDLE LIGHT SUPPER AND TURN ON YOUR FAVORIT MUSIC AND SLOW DANCE THEN DANE YOUR WAY TO THE BED RM AND BY THEN HE SHOULD B BRETHING REL HARD ////// OR ///// DRESS UP ALL IN BLK HOSE HEELS AND ALL TIE HIM UP AND HAVE YOUR WAY WITH HIM /// WRITE HIM A COUPON BOOK WITH THINGS YOU WOULD LIKE TO DO FOR HIM AND A BONUS SOMETHING IF HE REDEEMS THEM ALL IN A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF TIEM//// GOOD LUCK
2006-12-28 02:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a sexy outfit.....and heels....
dance for him
make a candle lit dinner for the two of you.
get a babysitter one night a week. plan something different for that one night each week for the two of you to do.
Leave love notes telling him what you want to do to him.
2006-12-27 16:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
naptime and a set bedtime. always 2 hours before you and the hubby go to bed. and NO chores during those 2 hours. don't you dare!!!
2006-12-27 16:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋