2006-12-27 08:13:45 · 19 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Noone is so adaptable that they will be "perfect" for you, because they are NOT you. Usually, over time, the thing we liked most about our mate becomes the thing we can't stand. If we liked that they were sensitive, now we can't stand that they cry all the time. If we liked that they were frugal, now we just feel they are a tightwad. A relationship is a lot of give and take, and when you're in it, the grass always seems greener, but it's not. People who get divorced for reasons other than abuse/drugs/etc just start the cycle all over again with a different person. My mom's been married 4 times. If she were better at stregthening her relationships, she would have only been married once.
2006-12-27 08:18:34 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because no one ( repeat for emphasis, NO ONE) is ideal. You can find good, and very good, and even how did I ever live without him/her? But ideal? Nope. There will always be something that annoys or irritates you, something that grates. Something that is simply missing.
In time you learn to love that - and if she ever started putting the cap back on the toothpaste you'd somehow be disappointed.
But idea? If you use ideal as a measure, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment, and you're going to miss a lot of really great people.
2006-12-27 16:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. An ideal partner, in my opinion, is a soulmate. Someone who really loves you, even more he loves himself. Who loves your great personality AND your weird habits. Who thinks your special and irreplaceable. So yes, you can find your ideal partner. Dont need to look to far, sometimes you search too far you miss out what's already right in front of you.. ;p Good luck!!
2006-12-27 16:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by LoVeAnGeL_BabyV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find an ideal partner; you just have to be patient. You don't want to rush into a serious relationship... so the best thing you can do is pray on it!
2006-12-27 16:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a ideal partner for everyone. Just take your time and he Or she will find you or you're find them. just don't put up with any one don't wast the time.
2006-12-27 16:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Melvina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already found my ideal partner, and her and I have been married now for 10 years, and we are VERY happy.
2006-12-27 16:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did find a one and i am very happy with her only part aggitate me she is far from me in some other country and i have to wait long period of time before i can see her dammn i wish everyone can be lucky. I think if you feel ur relationship is breaking apart try to stay away little that might help.
2006-12-27 16:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bill S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes grasshopper. It starts with you being an ideal person . Like minds attract each other
2006-12-27 16:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so. ideal means imaginary object or concept: a concept that exists in the imagination only
2006-12-27 16:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are people for us out there our soul mates and that if we believe that God will help us find that one person for us.
I have known my mate for 10 years and waited for him all this time and we are good together I know that we was ment for one onother
2006-12-27 16:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ela J Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋