alright here's the story. my friend liked this guy. i thought he was nice but i liked someone else. then she wrote him a letter proclaiming her love and he said she was a really good friend but he didnt like her like that. i helped comfort her but she said she was over him. then the next year me and him started talking a lot. we talk on the phone for hours at a time every day. we've told each other we love eachother. my friend was very jealous then said she didnt like him anymore, then said she was jealous...again. i dont know what to do. i feel like a bad friend but i mean i love this guy, and she has been very rude to me. what should i do!?!
2006-12-27 08:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by I Love You.....♪♫♪ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might be upset that he fell in love with you. My fiancee' was dating a friend of mine when we met in 04 and we have been together for almost a year. Sometimes people just aren't right for each other and the best thing for them to do is just let it go. If she's not mature enough to see that you two truly love each other and she has no reason to be upset than she isn't a very good friend. I'm not friends with the other girl anymore either, but it's because she swore up and down that he was coming between us and she was upset/jealous. I hope things work out better for you so you can still be friends with the other girl and still have the guy. Good Luck!!!
2006-12-27 08:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did your best when you comforted her. That is what friends are suppose to do in times like that. Now that she claims that she is over him-let it be just that. She should just deal with what you guys have now and be understanding that a whole year has passed by-things happen in a year. If she was your friend, she shouldn't be too mad about it. It's not like they were dating or sleeping together. Good luck with it all.
2006-12-27 16:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Choji-Canda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
How old are you guys? because friendship has different meanings at different ages But anyways, she had a crush on him a year ago. They never even dated. Therefore, I think she is being childish and is jealous. If you really care for this boy let her know how much you like or love him. If she is really your friend she will understand...Good luck
2006-12-27 16:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bittersweet_emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her mistake for telling a guy she loved him when they barely knew each other. You and the guy at least started talking and finding things in common to have a relationship about. Tell her to take things more slowly with the next guy. She'll probably dump you though, but you haven't done anything wrong.
2006-12-27 16:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. Sounds like she is just mad that she didn't get a chance with him. Plus she is acting really immature. It was a year ago that she liked him. If she is still longing for a guy that she like last year and never dated that is pretty lame. Don't even worry about her. Go for it and have fun with your guy. She'll soon see she was over reacting.
2006-12-27 16:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do two things. Ignore your friend because Apparently she cannot make up her mind about how she feels. You could tell her that you really like the guy and want her to not feel bad about it. If she is really your friend, and you really dont want to let her go then dump the dude. Personally I would go with the first one.
2006-12-27 16:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in a tough spot. well i think it would be best if you in a nice way why did she just keep changing her mind. besides he does not like her he likes excuse me loves you. but i think it would prabably come down to whos relationship is more important this guy or your friends. the love of your life only comes around once maybe if your lucky twice. but friends come and go. why should you give him up for her does she mean that what about you breaking up with him would be better what about that would make her happy i think if she was a true friend she would be happy for you. i gave you my opinion it is your decision to make
2006-12-27 16:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by ~**casandra**~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This gal pal of yours needs to make up her mind about this guy! Look, if you love him, you love him; don't stop just because you're worried about your friend. I would not, however, advise talking about it a lot around her and I would bring something else up when she tries to talk about it. Sorry to be harsh to your friend, but you shouldn't be the one punished for her wishy-washiness. Let your friend sort herself out, and if she stops being your friend over a guy....well, what kind of friend is that?
Hope this helps! Good luck! ^_^
2006-12-27 16:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch, all i can say is friendships last longer than relationships. but honestly, tell her that u really like this guy and that u know that she likes him but as her if u can go out with him. even if u dont care if she lets u or not, u should ask her to make her feel better and make her know that she is more to u than he is. hopefully u get the guy and the friend good luck
2006-12-27 16:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta remember tht if she was a hd m8 she would be happy tht ur happy
but u also gotta remember tht friends do make sacrifices for each other happiness
but ur dealing wiv love which is not a small thing
you should date him but never talk to him infront of her
you should still talk to ur m8 as u used 2
if she still has a problem tell her how u feel
good luck
2006-12-27 16:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋