I am often woken up in the middle of the night by the bed trembling. Upon waking and investigating the situation I find my boyfriend is masturbating. It pisses me off extremely. I dont know how to address it. I have tried to let him know how I feel, but it doesnt seem to faze him. I have also noticed that he wants sex all of the time and has a hard time just being affectionate. This also upsets me.
2006-12-27 08:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by jackiemontgomer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what kind of sex life do you have with him?
2006-12-27 08:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by dana j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how often do you have sex? Sometimes guys get a little too horney all the time because they think sex is too few and far between. Maybe you need to spread it out, like once every other day. or once a day if you want. Im not saying have sex with him ALL the time, just say no like half the time. As far as the masturbation....thats kinna wierd. Ide be pissed too.
2006-12-27 16:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by cesarsauce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jackie. I know you didn't ask, but I'll tell you anyway. He doesn't love you, and he will probably never will, He is just using you as a sex object, that is all he knows as to how to "enjoy life". Go ahead and marry him and you will ruin your life for good... for bad.
Now, do you think you will be happy with a situation like this for the rest of your life? If not, why are you still with him? Let me tell you about your future with him... may be a year, then he will find someone sexier than you and there goes your marriage. Be wise. and act accordingly. God Bless.
2006-12-27 16:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It definitely sounds like he's addicted to sex. The fact that he knows you don't like him spanking the monkey in your bed and he does it anyway shows he has no respect for you. The way to address it would be to tell him either you stop this s**t or I'm gone!
2006-12-27 16:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you staying with someone who is doing something that you find upsetting? Be glad you are not married to him - time for one of you to make different living arrangements.
2006-12-27 16:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by marilynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your boyfriends behavoir makes you uncomfortable. If you feel like his "sex addiction" is too much for you, then leave him. Theres nothing worse than a man, who can't keep his pants up!
2006-12-27 16:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help a Brotha OUT!!! Lend him a hand!!
2006-12-27 16:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well wats wrong with sex? i mean he's obviosuly telling you something
he wants you and well. he has no other way.. of i dunno dealing with his noriness but masturbating since well you and him aren;t really.. jumpingbones.
2006-12-27 16:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dump him and get a new b/f
2006-12-27 16:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex addict, leave him.
2006-12-27 16:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋