Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

this is for Men i want to know why you feel it's ok to rub things in your ex's face after you break up? like your going to 2 see you new woman and your going to be gone for 3 weeks or more?? i don't understand why you guys do this i'm pretty sure we hurt enuff already

2006-12-25 18:17:10 · 13 answers · asked by Havana 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 18:16:49 · 8 answers · asked by SHEFOX 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-25 18:16:13 · 10 answers · asked by babygirl143_dk 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is driving me insane lately. All she can do is complain about stuff... i totally understood at first, but it just goes on and on... i know she's sad, but its like she doesn't even TRY to be happy. I mean, I was having a bad time too, but I didn't even mention it because she wouldn't even HEAR me if I mentioned any of MY problems... We're usually really open to each other and I've been trying to help, but she gets mad when I try and to help, and then she gets mad when i try to leave her alone and NOT help... I mean, whats the DEAL? What does she WANT from me? All she ever talks about is her problems and how evvverrything is wrong, even though she has it better than a lot of people.

2006-12-25 18:16:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We been together for 4 years and we broke up and i started talking to some other guy and he found out and it broke his heart, but when he was with me he was abusive and cheated.

2006-12-25 18:16:06 · 10 answers · asked by sexybackmami07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-25 18:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I havnt cheated on my wife even though things have happened that made it look it. A fellow(woman)worker grabbed me by my jacket and pulled me close in front of my wife.I have given up telling her that it was not my fault.She thinks this person who comes over and gets supplies out of my work van because the boss told her to,,,(we live in the same town and the bussiness and work warehouse is 10 miles away)..is planned by me.I am frustrated to the point of craziness.We are both from cheating marriages that ended in divorce. Since her divorce she has been with other men before she met me. I havnt been with any other women at all. She thinks that if I have looked at other (porn) women I have cheated on her. So I dont, but still am accused of it. She says I flirt with other women, but I dont see how being nice to everyone is wrong. One other thing is what she didnt tell any of you in here is that shes 30 and Im 49 and that I have psoriasis over 80% of my body. What should I do?

2006-12-25 18:15:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-25 18:14:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-25 18:13:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You will miss your family more often.I sure miss my dad and others.

2006-12-25 18:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so my Christmas was pretty horrible. Well, not horrible just lonely, see this year (I know it sounds shallow) I didn't get ANYTHING that I wanted/needed, no one in my own family gave me anything, but then again I didn't give them anything. I didn't spend Christmas with any of my friends, all I did, was sit in bed, get out of bed momentarily and eat dinner, then I went back to bed and resumed watching T.V. now Christmas is over, and I'm feeling really sad/angry. Partially because I know for a fact that a lot of my friends are doing amazing stuff for Christmas, and getting tons of gifts. I know it doesn't mean that they are happy, but still, what am I supposed to say when they ask me how my Christmas went, "Oh I sat in bed and watched that 70's show."

2006-12-25 18:11:48 · 24 answers · asked by LalaLola 2 in Family

ok i asked a girl out and and she said no because she had a boyfriend otherwise her answer might have been different and she also said that she wasnt trying to be mean about it. does that mean she likes me?? and if so wut should i do she doesnt go to my school anymore but she does still live close by my house??

2006-12-25 18:11:29 · 21 answers · asked by LF_90 1 in Singles & Dating

I "like him" like him. He initiates the hug. I have tried twice to say bye without the hug and once he grabbed my haand and pulled me toward him. The other time I WAS flirting, but he went in for the hug. And he gets this look on his face like..."look what I'm looking at!" What's he telling me with this body language?

2006-12-25 18:09:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this is going to sound so weird, but it is honestly a true story. Our family doesn't get together as a whole but one time a year, today. At this get together will be my mother, my sister Kay, and her bf, my other sister Alexa, her bf, and her 4 children, and my husband, daughter, and myself. Alexa and I got into a HUGE fight (i am talking the pies went flying through the house). She was mad at me for telling her that she needed to grow up and make her children wear seat belts and not allow them to ride to someone that was drunk and that I didn't want to be the one attending a funeral for my neices or nephews. She said she wanted to be the "fun parent" and the kids' dad could worry about seat belts and then takes her kids to look at christmas lights around the area. I told her that she needed to grow up and think about her kids over herself all the time. She proceeded to look at me and tell me that I am the one that needs to grow up. I work full time and a mother to my 6 year

2006-12-25 18:09:25 · 9 answers · asked by Someonesmommy 5 in Family

My fiance is keeping a breakup/love letter from his past girlfriend. She was breaking up with him when she wrote it but it had sweet words in it like, "i will always remember you", and "remember me when you listen to this song..." I asked why he keeps it and he says because it was sweet. He told me it doesn't mean anything to him. what do you think? why do you think he really keeps it? he can't let go? Do you think he still feels something for her?

2006-12-25 18:09:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like him tat's all

2006-12-25 18:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is a good friend ,till now i have gifted him photo frame,vase.
he has a 6months old daughter.any suggestions i could gift 2her on new year,expect clothes which in no time seems short ,as the child is growing fast
somthing she would cherish and keep beside her in life---------
please
sumthg 4 the family,
range--Rs (500-1000)

2006-12-25 18:07:45 · 19 answers · asked by abc 2 in Friends

2006-12-25 18:06:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you know if your relationship is really real? I have been hurt in the past to the point where I am cold inside. Its like I dont give a dame. But I dont want to hurt my man. He is a good man with a good job(mechanic). He tries to give me everything and wants to have a family with me. I am greatful for all he is trying to do for me, but i just feel like its me. He wants me to love him but I can't even utter the words without sounding fake or looking weird, but I feel like I do/ or may love him. he's a pretty boy so i am afraid that one day I may not be around or we get into an arguement and he may do something to hurt me which I want to avoid. He tells me he love me but I just don't believ him. It sound so fake to me.

2006-12-25 18:04:32 · 7 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 18:03:38 · 12 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

But he wont stay over at my house, and this morning he wont answer his phone? Am I in the right to be suspicious?

2006-12-25 18:03:35 · 23 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Family

Hey, i ve been dating a girl for 4 months already however we never actually talk. Recently i think it became a problem because now she is away and on the phone there is only silence. Could you please give me any suggestions about what to talk to her about. I have plenty of topics to talk to her about but i dont know if talking to her about philosophy, politics, history etc is a good choice.
Thanks a lot and Merry Christmas!

2006-12-25 18:03:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been intimate with my ex-boyfriend for 6 years we both have been in other relationships, but he has a new girlfriend that he really loves but he say he still loves me too and we've even had sex since he's been with this girl. He takes her to visit his family and planning on moving to Texas with her but he says he still loves me. Is it love or still lust after six years?

2006-12-25 18:02:42 · 19 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship with a guy for about 3 years before I found out he was bisexual. It made me really paranoid about who I was dating. I've been dating a new guy for about 6 months and he asked me about going through the back door. I don't know if I'm paranoid and just looking for something....or does that mean that he may swing the other way as well. What do you think?

2006-12-25 18:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Singles & Dating

i was in this chat thing and this girl said u can only get loose after u have a kid is this true or not because i know some girls who havent had kids and guys say there loose...........

2006-12-25 18:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am married for 10 ten years with a child (7 years), financially independent but very sensitive and emotional. i am separated for 3 years. my husband was a batterer and an abuser of highest order. now he wants me to come back on the plea that he has realised his mistakes. i am even having a good job offer in his city. my parents also want me to give a try. but i know with my experience he can not change. secondly i have an old friend, who is about to get divorced and we have strong attraction for each other,. i trust him totally and can happily want to have a life with him. but i am confused. my family will not support me in this

2006-12-25 18:00:25 · 9 answers · asked by mishty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if every one enjoyed their christmas as much as i didn't. my 11 yr old did and i guess thats what matters. but my fiance decided not to come over because he didn't feel well. hell my throat is a lil sore but that didn't stop me from interacting. he came over to bring our 2mo old daughter gifts and for my son at 1pm he stayed bout 30mins. he gave me my gift saturday. i gave him his today he loved it but he didn't call again until almost 11 tonite saying he just don't feel well. maybe he doesn't but it just hurt that he wasn't here does that make me selfish. so anyway i hope everyone else day was better than mine please tell me bout it. i want to feel better

2006-12-25 17:59:56 · 10 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:59:53 · 5 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

if every one enjoyed their christmas as much as i didn't. my 11 yr old did and i guess thats what matters. but my fiance decided not to come over because he didn't feel well. hell my throat is a lil sore but that didn't stop me from interacting. he came over to bring our 2mo old daughter gifts and for my son at 1pm he stayed bout 30mins. he gave me my gift saturday. i gave him his today he loved it but he didn't call again until almost 11 tonite saying he just don't feel well. maybe he doesn't but it just hurt that he wasn't here does that make me selfish. so anyway i hope everyone else day was better than mine please tell me bout it. i want to feel better

2006-12-25 17:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you be threated by your woman messing with another woman?

2006-12-25 17:58:35 · 8 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Singles & Dating