Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

0k i like this guy he is one of my brothers friend i like him because he has respect for me he is so out going and he so much fun to be with i sometimes just wish i could have that universual control like the movie click and just pause the whole freckin world just to kiss him in the lips .. anyways i just wish that i can tell him how i feel and i want to but at the same time i dont .....i dont no if i should tell him how i feel because first of all i d0nt n0 h0w he is g0in t0 feel about me second of all becuase i d0nt n0 h0w my brother is g0in to react if we d0 g0 out .. but the main problem is that h0w d0 i n0 if i sh0uld tell him because i d0nt want t0 get hurt.. what should i do ?

2006-12-25 19:10:44 · 17 answers · asked by bbbb 2 in Singles & Dating

Tough situation here, keeps me awake at night, stops me functioning in the day. A guy, known him for 3 months. Asked him to take it slowly, I needed time. I thought it was going slowly, I was coming round....he had started dating someone else. I know I am ready now, ready for him. I have stopped contacting him to let him concentrate on his new relationship. We cannot help but contact each other, works both ways. We meet, the chemistry is the best I have ever known. I adore him, this situation breaks my heart. I need him in my life, if only as friends then I still need him. He thinks that I am still not ready, what am I to do to show him I am, ready for him, ready for us. He is THE one you know, have I missed the boat? Is he playing with me? Kind advice would be good you guys, cannot move past these feelings.

2006-12-25 19:09:14 · 17 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Singles & Dating

Workplace romances...not good...

Anyway, there's this gorgeous guy at work. He's 17 (I'm 19), hates his mother and lives away from her, and nice (usually). But he's being tedious lately.

He was so flirting back with me. We'd have play arguments about nothing. I started it. We also talked a bit. He seemed to likes me...

Anyway, I came in on my break day to work and said hi to him, and irritated a manager for disrupting him. Next day I thought "maybe he'll bother to say hi to me". Nuh. Not a word, I wasn't worth it. Then I roundabout asked him out. He was "too busy", but it was his dismissive tone that got to me. I got pissed off at him, & since he's been been downcast.

It's been icy lately, he's been upset and gets happy when I'm about laughing. I SWEAR he hangs around me but says NOTHING!!

I'm a bit fed up with this stalemate. Despite the screwness, I like Guy 1. I could talk to a girl friends with him to say something to him or something? I dunno. Should I,or just move on?

2006-12-25 19:08:03 · 14 answers · asked by JDA 3 in Singles & Dating

Something bad went wrong with her boyfriend again... she just won't give him up! It's crazy, but hey, it's love... since when is love rational. Anyway, I really want to cheer her up, or at least comfort her, but i think i've done everything possible in that department in the past... i'm here for her... i dont' know what else to do?
Please don't tell me to tell her to break up with him, it's not my decision.

2006-12-25 19:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been dating him for 3 1/2 years... they dont know we're together and have no idea that im considering marriage... i didnt tell them because they didnt approve of the interracial dating... I love him... i AM going to marry him... my family and i have never been close... but i do want them at my wedding... how do i tell them that i've had this entire life for the last 3 1/2 years that they know nothing about???

2006-12-25 19:03:50 · 10 answers · asked by Nikki K 1 in Weddings

what is an open relationship? ive asked 3 different people and theyre all giving me different answers. i really like her though, inn your opinion what should i do?

2006-12-25 19:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by Bekka fitzgivenchy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Long Time No Seen My Friend..
No News About Him..
But Yesterday Night..
He called me.. should i be his friends again ?

2006-12-25 19:03:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im only 11. Im not planning on making out any time soon. Im just wondering. Im in middle school now. right. so my ex-boyfriend asked me [[when we were going out]] if we could makeout. At first I said yes, but later I told him I wasnt ready, and I was positive he wasnt the right guy. Plus Im not really sure how to.

so any suggestions on the age and how to?

2006-12-25 19:00:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You meet him before you see him, in a matter of hours, your lost in thought of the many possibilities , that could be for you and your new acquaintance, you literally spend an entire day just conversing with him, you can't believe how much you are attracted to this man, his sincerity, his warmth, his honesty, you pray that your mind is not playing tricks on you and this beautiful person is real..... and that you were finally sent your soulmate.....When allowed the chance to meet that man who seems to be sent here just for you, your previous thoughts of being in love are made a reality, he's perfect, my idea of perfect, can this finally the love God has promised me would be along if I only had patience?

I spend most of my days constantly thinking of him , your dreams are haunted by the possibilities that he may not be for you, and someone is playin a terrible game with your emotions and your heart, You think you should back away, but the thought of not having him in your life literally sucks the oxygen from your body, causes your heart to ache and forces unwanted tears from your eyes....I ask you again IS THERE LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT?

2006-12-25 18:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by caramel1071 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband lost his job and we were forced to come live with my mother-in-law in the meantime until we get back on our feet. She keeps charging us, and threatening to throw us out on the street if we don't give her money. we have a 1 year old baby which by the way it makes me cringe every time she picks him up. she made my pregnancy a living hell. she has a good pension and a more than healthy bank account but she still wants the little we have. she feels her kids owe her. no one can resist her, she's done so many horrible things to everyone. she's always been disrespectful to me and to everyone around her. she has no manners. she's always trying to tell us how to raise our child, asking us about our phone conversations, our financial issues, and many other personal things. she's so rude, and cruel. she charges us for the food we eat, even when the baby is sleeping, she wakes him up and says she doesn't care but then picks him up? one time we asked her to look after the baby for 5 minutes while we got some things out of the car and she said she wasn't a babysitter. she's just psychotically cynical. she doesn't get the baby a gift for christmas, not even when he was born. she always wants something in return for everything. she never says please or thank you, so unappreciative. she's told me the nastiest things and i've always been polite to her since day 1 yet she tells everyone in my husband's family horrible things about me, trying to make herself look like some type of victim, she is such a liar. I have better manners than she does! it's crazy, I feel like I'm more of a mother to my husband than she is. and the irony of it all is that she thinks she's the best and most deserving mother/person in the world. she's driven me to losing it. what type of mother/person is this? why? what should I do? if I can get some advice I'd really appreciate it.

2006-12-25 18:59:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i hv this kinna situation when i feel like i want to kill that person who treat me like i'm a dumb!!!teenage not dumb!!!sometimes they know better!!!almost everytime what i said was right but not a single person trust me!!!is this how human live????!!!!

2006-12-25 18:58:39 · 15 answers · asked by lisa M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP ME! Ok so there is this boy i go with rite! and he told me that he still has feelings for his ex and today i talked to her and she told me that they text and talk EVERYDAY! and she told me that he told her to buy him a dog tag with her pic on it and he was gonna wear it! remind you: we dont go to the same skool. so yea, what should I do? HELP ME ASAP

2006-12-25 18:58:25 · 10 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Singles & Dating

Where can i find permanent chatter who like to help me with my new project?
Im searching for people who will help me with a new project. Im searching for people who love to chat and like to people all over the world!

Additional Details

OK here are the details... the project is seeable under www.innocentangel.org ... im getting new members each day there but the chat is always empty because if someone join nobody other is there... so i need a small crew of 8-10 chatter who are always there and chat with newbies etc....

2006-12-25 18:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by explosivegrey 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy Michael for 5 months now and recently realized that me and my ex are still very much in-love.We haven't done anything behind my boyfriend's back that could be considered cheating and I want to end it asap but my boyfriend is going through a hard time right now so I can't do it right away.Is it wrong to break-up with one person to be with someone else as long as you're honest?It's not like I can help the way I feel.

2006-12-25 18:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is a job someone can occupy? this someone is very important to the groom, but the groom already has all his groomsmen and 2 best men, this person is more important thatn just being an usher and does not have musical abilities. also the bride and groom do not want readings. what can this important individual do during the ceremony? ideas?

2006-12-25 18:57:05 · 5 answers · asked by tagden 3 in Weddings

I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We like to fish and and take hikes etc.. We have a 3 year old and a 10 month old~ Our 5th anniversary is coming up and I really want it to be special! My in laws are going to watch the kids for the weekend for us and it will be our first night 'kid free" in a year and a half!! I really want it to be special but he does not like romantic or "corny" kinds of things. Are candles too much?? I am thinking about a cabin at the lake! ~~ What can I do to make it REALLY special? I want him to know how much I appreciate that he works hard for me to stay home with the boys and is home every night with me instead of out running around! He says he doesn't like lingerie and stuff I quote him "Why wear it if it's just going to come off anyway?" Any good ideas? What can I do that will make him feel appreciated but not embarrased by "romantic" things...??

2006-12-25 18:56:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Clowns walking down the street at 4 in the morning with flask in hand and lil poodle in the other that growls and yips and stuff?

2006-12-25 18:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 18:54:19 · 2 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

SHOULD I KISS HER WHEN IM ALONE WITH HER? SHOULD I FLIRT WITH HER IN CLASS OR PAY ATTENTION? SHOULD I HANG OUT WITH HER OR HANG OUT WITH MY HOMIES? ETC..

2006-12-25 18:54:03 · 6 answers · asked by soccerplayer95820 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together a while, over a year. And in the last two months have fought for the first time. His grandpa died recently which has taken a great toll on him, emotionally & on our relationship. He has with drawn from me & says he really cares about nothing anymore.

He is partying more, drinking more and has changed when he is drunk...from a nice drunk to a mean drunk.

I want to stick by him, but I am not sure how much more I can truly take. He has gone back & forth on us staying together/or not.

I hate to admit I didnt realize how deeply I cared for him until he was about to leave me, yes I know how convenient that sounds. But it is the truth, and it's not a ditch attempt to keep him. I have honestly never cared before about any of my bf's leaving & normally left them. Except for one.

I have never EVER spoken to my mom about my bf's before him, so this is a really big deal. Cause Ive spent my xmas holiday sorting things out with my mom.

2006-12-25 18:54:00 · 3 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3 in Singles & Dating

I work in another country and able to come back & visit my family yearly as per my contract. Everytime im leaving I cant control my tears...tears w/c I want to hide from my loved ones because it makes them sad & cry also. Is it possible to leave in style?

2006-12-25 18:53:57 · 18 answers · asked by Cromwell1230 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

You could be a shy person because you like to listen to what is happening around you.

2006-12-25 18:53:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 18:50:22 · 18 answers · asked by miss.confused??? 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone ever answer Q's with a friend, or is the net somewhere that you always visit alone?

2006-12-25 18:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by punkvixen 5 in Singles & Dating

im not the one who dates,but i do get hit on by a lot of man.i am very preppy, and wear a lot of clothes frome Hollister,Abercrombie&fitch, American eagle, and aeropostale.i have very high class manners, and respect for people.whenever i go out somewhere, i get hit on by whites,hispanics, and asians.Why can't i get a black man? Black man seem to be into "ghetto girls",who will do "anything", and thats not me.I don't use slang,or talk in toung.Am i too preppy, or is it that i dont have the"SISTA HEAT"?

2006-12-25 18:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We live in california. We want a place were its romantic. If we do decided to go some where in california where would be the best romantic get-away place? But any other place would also be good. HELP!

2006-12-25 18:47:08 · 14 answers · asked by crazyflower1988 1 in Weddings

will he think im only after his money? he made the first move.

2006-12-25 18:46:56 · 5 answers · asked by missTQ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister is freaking out because her boyfriend is leaving for the marines and will leave her for a few months sometime next year. Should she break it off until he returns or what? I see them together and they seem so much in love. i know that this will be very hard on both of them, but she is worried on what their future will be...what should i tell her? she won't listen to me anymore.

2006-12-25 18:46:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ours was wonderful!! My mom & step-dad came up here to Alaska on the 18th & were here for Christmas. It has been a while since we have seen each other so it has been fabulous. They will sadly be leaving on the 6th of January, then everything will be back to normal. Did everyone enjoy their Christmas & their family get togethers????
Have a Safe & Happy New Year!!!!

2006-12-25 18:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21, and I've noticed that all my friends are getting married. Now don't get me wrong, I am in a relationship, and am very happy, but I am no way near close to getting married. Why can't you just live together and be exclusive. Why does everyone want to get married?

2006-12-25 18:44:03 · 9 answers · asked by cian506 1 in Marriage & Divorce