I'm 23 and my husband is 27. We like to fish and and take hikes etc.. We have a 3 year old and a 10 month old~ Our 5th anniversary is coming up and I really want it to be special! My in laws are going to watch the kids for the weekend for us and it will be our first night 'kid free" in a year and a half!! I really want it to be special but he does not like romantic or "corny" kinds of things. Are candles too much?? I am thinking about a cabin at the lake! ~~ What can I do to make it REALLY special? I want him to know how much I appreciate that he works hard for me to stay home with the boys and is home every night with me instead of out running around! He says he doesn't like lingerie and stuff I quote him "Why wear it if it's just going to come off anyway?" Any good ideas? What can I do that will make him feel appreciated but not embarrased by "romantic" things...??
2006-12-25 18:56:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do the Cabin at the Lake. Make love to him like never before, I mean really do him righteous. He'll never forget this particular anniversary.
Tend to agree with his lingerie statement. I'm like that too. Most men don't require alot of romantic things, to get our attention and to remain focased on the young sweet thing that's about to knock our socks off with some really great love making.
My wife did a similar thing for our 2nd anniversary some 23 years ago, and i still think about it often.
2006-12-25 21:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could" plan a fishing trip" but instead get a nice cabin in the woods and spend a romantic weekend together enjoying each others company and you would be surprised how much that telling him you appreciate what he does will mean to him.
2006-12-25 20:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by jeremy B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where were you when I was looking for a woman? Why don't you do the thing at the lake you want. And just come out and tell him these feelings. I know I would have loved hearing what you have just typed.
2006-12-25 19:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Get Real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not wait another year in a half to go on a date! Go on dates with each other as much as possible. By doing this you will not have to think soooooo much about how to impress him. I can tell you from experience that if you do not keep dating your husband while you are married it gets tougher. I lost a 10yr relationship 5yr marriage by not going on dates learn from my mistakes...
2006-12-25 19:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by gueroslaptop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find out let me know. I have been trying to think of things to make my husband feel special as well. However, nothing I do seems to be working. Good luck!
2006-12-25 19:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-25 18:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by sheuxnyk 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋