im not the one who dates,but i do get hit on by a lot of man.i am very preppy, and wear a lot of clothes frome Hollister,Abercrombie&fitch, American eagle, and aeropostale.i have very high class manners, and respect for people.whenever i go out somewhere, i get hit on by whites,hispanics, and asians.Why can't i get a black man? Black man seem to be into "ghetto girls",who will do "anything", and thats not me.I don't use slang,or talk in toung.Am i too preppy, or is it that i dont have the"SISTA HEAT"?
2006-12-25 18:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's wrong with the ones that are hitting on you? Why are you limiting yourself to one race? Do you find only black men acceptable for relationships?
2006-12-25 18:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by 2D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what race are you? If you want a black man you have to find out where they are and then go there to meet them. I have a Black male friend that loves white women. He goes for the kind that have money and dress preppy, so I really don't think that is your problem. Just make friends with some black women and maybe they will introduce you around.
2006-12-25 18:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all black men are looking for a "ghetto girl". Maybe its the way that you're carrying yourself that makes you seem untouchable to black men. Or it could be that you're not looking in the right places to find one. Depending on where you live, they're all over the place. Keep trying, your black prince is out there somewhere.
2006-12-25 18:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know i have dated alot of diffrent types of guys black white asian but it dont matter what you wear or how you act. Maybe you put out a bad vibe. Also reguardless of color if u try to hard thats unacttractive to men. you sound like you have some sterotypes to that will always blow ya chances there. You should realize when you date it aint bout the color its bout the person. Cause people with bad personalities come in all colors!
2006-12-25 19:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you are the reason,i bet your a snob no man wants a women like you.And you cant relate to them,so why would they wanna date you anyway?Work on your self.Then maybe some black prince will find you attractive.Because if you are all that you say you are,you would be a great catch for any man.
2006-12-25 19:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by cancel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as you say you are "high class, manners, and respect for people" then I assume it should not matter which race that you attract only that they similarly have respect for you.
Do not try to act different just to attract a particular race. It is a strange form of racism. Just be happy for who you are and the right guy, no matter his color, will come along.
2006-12-25 18:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not going to the places that the Black guys like girls like you. Ask your friend where the Black guys go who like girls that dress nice, has manner and treat people with respect. I know a lot of black guys who are super and they would only date a girl like you. Have you thought of going to church to meet a guy like this? We have several single ones at our church.
2006-12-25 18:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
Im a black high school jock that loves preppy white chicks
lol.
i wear hollister and all that too!!
most likely if i were 2 see u i'd be very interested
2006-12-25 20:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by super_hottie_16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something must be wrong with you, because black guys hit on just about ANYTHING!
Maybe you just aren't in the right area to meet nice black guys.
And by the way, we are not all into "ghetto girls".
2006-12-25 18:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your attitude sounds pretty self centred.. mentioning so many of the brands of clothes you wear etc. (I mean... What's the point of you worrying about it if you don't date? other than to boost your ego)
Perhaps it's this that they pick up on and don't find approachable. You may come across like you think you're above others.
2006-12-25 18:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋