I've been with this guy Michael for 5 months now and recently realized that me and my ex are still very much in-love.We haven't done anything behind my boyfriend's back that could be considered cheating and I want to end it asap but my boyfriend is going through a hard time right now so I can't do it right away.Is it wrong to break-up with one person to be with someone else as long as you're honest?It's not like I can help the way I feel.
2006-12-25 18:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart.
The best thing you can do in any relationship is to be honest.
Waiting for things to get better will only cause you more stress. Go ahead and get this over with.
Best wishes.
2006-12-25 19:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, how come you & your ex broke up? And after months had passed, you & your ex realized that still you're both in love with one another, yet the problem is you already have a boyfriend. Are you sure you want to break up with your recent boyfriend? Is he not just as good as your ex? Just think about it more, so in that way, you won't doubt in the future. And no, you & your ex aren't doing anything wrong, as to point out on what you said that you both haven't done anything behind your boyfriend's back, then it's fine. But if you're really sure about breaking up to go back to your ex, who is you love the most (and I reckon he also loves you the same), then I guess it wouldn't help, right? As long as you're honest with your feelings. It's your decision anyway. Just think about first, not just once nor twice, but think about it many times. Okay then.
2006-12-25 19:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chimchim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Sometimes it takes seperation to find out if someone is right for you. Don't cheat on your boyfriend, that will only cause undesired tension. Let your current boyfriend know that your heart is somewhere else and to force a relationship would only lead downhill.
Its more right to be with who your heart desires than to deny this feeling and be unhappy.
2006-12-25 19:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 00:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's hard to stop loving someone. Love is love.
But, why did you break up with him in the first place?
Don't burn bridges.
Be certain what you want.
Then,,,, be honest.
If you are honest, then you can look yourself in the eye and know that whatever the future brings, you acted in honor.
2006-12-25 19:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by There you are∫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of all the reasons why he is your ex and can you live with the issues you had before you broke up and be happy. Second chances are great but take it slow so you don't get hurt again.
2006-12-25 19:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by Linda C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and yourself. before you break up with the current guy remember why you left the last one and what attracted you to the current one. SOmetimes love can be mistaken for romantic infatuation and missing what you had but new is only new for one day....
2006-12-25 19:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by gueroslaptop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your fault that you care about someone else.
you aren't married to the guy and he doesn't own you.
you have freedom till you are fully comitted.
that doesn't mean you should cheat on anybody.
but you are not emotionally comitted yet.
be honest with the boy.
eventually he will be thankful for your honesty.
2006-12-25 19:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to be in two boats at the same time, when the boat drift apart, you fall into the sea!
2006-12-25 19:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Good to be sensitive to his needs right now, though, and try to break it to him gently.
2006-12-25 18:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sid B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋