Im only 11. Im not planning on making out any time soon. Im just wondering. Im in middle school now. right. so my ex-boyfriend asked me [[when we were going out]] if we could makeout. At first I said yes, but later I told him I wasnt ready, and I was positive he wasnt the right guy. Plus Im not really sure how to.
so any suggestions on the age and how to?
2006-12-25 19:00:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your age is probably okay to start making out, there's no right or wrong age.
No tongues though and keep your hands where grown ups can see them!
2006-12-25 19:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a woman who was 11 once, you are way too young to even have a boyfriend!!! Please focus on other areas of your life, find activities you enjoy, join clubs and socialize in groups! When you have a boyfriend and you are so young, you limit your potential. Imagine if you planted a tree, but when it was young, you started cutting off branches, or tying them up in strange ways to make them grow the way you want them to grow. When the tree is fully grown, it will not look the way it was intended to look. In fact, we would never see the tree the way it was intended to look. The same thing happens to young people who put themselves into relationships when they are too young. By the time you are 25, you will not know who you were really supposed to be. Instead, you will be affected by drama, heartbreaks, heartaches, and yes, even some joy. And, every time you have your heart broken in a relationship, it makes it harder for you to love again. If you start when you are 11, you could be totally jaded against love by the time you are 17!!
I remember being 11, and I remember how important it was to have a boy like me, and to be able to say I had a boyfriend. But looking back, it was really not worth it. It is just too easy to get in over your head, and have some boy pressuring you for more than a kiss. Things get out of hand very quickly and it is just not worth it. So, it is just easier if you don't put yourself in that one-on-one situation with a boy.
Please take good care of yourself now, and I promise that your life will be richer when you are all grown up.
2006-12-26 03:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by oolishfay 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there really is not a right age for a person to make out. It's a natural thing that just happens, like a first kiss. It's better to not worry and plan about those things, and let them just happen! don't worry about knowing what to do your first time, no one ever knew what to do their first time. if it's great than good, and if not, then oh well, move on! you will have many boys in the future to make out with :)
2006-12-26 03:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dancing Queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget all this making out-you are only 11 years old, concentrate on your schooling...do not even listen to people like JAY C-their comments to you about this subject are totally wrong...and liable to lead you into much trouble. As for the "how to"-you will find that out at a later date also.
2006-12-26 08:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 11 let it wait. He isn't even mature yet. I am 15 and I didn't start making out or really became physicly mature untill 2 years ago. Wait until your 13. Trust me. If the guy is really presuring you, break up with, he is probably some young a**hole just trying to get some.
2006-12-26 03:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Xavier S 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just take it easy and don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you feel uncomfortable with. At 11, I'd say kissing and holding hands is enough as far as making out goes. If the boys want more don't let them.
2006-12-26 03:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by FearDragons 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
still wondering huh? well the right age is different with everyone, it is when your with the right person, you will know when you are ready just stop worring about it and since you are only in 6th grade i think you have plenty of time im in 8th and i havent really made out with anyone yet so just chill
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2006-12-26 03:57:14 · answer #7 · answered by XñΘ×ØÑΣ×└Ö√ËŠ×╫ë®X 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is your hurry, you will make out soon enough, now its time to play and study.
Dont occupy your mind with making out now, it will happen naturally so relax and enjoy life while you are still young.
2006-12-26 04:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres no specific or set age. when youre ready youre ready. let it happen on its own time. people do at different ages. i did when i was 12 and i was ready. not really a way to describe how to. sorry.
2006-12-26 03:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by mell. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no ur to young to even be thinking bout having sex.just wait till ur older and you find the right man for you. 16 and order it the right age. remember once u have done it u can never get ur cherry back.
2006-12-26 03:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by me me 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋