Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

\guys i really need you on this plz plz help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-25 17:34:47 · 8 answers · asked by IZEA 1 in Singles & Dating

here while back my and my friend were being silly and we kissed. But it wasn't like any kiss i have ever had. I have told this person that i love them, but they have ignored me for so long. Now that i have finally moved on, that person wanted me back. I would have taken that person back but, i am dating someong else. So i broke up with my bf for that person. Now that person doesnt want anything to do with me... HELPPPPPP

2006-12-25 17:33:04 · 15 answers · asked by A.C. 3 in Singles & Dating

wat r the sungs if i guy likes u???i have no idea...i talk 2 this guy and he rox and i like him so i told him and he sent back a smily face...we joke, flirt have nicknames 4 each other wanna have each oters babies...as a joke i think...wat u think?

2006-12-25 17:31:51 · 5 answers · asked by Freak 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I'm dating but I'm not into the relationship like he is.I just don't like him the way he likes me.Should I break up with him and not lead him on so much?I think I should stop but how without hurting his feelings?

2006-12-25 17:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by ~pam*a*la~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I was molested often by an uncle as a girl. My little girl is now the age I was when abused, 6. The problem is she goes to stay with grandparents, and, I have been having recurrent nightmares that my father sexually abused me. Not just one dream, but about 50.
I also ran away often as a teen cause I feared he may rape me. My family all blames it on my uncle. They say that I am imagining my dad because he was the closest male to me besided my abusive uncle. But, every time my girl and son go there, even though I call, and make sure my mom is in charge, and all, I still am nervous. I also, dont know what to do, I have aske dmy daughter to always tell me if anything is wrong, over and over she says nothing. Is her recent sggresiveness a phase?
Am I like my family says, "Being paranoid because I have mental illness?"
I am so confused, that i am planning to move , just to get away from the possibuility of anything happenrning. Can anyone relate?
I need help. Weh Weh

2006-12-25 17:30:04 · 20 answers · asked by wehweh 2 in Family

I want to win him without having sex with him.
How do I get him to chase after me?/

2006-12-25 17:29:06 · 8 answers · asked by loveorlust23 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been date with this guy almost 9 months & im really fall in too deep in this love. But last a few weeks i found out that he's married & i really feel frustrating about this. I wonder why he's not been sincere all this while,i'm trying to have a talk with him but seem like he's avoiding me by giving excuses he's too busy! When i ask him why he need to hide that he's married,he say no comment about that!!!Damn it,its not that only about hurts but its all about depressions.I'm playing with mental games now....i know that all is said & done but until now i still love & miss him so much. I'll be grateful if u all can send some good advice & encourage message!!! Thank U,love u guy so much.....

2006-12-25 17:28:21 · 18 answers · asked by v_iolet1978 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my bf broke up last night (we were together about a year and a half) he says he jsut needs time to to figure out what he wants, but hes not gonna date or anything. and tonight we hung out and he kept calling me baby and tellling me he loves me. and then we kept fooling around.


what is he doing with me?
Whats he thinking about?


im soo confused.






He said he DOES eventully see him self gettin back with me.. jsut not right now.



HELP<3

p.s. dont say hes useing me. or that theres another girl. its not htat. i honeslty think hes use to doing that wiht me....


I dont know,

2006-12-25 17:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

I really dislike playing games. If I like a guy, I have no problem saying it and I don't like waiting around "for the chase" and whatever else goes along in the whole game playing scenario. But what I'm finding is that all the guys I don't like seem to like me more and more (maybe because I'm so distant) while the guys (okay, this one guy) I do like seems to like me less and less (maybe because I'm so direct). Guys, why is this? I thought I was doing everybody a favor by not wasting time. I'm not easy (I'm actually waiting to "be in love" to do the do) so it's not like he had his way and then disappeared. But anyway, for future reference, if I do end up chasing a guy away, is there anyway to make him interested again?

2006-12-25 17:27:18 · 12 answers · asked by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

i was looking to rent a manufactured home. and i read "lease to own" . what does lease to own mean?
http://marshallscrossingmhc.com/homes.htm

2006-12-25 17:25:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i use to go with this boy who i grew up with in a way. but hes a cheater and the reason why we brake s up is because he cheats but this time he seem so real and ready to be a man and be faithful with me but im scared that he go do it again and i really truly do love him, talk to him everyday just everything. so he asked me to be back with me what should i tell him?

2006-12-25 17:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Nell 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a sweet,kind, and caring person.

Is the Library a good place to look?

2006-12-25 17:24:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hlep!!!!!!!

2006-12-25 17:24:44 · 19 answers · asked by panda2006_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I am with I have been with him for about a year( on and off). He makes me happy but then he gets me upset. Sometimes I feel like I can't say anything to him like in his head its his way or no way. I feel like I have to act like a different person around him.
He wants to start a family with me but I want to be able to communicate with him about anything before that. He makes me very happy but sometimes I wonder if he is the right person for me or not. We are two complete opposite person. He is more of a style like person and I am the complete opposite and i feel sad that I have to constantly keep up with his style because he is "well known" around his way- so that put pressure on me. He is out going and I am shy- I like to keep to myself. I dont like being in crowds and i know that is a factor that he dont like about me.

2006-12-25 17:22:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:22:26 · 20 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Singles & Dating

i used to shut my self away from the outside world..but not any more....now accidentally i know a lot about the outside world..now i'm scared, confused... don't know what to do..
i feel like a stranger lost her way home... now i wanna get out...get a job... discover who i'm..what i want..i don't know how to start or where....can you help ?..... i'm 25 is it too late to start..?
also i'm engaged and i don't wanna lose him in the mid of all this...he cares a lot for me but i can't ask him for help in this one because i really need to know who i raelly am....do you what i mean..?
thank you for your help...Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

2006-12-25 17:21:14 · 10 answers · asked by D Mar 1 in Family

How do I get a boyfriend when I can barely carry a conversation with a guy?

2006-12-25 17:20:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i'm not sure if this boy likes me or not he always is looking at me and when i talk to him i can tell he is listening i always seem to "bump" into him in the hallways and when i talk to him on AIM he always replies "lol" i mean yea the stuff i say maybe be funny, but i didnt think everytime i say something it would be funny, he always flirts with me like he teases me for fun ans stuff like that then he wouldn talk to me for like a day or 2 then he will start talkn to me again................idk i'm so confused?

2006-12-25 17:20:33 · 14 answers · asked by MeggiePoo 1 in Singles & Dating

Hai all. lets be honest. When you did something like this, was it just for once or was is regular. Did you ever feel you would rather be with you physical partner than with you spouse. In this way have you ever felt in love and left your spouse? Or did doing this actually strengthen your relationship with your spouse?

2006-12-25 17:19:39 · 14 answers · asked by UpNorthDownSouth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've made NO COMMITMENT with each other but I'm falling for him bad. I want him to know that, but i don't know if he gets it.

He calls, but only when i ask him to.
He seems to like hanging out with me, but he also likes hangning out with everyone else.

We're close , but not that close.. what can i do to bring us closer?

should i only make him hang out with me? or should i try and let him hang out with other girls? with me coming?

i know that if he likes me.. nothing will change that, but im afraid that if i let him hang out with this one girl, she'd make him fall for her. the thing is i know she likes him.. but i dont know who HE LIKES. i know though , that he likes someone, he just didnt tell me. Everytime I mention this topic, he gets stuttery and doesnt want to talk about it.

2006-12-25 17:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:18:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been involved in an emotional and psychological affair for the past few month with a very close friend and co-worker. We just clicked one day. NEVER have had physical contact. It has ended and now we can't even speak. His wife is aware of some of our conversations and forbids us to be near each other. I asked her to forgive me and she said that she did. Because we have to work together (all three of us) it is becoming impossible to be around one another. If he comes to my office for any reason, she his quick to follow. This entire emotional relationship is finished, but we cannot seem to be able to get back to even the simplest working relationship. How do I convince her that I am not chasing her husband and do not want a relationship with him. I have reconciled with my husband (who does not know) and I am very happy with my life. This was a weakness that had passed and I just want to go on with my life. Any suggestions

2006-12-25 17:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by canuseepeace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

want to make him happy...

2006-12-25 17:17:00 · 16 answers · asked by hermione 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in serious relationship for over 3 years. We decided to stay just friends (but nobody does that for real anyway). And I've been single for almost a year now.

2006-12-25 17:16:20 · 8 answers · asked by Ami 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by panda2006_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I haven't seen her for 2 years for now, the last time I saw her, her hair was in shoulder length. She loves to smile, but she don't smile in photos. If I wanna meet her, I will love to take photos of her, do you think she will smile? Cause she don't smile much in photos and she never show her teeth in photos, her teeth is pretty white & straight.

2006-12-25 17:15:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Seems to me it's almost as risky to date a divorced man as it would be to date a married one. After all, a lot of men divorce their wives because they get bored with and tired of them. What makes you think he won't get bored with and tired of you as well? I don't really see a whole lot of difference here.

2006-12-25 17:14:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:13:37 · 19 answers · asked by ORAC d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my dad is adding on to are house and there is this guy helping him.
at first I didint think he was cute, but know I have a magor crush or whatever.
but the prob is he is seven years older then me!!!! but he's really cute!
I cant tell any one!
And it feels wrong!
PLease give me advice!!

2006-12-25 17:12:44 · 14 answers · asked by brooke h 3 in Singles & Dating