I've been in serious relationship for over 3 years. We decided to stay just friends (but nobody does that for real anyway). And I've been single for almost a year now.
2006-12-25 17:16:20 · 8 answers · asked by Ami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, think about what you want in a man and go hunting for him, don't wait for them to come to you or take whatever shows intrest in you. And PLEASE don't spend time with a potential new man telling him about the last, "baggage", men will nod and pretend they care but NOT REALLY.
2006-12-25 17:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do decent things, go decent places, say decent things express yourself in a decent way. If you are decent yourself your actions will lead you to do decent things in decent places. You will then be attracted to other people who might be in these same places doing similar things.
The way you carry yourself and what you believe are the things that allow you to reject what is not a match for you or recognize a good match even in the midst of an environment that might not feel comfortable.
For example: you could go out dancing and have fun. You do not have to drink or be indiscriminant about who you talk to just because it is a club. You can be decent and only talk to decent people no matter where you are.
Do all your hobbies, lessons, socializing..just remain decent yourself and you will naturally reject people who are not a match for you. Sometimes there is an instant attraction to someone but a few hours, days, weeks, months later they say or do something that makes you realize this is not a match. End it there or transform it to an aquaintanceship. Do not limit yourself to going places or doing only those things you think decent people do. There are decent or negative people anywhere...so church will not protect you, or school. Do not depend on the locations. Be decent yourself and you can walk anywhere with the ability to accept or reject people along the way. Then you may find someone who is decent for real. Once you have spent enough time around them to trust them and their patterns of behavior you can have conversations to see if there may be an opportunity for a deeper relationship.
2006-12-25 17:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself, what you have to offer a potential partner?
The probability is, like a lot of females, you're not trying hard enough. The modern woman is now expected to do 50% of the chasing. (If not more).
If you're a decent woman you'll meet a decent guy.
I also suggest you try looking further afield,
2006-12-25 21:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Norman Bates 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool do u live in new york?
iv allways wanted to go their bt i carnt affort it
does it really look like it does in sex n the city and friends?
arnt their like heaps of nite clubs every wear that famous ppl go to ? why dont u just meet people at clubs n stuff
2006-12-25 17:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me.:) I'm pretty decent for a guy in NY. But you probably won't date me because I'm a junior in high school.
2006-12-25 17:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fly to England.
2006-12-25 18:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by lulu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try eharmony.com, match.com, ask friends around to hook you up, do charity work to meet some decent kind hearted guy...it's hard. good luck!
2006-12-25 17:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at first girl,
they arnt objects
2006-12-25 17:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋