I am finding this a really difficult thing to work out, because i do love him. And when hes nice he is the man i want to be with.But when he snaps he is a totally different person. And anything can trigger his anger spirts, even something as simple as someone walking infront of the tv. he becomes verbally abusive, rude, puts me down. tells me that im just a house wife who stays at home with the kids and thats how it should be. that im pathetic hopeless any other name you can think of. I recently fell in love with ballroom dancing and i joined a class been going for 3 months, entered a competiton and came equal first. I love it. and now hes told me that im not allowed to dance anymore. i said am i supposed to give up my life for you? his answer was yes. Its like he just wants me to stay at home and not have a life. I have not enjoyed one birthday or any special occasions for years, as he always finds something to abuse me for if hes not enjoying it he has to make sure no one else does.
2006-12-25
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