There was this guy that i was talking to. i Was dating him for 4 wks, well then i asked him to attend my christmas party and he said he could and then he said that he might not be able to attend becauseit was the day he could visit his son. well he called me that week and i told him ill call him back i then called him the next day and he didnt answer. So then on christmas he calls me a week later, and said his mom accidently took his phone to mexico , and if i still wanted to call him , to give him a call. Do u think he is lieing to me should i give him a call?he also never called either about the christmas party to let me know if he was going to go granted he dosnt know my phone number by heart most people dont know the #s in there cell phone. he also does live with his mom thats how his mom had my phone...... What do you think i should do is he playing me what should i do ?.....
2006-12-25 16:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on...
2006-12-25 16:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm...Thats a tuff one.Maybe he did do something wrong maybe he didn't.Ask about it every now and then but don't hound on it.That could make matters worse.
I believe my girl has on me and won't tell me the truth.Its possible she could have i guess...but it's possible she didn't.
Heres the bad thing i guess.I was up front honest when i did things with 2 different women.The very next day I told her the truth.I felt guilty but I didn't play her as a fool.I did let her Know I enjoyed it but I still wanna be with her.Shes still with me and i love her.She forgave me.To me thats true love.I told her that a realtionship with her is more important to me then sex.I'd rather stay with her then anyonelse in the world I guess.
I told her i would forgiver her if she did something behind my back.She said she would be afraid to tell me the truth cause shes afraid I would make it an excuse to leave her.I hope she would give me the benifit of the doutb.we've been together 3 years and hardly ever fight.If we do fight its only a discussion.it never gets to far out of hand.
The moral of this story is .....I don't know.
No ones perfect maybe.
I'd rather be with someone whos not perfect anyway.Cause Im not thats for sure.I mean someone who knows they're not perfect.I guess thats the perfect person for me.If that makes any sence.
Just let bygones be bygones.
2006-12-25 17:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does it really matter if he's lying or not ,,,, There are other fish in the pond so go fishing ,,,, there are plenty of others out there that come trouble and problem free ,,,,All you have to do is find one ,,,,, As for this guy ,,,, I wouldn't worry about him ,,,, If he really wants a relationship with you then it's up to him to come to you ,,,, It's not for you to worry about it other than to be ready to take it or leave it ,,,, I wouldn't put my life on hold waiting for him ,,,,
2006-12-25 20:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds unreliable, unreasonable and unworthy of your attention. Move on and if he really is interested in you let him to the chasing.
2006-12-25 16:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were important enough to him he would have found a way to reach you. I think he is lying to you and thinking you will buy into what he says.
2006-12-25 16:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jungleroy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Would give him the benefit of the doubt, Give him another go he might be genuine.
2006-12-25 16:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by elfsbabe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just move on...He sounds like a waste of time.
2006-12-25 16:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋