Me and my bf broke up last night (we were together about a year and a half) he says he jsut needs time to to figure out what he wants, but hes not gonna date or anything. and tonight we hung out and he kept calling me baby and tellling me he loves me. and then we kept fooling around.
what is he doing with me?
Whats he thinking about?
im soo confused.
He said he DOES eventully see him self gettin back with me.. jsut not right now.
HELP<3
2006-12-25 16:28:28 · 14 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a confuse guy who doesn't know what he wants or who he is ... but i guess he loves you but still need to time to himself to think or something good luck but he knows what he want and is you maybe is life in general like what is in for the future or something what is he going to become ...etc
2006-12-25 16:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Young guys have no idea what commitment is or means ,,,, He wants a foot in both camps so to speak ,,,, He wants time and space to fool around on your and have a little extra play time no matter what he says about not seeing or dating some one else in the mean time ,,,, but he doesn't necessarily want to loose contact with you either so he wants and expects you to put your life on hold while he goes out and around playing his games ,,,, If he felt about you they way he should then he wouldn't be pulling this sort of crap at all so you have to question his motives in doing this in the first place,,,,, He wants his cake and eat it too ,,,,, Don't give him that satisfaction and don't put your life on hold for anyone ,,,,, This guy is a jerk and he wants to semi break up with you so he can go play around and not have to feel too guilty about it ,,,,, You deserve better than that ,,,, Break it off with this guy and stick to your guns about it ,,,, Don't let him talk you out of it no matter what he says or does ,,,, Guys are good actors too up and including tears ,,,, Don't let him talk you into going back with you ,,,, He as much as wants to cheat on you ,,,,, That being the case he's always going to want to do that ,,,, You don't need his crap ,,,,,, Never settle for second best where it comes to a relationship ,,,, There are more fish in the pond ,,,,, So go fising so to speak ,,,,, Find someone that is fun and exciting to be with that comes trouble and problem free ,,,, They are out there ,,,,, all you have to do is find one ,,,,
2006-12-26 04:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just broke up ! now your fooling around, this isn't making any sense. He's wanting what your giving out so stop putting out and see what happens. Sounds to me he has other options and not telling you the truth! Let him know you might want other options and see if he breaks up again. You have plenty of time and many seeds to sow yourself. You both have similar Friends, this time you break up with him and tell him "you" need time to figure things out". No matter how much you want to fool around just DON"T. He'll be back else he had other plans already !!
This is just my opinion I'm not any authority about relationships, alright . You just are in need of some positive input ! MAKE YOUR OWN DECISION AND STICK TO IT !!
2006-12-26 00:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chris C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is having his cake and eatting it too. If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you right now, you guys should not fool around. He basically wants to see if there is anything better out there aka "I want to figure things out", but he probably doesn't want to be alone. I think the best thing for you is to let him go now and move on for the time being. Don't let him hook up with you while you are not in a relationship, he will never come back to you.
2006-12-26 00:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This guy is totally confused and taking you on a ride.
Stay with him and the next few weeks, months, possibly years will be the same emotional roller-coaster, wondering if you're together or not, what your status is, and why you're with him in the first place.
Break up, enjoy your life, and there's always still a chance that he may get his act together and come back to you later.
2006-12-26 00:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i dunno he sounds really young so dont worry about him
if they arnt sure if they want u then they arnt worth keeping
u should want to be with some one that no's that they want u not some one that isnt sure
hes probibly spotted some other girl who he likes and isnt sure which chick to choose so he tells u that he doesnt want u now bt maby latter and when he finds out if that other girl wants him or not and if she doesnt then he will want u back
so really he is just useing u if u think about it
hunny its not worth all the ******* around inbettween
trust me and im sure alot of other people will tell u not to worry about him ither
u may think u love the guy bt if hes doing this to u now them imagine what he is going to do to u when ur older and been together longer and he does it again
2006-12-26 00:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's messing wit ya head. could be trying to get the upper-hand in the relationship
leave the douche
2006-12-26 00:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Stymie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he would like to split up with you to sleep with someone else but will be happy to use you as long as you'll oblige him. (Is that him and you as your avatar? If so I just thought you should know it's a little weird).
2006-12-26 00:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by haniels_host 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
HE IS CONFUSED TOO AND HE MIGHT BE SICK OF U AND WANTS U AT THE SAME TIME CLEARLY HE DOES NOT LOVE U AT ALL FIND SOME ONE ELSE!
2006-12-26 00:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ephradu 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he sounds like he's playing u in my opinion id watch this does'nt sound good
2006-12-26 00:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋