2006-12-25 16:25:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Arranged marriage is like arrangement for your entire life, such as your future, money wealth, property as well as the blessings of all your relatives. After marriage you will be your own Boss in your House. But Love Marriage is like keeping your self on fire for entire life. This love shines only for few days & nothing but you will have to cook food in your house & look after kids & your wife will be enjoying your life.
2006-12-25 17:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 52, I have married twice for love...I am still searching for my true soulmate. Life is a journey, and if you believe there is more to life than just the here and the now, then experience everything you can...its all a stepping stone to knowing what makes you trully happy and all the hurts that crop up in your life make you strong enough to handle most anything life throws at you.
If this life is all there is, then I certainly would love an arranged marriage.....a man with money, security and power. I would learn to cope as long as I was secure financially. Because if this life is all we will ever experience, then why not make it as financially comfortable as I possibly could. If this life was all there was...I would choose a rich man, an ugly man, a man who had power and position.....a man who wasnt really interested in sex and enjoyment, but only to have children. I would find a life outside of marriage, I would find female friends who I could enjoy my time with. I would learn to detatch myself from anything emotional and play my role as "wife" as best I could, because if this life is all there is, why not make it about you....getting what you want out of a person....Forget about love....love is a spiritual thing that lasts for eternity. If there is no eternity, then why worry about love.
2006-12-25 16:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who wouldn't say they want to marry for love or love the person they marry? The sad truth is that most people mistake fleeting romantic feelings for what true love really is. Our whole society is seemingly deceived and lost on the subjects of romance, love, and marriage.
Typically people in arranged marriages mature and learn to love the person they are married to.
Typically people who fall in love, also fall out of love at some point, and one can only hope they can transcend.
2006-12-25 16:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would want to marry for love. i can't imagine being forced into something that i want to be so permanent. i believe you should be very sure about who you want ot spend the rest of yourlife with before closing that deal. i live with my boyfriend now and have for about a year. we discuss marriage all the time and are just waiting for the right time to announce the engagement. we know each others quirks and bad habits. and feel we can live with that. i would feel way to awkward living with someone i didn't know. in fact i've had a roommate that i didn't meet until i moved in really and never got past the weirdness (also after a year). imagine that same situation but with the expectation of sharing a bed and your total life with that person. it's scary really.
haley
2006-12-25 16:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by haleysname 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋