Family & Relationships - 25 December 2006

I am in my mid 20's, and it seems like every guy I fall for is the Unemotional type. Too distant, unable to connect, and to be truthful just not that into me. The current one has stood me up twice, and broken plans with me at least 3 times. His excuse is always i was asleep, or with other friends, or haven't seen this person in a while and really wanted to hang out with him. I am always nice and forgiving. I am at a loss. I am not an ugly girl, but this long stream of ******* is really making me insecure.

2006-12-25 17:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Singles & Dating

u know how we indians are crazy in believing astrology? we go to an astrologer and he comes with a prediction and if his prediction even comes to pass partly, he is worshiped godlike.my gal's mom has thrown a googly at us now. the family astrologer of my gal's family said that my gal will have an arranged marriage(not even a love *** arranged) and that has scared the **** outta me. i dont wanna be with another gal . cant even conceive a thought of saying-i love u or i wanna kiss u- to someone else. i dont believe in astrology, never have. but this is my gal we are talking abt here. i dont wanna loose her. what should i do? should i maintain a distance and not get too cozy with her cos the future may bring out somethng else. or should i just throw all astro predictions and love her more than i love her today( if its possible)?
bottom line. i want her to be happy. whatever it takes to keep her safe and happy!

2006-12-25 17:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by aryan_vikas2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy who has told me he doesn't want me to get attatched, but he always comes back and each time he does, we end up foolin' around...he told me once he is a bad boyfriend...and he is the only guy in my life...i just don't know what to do...

2006-12-25 17:09:43 · 11 answers · asked by RadMe02 1 in Singles & Dating

my 8 yr old son has the worst attitude,hes mean to his little sister if hes asked to do something and doesnt want to do it he stomes off throwing whatever he can slamming doors hitting walls and it doesnt seem to be getting any better no matter what i do.he does real well in school but over the past month has been getting in trouble there too,he has no problem looking you in the eyes and lying right to you.im lost and dont have a clue what else to do.the way things are going im afraid of what might happen years down the road . and now his little sister thinks the way to fet what she wants is to be rude and mean.if anyone can help please let me know

2006-12-25 17:09:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mom always is hollwoing at me..and its 4 nothing.i dont know what to do and its making me stressed out. she told me i was crazy because she lost her key. she told me i was crazy because i wonted 2 go out with my boyfriend....i dont know what to do everytime i ask her a question she goes off at me. sometime i just be wonting to cry.is it something im doin? help

2006-12-25 17:08:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

YOU WERE CAUGHT CHEATING ON THE TV SHOW "CHEATERS"?

2006-12-25 17:08:05 · 14 answers · asked by PEACHES 5 in Friends

A husband, maybe boyfriend before that.

2006-12-25 17:07:30 · 2 answers · asked by Otter Pop 2 in Friends

I KEPT TELLINGG THIS GIRL I DIDINT LIKE HER, SHE LIKED ME ALOT!!!!!! I WAS AN A** TO HER, BUT SHE STILL LIKED ME!!! WE HUNG AND DID MORE AND MORE STUFF WITH EACH OTHER, BUT ME BEING THE GUY I WAS ACTING HARD LIKE I DIDNT WANT HER, SHE STILL LIKED ME, NOW SHE LEFT ME, BUT I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER, BUT NOW SHE'S WITH ANOTHER GUY. WHY????? CANT STOP THIKNG OF HER AND I KNOW YALL ARE GUNNA SAY ITS MY FAULT I KNOW!!!! I THINK I LEARNED MY LESSON, BUT THIS CANT BE THE END!!! SHE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR ME, AND THERS NOTHING I CAN DO TO FIX IT, TRUST ME I KNO!!! AND I THINK I JUST ANSWERED MY QUESTION DAMMM WHAETVA IM A DUMASS!! I KNO!!

2006-12-25 17:07:16 · 5 answers · asked by TAHOE GUY 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.

MERRY CHRISTMAS! Hope you all had a great one!

2006-12-25 17:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by krazych1nky 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband has tryed for years to talk to his kids...should i talk to them....its very hard for him to talk to them and they dont come around only to get something...they holidays they only come to get gifts....they were suppose to be here on christmas and christmas eve. but they said they wanted to spend it again at there other familys...we spent alot of time and money to make it right and they dumped us again....its hard for my husband to talk to them or his ex...he has visitation rights but his ex does what ever she wants..and takes advantage of him and hes not a very good comuticator and they dont care what he says they do what they want...i think my husband is very sad and cant take much more and see's how much fun we have with my kids and how my kids are not rude or selfish....and i think he wants his kids around and wants the same with his kids but like his step daughter said last night which is a lie dad i told you we werent staying and im missing a party at mom to be here

2006-12-25 17:04:33 · 11 answers · asked by shelby8687 2 in Family

How can you get a guy to like you in 7th grade? I mean with so many preppy people it's hard to find a guy to like you. I'm a shy person, and i'm shy to talking to guys, will I ever get a guy to crush on me in 7th grade? Please help!

2006-12-25 17:04:30 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

well we have been together for a year and a half hes older than me and we are kinda long distance due to his job..im still in high school and all but i really care for this man and i would like to start talking to him with more of my heart but id like to start with this (see above) so i can see how he feels about it too..im just neriouvs and would like some help on what you would think

2006-12-25 17:04:05 · 13 answers · asked by dreaming 2 in Singles & Dating

What would girls think if they saw a guy wearing hairclips?

2006-12-25 17:03:48 · 10 answers · asked by porphyria89 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-25 17:03:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met a wonderful woman last night. We talked alot, and she let me give her a foot rub and a backrub, which I am confident in saying that I do a hell of a good job. Anyways, she was curious about my age, told me I looked 24-25, then she guessed my age correctly... I'm 34. Walked out to car with her, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I hate rushing into things with chicks, but this one seems like a good catch. Is it enough for me to think she likes me?

2006-12-25 17:03:16 · 6 answers · asked by FearDragons 3 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i have an old family friend who i rarely see, and we were really cool! last ime i saw him was in september, and he was real nice. he came over for christmas and i offered him some cheesecake, but he ingored me. he was all no thanks, and he walked away. he ignored me the whole day. what is his problem?

2006-12-25 17:02:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-25 17:00:25 · 19 answers · asked by krishna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever had to tell someone to back off just to have them not 'get it' So you got more and more direct. Finally you had to snap at them and hurt their feelings before they took you seriously... Then they just sat around crying and wondering what happened and how you could be so dispresectful. They put guilt trips on you for hurting them and they act almost scared of you?

I had this happen with my family and all I asked for was some space because they were extremely invasive in my life.

Has anyone else had bounderies back fire?

2006-12-25 17:00:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Theres a guy i work with and i have always had a crush on him but i knew he has a girlfriend so i kept clear. A few months ago we started getting along really well and sort of flirting, at the start didnt think it was anything, but the flirting got more serious. Anyway we have spoken about the whole thing several times and i have told him it needs to stop because my feelings are likely to get hurt and that he should think more about how he has a girlfriend. Everytime we agree for it too stop it does for a little while then it gets right back were it started. Its getting to me because i have geniune feelings for this guy. I do realise if he will do it to her, he could do it to me and what not, im looking for advice on how to avoid getting hurt without us being weird around each other, we have to work together. Also nothing more than flirting has happened. And we dont talk about how we feel about each other, so i have no idea if he would actually want to be with me. Help me out

2006-12-25 17:00:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You meet a girl through an online service such as jdate or Americansingles and have a nice time. You both agree at the end of the date but she gives some kind of lame excuse that she will see or something but both people seem to leave happy. What are the common excuses that females will use in this situation?

2006-12-25 16:59:31 · 10 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Singles & Dating

need a copy of my marriage in 2003 to jack malone

2006-12-25 16:58:54 · 5 answers · asked by amrosemary43 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this boy named derek and ive known him since kindergarten but we moved away and i seen him last year and we were justs aquaintences but now im confuzed i think he likes me and ithink he doesnt at the same time one day i was riding the bus home and some stupid kid was in a play fight in the seat behind me and he screamed rape...well for jokes i screamed back DUDE u cant rape the willing and he slapped me in the face and said wait till we get of the bus then see what will happen ill kick the **** out your face and well since derek got on the bus late in the beginning he sat with me and when he overheard that he was like stpeh im getting off wit you and walk u to your work so this lil punk wont hurt you.

and when we have open in classes and hes playing a game he lets me put my feet on top of his..

DOES HE LIKE ME BACK OR NOT? HELP?

WHAT CAN I DO TO BETTER OUR RELATIONSHIP?

2006-12-25 16:57:44 · 3 answers · asked by pinkblonde14 1 in Singles & Dating

To all of you who spent Christmas alone (family doesn't count, I'm one of the only few from WV here and even I don't use that as an excuse) don't worry and don't fret. One of these days your time will come. I was 27 before I met the right one, and I spent many Christmas's before that alone.
Just have a great night tonight, and make up for it on New Year's Eve. Go out with some friends and have a good time. Then, you will realize even if you don't have a significant other at the time, you are really NOT alone.
Merry Christmas and God Bless!

2006-12-25 16:56:51 · 20 answers · asked by AirborneKappaSigma 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm 21 and single and every guy I've met lately it just hasn't worked. Several just wanted one night stands which would be great but I'm more of a relationship type person. I'm not saying I'm ready for marriage but I want to actually go on more than one date before a guy expects me to sleep with him. I seem to attract all the wrong guys for me, is there something wrong with me? I mean my friends and everyone say I'm attractive and nice but yet I can't get a nice guy to see me, what do I do?

2006-12-25 16:56:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 13.yea 13.I got in an arguement about this.I think it's wrong that you cheat or someone cheats on you.Then again your probably thinking "your 13.who cares!?" well i just want to know

2006-12-25 16:56:14 · 20 answers · asked by ~so what if im 13~ 1 in Friends

v r in deep love for 8 years. but now i started having hate feel upon him cos his kind of move towards girls(his move is not bad, but he has girl friends at large number since he is in cine field).i know he is a gem, but then i have an uncontrollable possessiveness where by i fight with him daily, but he builds an tajmahal in his heart every day for me. recommend me an solution please.....

2006-12-25 16:55:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-25 16:55:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't stand it I love him but I'm not copeing at all. We use to date years ago and I do care about him but I have my standards and I'm not changing If he won't bath I'm not putting out for him. I told him this is whats bothering me and he left Christmas eve I'm sad but I can't change the way I am. He says he is hurting bad but not enough to fix it I guess Its a shame because we do get on good together.

2006-12-25 16:55:24 · 24 answers · asked by deb m 4 in Singles & Dating

Normally this wouldn't be a difficult question but I'm a guy. My sister actually asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. She thinks i could pull it off and it'd be fun and cute. She wants me to do it all too. Hair, makeup, nails, bra, panties, all of it, even a name.
I asked her about wearing a tux or dressing as a guy wearing the same colors and standing up there with her and she really wants me to wear the dress. She just thinks it'd be great and that the wedding wouldn't turn into a circus or anything.
I'm only 5ft 11 and weigh 135lbs and hair is light brown and goes down to my shoulders so i could probably pull it off but i've never even dressed as a girl before. I'm 19 and have a girlfriend and she said it'd be sweet to do that for my sister since she wants everybody in the wedding and this is the only position left for me. PLEASE HELP! suggestions and advice please!

2006-12-25 16:54:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am going to central america and not sure if I should stay clean or grow a little stubble, or goatee? Thanks ladies

2006-12-25 16:53:47 · 18 answers · asked by Eric O 2 in Singles & Dating