You meet a girl through an online service such as jdate or Americansingles and have a nice time. You both agree at the end of the date but she gives some kind of lame excuse that she will see or something but both people seem to leave happy. What are the common excuses that females will use in this situation?
2006-12-25 16:59:31 · 10 answers · asked by justellemJimsaidhello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, what kind of excuse do they use for not giving a straight yes or no in regards to a second date?
2006-12-25 17:08:31 · update #1
Working a lot, but I will call to tell you when I am free, but never do. I used that one before. Family, dog, scheduling issues (other than work) etc. Sometimes even after a good first date the woman might feel that the chemistry isn't right and its easier to agree to a second date and never follow through than to have some awkward situation at the end of the first.
2006-12-25 17:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U: wanna go out again friday?
Her: no, i gotta work.
U:saturday?
Her: i already have plans.
U:sunday?
Her: i go to church.
These are all excuses you get when u meet someone online, and they see you arent what they expected(you dont look like your picture, you lied about your age, you dont act like they thought you would ect.) so they are turned off, you need to stay away from this online dating foolishness and get online with some real life face to face dating!
2006-12-25 17:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by HustleGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want the excuses or just want to understand why women do that?
These "excuses" have to be made up because some women need more time to think about whether she really wants to continue goin out with u or not. That should not be taken offensively. They are just being considerate about your feelings.
2006-12-25 17:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Esther T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually go with, "I'm sorry I don't feel we have a strong connection."
Guys get ticked off but I consider that I'm doing them a favor by being honest upfront.
If they don't quit, excuses are, "I'm too busy" "I'm not ready for a relationship" "My ex called me last night" "Oh! You know what? That hot guy just called me, the one I was telling you about!" (cruel, I know) "I'm gay now. My partner would love to meet you."
2006-12-25 17:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by Karolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dating online isnt wise period...no matter how happy u may seem. most of the time its an act just like whats put on most of the profiles..id just say wait for the rite person..not online
2006-12-25 17:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never dated anyone from a online dating service.
2006-12-25 17:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about you quit dating chicks online?
2006-12-25 17:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make excuse for what? a 2nd date? to share a night? what?
2006-12-25 17:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ladeeda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to busy with family or work, not feeling well, met someone else
2006-12-25 17:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋