I like this guy who has told me he doesn't want me to get attatched, but he always comes back and each time he does, we end up foolin' around...he told me once he is a bad boyfriend...and he is the only guy in my life...i just don't know what to do...
2006-12-25 17:09:43 · 11 answers · asked by RadMe02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is also a nice guy...and he talks to me pretty much every day on the computer, 'cause he doesn't live in the same area
2006-12-25 18:19:02 · update #1
Love comes in most unexpected circumstances...shown in the most weirdest of ways...if this is the way he wants it...then so be it...for the time being just let things be. Good luck...happy holidays!!!
2006-12-25 17:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach people how to treat you by your actions. Right now you are letting this guy know that he can use you and there are no consequences for it. He keeps coming back because you let him come back. As hard as its going to be for you, you need to let this guy go and find someone that wants to be your bf--the good, the bad and the in-between.
2006-12-26 01:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying about being the only one in your romantic life. However, you got to respect his candor in telling you he's a "bad boyfriend" and advises you don't let your heart attach to his.
I'd feel it's wise to heed his warnings and stop meeting w/ him to "fool around". Wouldn't it be a mess if you two got caught--espicially if he has another girlfriend....or worse....become pregnant by this guy.
2006-12-26 01:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe the only guy you have right now, but definitely not the only guy for your rest of your life. but if you don't let him go, they he'll become the only one for the rest of your life cause he doesn't sound good to you and if you stick with him, no other nicer guys will come around with you. think in long term. you wanna be with someone who respects you and loves you!
2006-12-26 01:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously this guy is a **** doesn't even know what either of you want, he doesn't want you to be attached but keeps coming back for more, looks like he is blind. Tell him that you want to try going out, see what it's like, if it doesn't work out then you to can go back to being like friends like before. Like it never happened!
2006-12-26 01:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend who will treat you really well. Make him jealous or just tell him that your willing to take the chance.
2006-12-26 01:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Christianchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's using you. He comes running when he wants something (such as, when he wants to fool around), but puts up this innocent "I-dont-want-you-to-get-attached" face to make himself feel better about treating you like dirt.
He's no good for you; move on!
2006-12-26 01:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat pie, and tell him I love you, and you are a really good boyfriend.
2006-12-26 01:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Otter Pop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
interesting....i think you are in the same boat as me....i have no idea how to help you because i'm confused too!!!!!!! sorry hun
2006-12-26 01:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only guy in your life , I don't think so there's me !!!!!!!!!!! take care
2006-12-26 01:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by hardroader67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋