How can you get a guy to like you in 7th grade? I mean with so many preppy people it's hard to find a guy to like you. I'm a shy person, and i'm shy to talking to guys, will I ever get a guy to crush on me in 7th grade? Please help!
2006-12-25 17:04:30 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay first of all... i'm not talking about 'actual' dating, kissing, going out on date etc, no. that's not what i'm talking about. and how can you not concentrate on liking someone, I find that pretty hard to say especially when you have millions of people there in your faces, that are nice, cute, funny, and hot. So, you know people my age don't want to only care about studies, so think of diffrent replies, thanks.
2006-12-25 17:12:14 · update #1
well im in 8th and i feel the same way so being in a sertain grade doesnt mean anything and all you can do is be yourself never try to change yourself cause that never works and he wont be liking you if you do change yourself and yeah some guys do like preppy girls and trust me im not one of them all you can do is let him know that your interested in little ways and if he is interested in you as well you will know, this might not make since but if you would like me to help you out im good at giving advice but sometimes it doesnt make since when i am in a hurry so if you would like me to help you out on this you can email me anytime into_the_ocean_plshaw11@yahoo.com i hope i helped some i can help better hope you figure it all out
LOVE 8th GRADER GIRL
2006-12-25 17:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I hope this doesn't come out too harsh, but honestly it's a waste of time. I've just finished 11th grade, and I can honestly say that after a number of failed relationships, I wish I'd never started out so early. Just wait until you're at least 16, and the boys are more mature so you know to pick out a good one and have a relationship that will last. Honestly answer this, have you ever heard of a relationship at age 13 that lasted more than 6 months? What I'm trying to say is, don't develop crushes too young.
2006-12-26 01:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself =)
Seriously, be yourself, enjoy the things that you enjoy, and SMILE! People love a beautiful smile, and it often makes people less nervous or shy, and more willing to start a conversation.
I should warn you, however, that most boys in middle school are NOT ready for a girlfriend. They're much more worried about other things -- sports, their friends, sports, cars, sports, video games, and sports -- so don't be too upset if it doesn't work out right away. By the time you get to high school, you'll have lots of practice talking to people and being friendly and social, finding a boyfriend should be a piece of cake!
2006-12-26 01:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose whether you want one guy to have crush on you now or have a the whole world have crush on you and desire you.
This is the crucial stage of your life and a foundation to your future so occupy yourself with your what you should be doing. Don't waste your precious time by thinking about nonsense things.
2006-12-26 01:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one don't change who you are. Trust me I was shy when I was in 7th grade. The only way you can get someone to like you is if you be your self. Just don't put on all that mascara, eyeliner, lip stick, and eye shadow just to get a guy to like you.
2006-12-26 01:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Christianchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him! and if it doesn't work, don't worry
you have plenty (and I mean PLENTY) of time to worry about this sort of stuff. have fun with your friends, be silly, and do what 7th graders are supposed to do -- play videogames, have slumber parties, go to the mall
boys will come around, but at your age -- they're just as confused as you are, don't sweat it!
2006-12-26 01:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Karolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to worry about your studies. You are too young for all this nonsense. Wait a few more years.
2006-12-26 01:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by eee_aww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get paased your shyness and just go for it and start flirting with the guys you like and see which ones react with positive results and pic you a guy you like and go from there.
2006-12-26 01:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by brian v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on your studies. it's too early, you're going to corrupt your mind
2006-12-26 01:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like him talk to him. and then see where things go
2006-12-26 01:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by Dan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋