Me and my bf broke up last night (we were together about a year and a half) he says he jsut needs time to to figure out what he wants, but hes not gonna date or anything. and tonight we hung out and he kept calling me baby and tellling me he loves me. and then we kept fooling around.
what is he doing with me?
Whats he thinking about?
im soo confused.
He said he DOES eventully see him self gettin back with me.. jsut not right now.
HELP<3
p.s. dont say hes useing me. or that theres another girl. its not htat. i honeslty think hes use to doing that wiht me....
I dont know,
2006-12-25 17:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are just like us. They love. They miss. They get used to us. That is what is happening - i think. He likes you still and can't be without you at all. The only difference is that girls much more quicker start to realize WHAT they want and they -don't.
2006-12-25 17:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Natalya Ch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie appearing like this is gonna do no longer something yet get you illnesses and NO relationship. you could no longer turn a hoe right into a housewife ! And in case you start up off being a hoe , no men gonna wanna have a destiny with you ! i'm no longer asserting you're a hoe yet some human beings injury down and once you do . What I pronounced would be authentic
2016-10-28 09:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never tell if another person is involved. Some guys don't hide it very well, while others go to the extreme for their girlfriends not to know. However, in your case I think that he wasn't sure if he wanted to commit and is still a little confused. Even though you'd been going out for a year, it takes people a different amount of time to fully commit to relationships.
2006-12-25 17:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it a few weeks without seeing him or talking to him all the time, if there's something still there that you both want to pursue then go for it, but its just hard when two people keep going back and forth.
2006-12-25 17:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by tigrelis28 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you broke up with him don't you find it a little strange that you were fooling around with him? I know you did not want to hear this but it seems that he was just using you for your body at that moment and this is coming from a guy
2006-12-25 17:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by porphyria89 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he realize that he still love you and he cannot let you go. Give him another chance but if it didnt work out again thats the time when you need to move on
2006-12-25 17:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by LoneLy_SoUL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is VERY comfortable with you...and feels that he likes doing things with you and wants to keep that even if you guys aren't boyfriend girlfriend
2006-12-25 17:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is thinking only about what he wants and what he needs.
You have to ask yourself what You want and what You need.
If he can't decide if he wants to be with you or not, but "sort of" wants to be with you, then that's a person you do not need in your life.
2006-12-25 17:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by lyoskowitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think of your body as a temple, and don't hold any services in there until he decides where he is putting his faith from now on.
2006-12-25 17:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea all around.
There's a serious lack of commitment here.
If you let him have sex with you without any kind of commitment, why would he want to "get back with you"?
Don't have sex with anyone until you're married!
2006-12-25 17:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋