There's this guy I'm dating but I'm not into the relationship like he is.I just don't like him the way he likes me.Should I break up with him and not lead him on so much?I think I should stop but how without hurting his feelings?
2006-12-25 17:31:35 · 12 answers · asked by ~pam*a*la~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's this guy I'm dating but I'm not into the relationship like he is.I just don't like him the way he likes me.Should I break up with him and not lead him on so much?I think I should stop but how without hurting his feelings.(some of u really aren't helping?!!)
2006-12-25 17:36:36 · update #1
Well if the guy really likes you and you break up with him his feelings are gonna get hurt no matter what. But stop misleading him and let him know your true thoughts on the relationship are. Would you like to be in his shoes?
2006-12-25 17:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by CR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! firstly it's weird did you like him?? and why should you dating with him if you don't like him!!? secondly there"s no way break up with someone without hurting his feeling!! if you really wanna to break up with just go said that you are not Love him or something that can make him leave you it might be hurt him but just have a talk with him...maybe he will understand...i guess.. maybe I'm not expert in it but just try it ...I've a lot watching movie that solve this problem using this solution...have a talk with him OK....
2006-12-25 17:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Rei hatsumi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is into the realtaionship a different way then you shouldnt be with him because you cannot give him what he wants or he cannot give u want you want one of the two but i think you know u arent meant to be so you should just tell him in a public place so it doesnt get to heated that you dont like him in the same way and you want to see other people.....
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2006-12-25 17:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by happy_go_lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either tell him you want to take things back a bit because you're not ready for a serious relationship or break up with him. This is definitely leading him on.
Sadly i am in the same situation, and i can't bring myself to do anything because he's really nice. :(
*sigh* best of luck
2006-12-25 17:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Amelia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep waiting it will get way worse. If you break up with him now he won't be as hurt. Or you can tell him just to slow down. If you just can't tell him verbally tell him (not sign language) Just don't wait too long.
2006-12-25 17:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by Natnael S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no good lies, and bad promises are better broken than kept. He is going to be confused and will panic, so maybe you better think about what is lacking, and how you think you can find it better with someone else? If he's too intense., if he's creepy, tell him to slow down and give you room.
2006-12-25 17:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him just what you told us here. It may be painful at first, but it's a lot better that he knows right away.
2006-12-25 17:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
continue or start having sex with him, but also have sex with other men. let him confront you if he finds out and experience grudge sex or tell him you want him and another man to take turns on you
2006-12-25 17:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way you can't hurt his feelings.tell him the truth.he will be hurt.most of the time they get over it
2006-12-25 18:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by ~so what if im 13~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too but lets look at it this way... its two points for me!
2006-12-25 17:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋