Seems to me it's almost as risky to date a divorced man as it would be to date a married one. After all, a lot of men divorce their wives because they get bored with and tired of them. What makes you think he won't get bored with and tired of you as well? I don't really see a whole lot of difference here.
2006-12-25 17:14:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why, in this instance, would you trust the divorced man with your heart but not the married man?
2006-12-25 17:25:00 · update #1
This is not a question of morals, but instead one of trust. Besides, there are millions of people in this country in this day and age with questionable morals, both married and unmarried.
2006-12-25 17:31:07 · update #2
when dating a married man its about sex and money. He is just a sugar daddy, and real women know they don't leave the wife for the girlfriend. basically, most divorce men have been left by the wife. A married man is less trouble , because they just want to pamper you and you pamper them. Then they return to their regular life, its mostly wanting a escape for the everyday routine of boring crap.There are 2 sides to every story,honey.
2006-12-25 17:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by srstephens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never date a married man because he's married and is breaking his marriage vows to forsake all others for his wife. The man is an untrustworthy scum. People get divorced for a variety of reasons and not just boredom. I would date a divorced man because at least you know that he was willing to make a commitment at one time even if it didn't work out. Just because he made a mistake in his past doesn't mean that he should be penalized for the rest of it.
2006-12-25 18:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the married guy has a wife and it's not just ethicnically wrong but socially wrong. If a man's married he shouldn't be seen on a date with anyone but his wife. A divorced man isn't married anymore and it's not considered wrong for a woman to date a divorced man. He may want to try having another relationship, where as the married guy is only doing it to ruin his.
2006-12-25 17:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We feel safer with it, when the question of morality is not an issue? I'm trying to find out the status of a number of folks here that I talk to....of course they would not part readily with the information. Someone did come up with a very skillful way of weedling it out on the IM and used it on me.
Oh well, I've some friends who keep married friends in their list, and talk to them every day. They have no problem with that, except if the woman gets caught, she'll be a "grass widow" in no time, kids or no. And of course there are plenty of really strange arrangements where the married folks both act like they are still single. They pretty much leave me in peace, as I'm still a kid.
2006-12-27 12:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women prefer to date a divorced man rather than a married man because...if the feelings will develop into something stronger then there's a possibility for a more serious relationship...but for somebody who's married it would be indecent and if ever it will end up having the woman as a home wrecker . Happy holidays!!!
2006-12-25 17:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by dimma59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty obvious really. A divorced man is not commited to someone else. Not all divorces end because of boredom. Also, if a man is married, why would he be interested in someone else? Your question makes no sense.
2006-12-25 17:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone with any self-respect wouldn't date a married person man or woman. You should respect the vows that person made even if he or she doesn't want to. If a person is divorced they no longer have that commitment and are free to date legally as well as morally (this depends on your religious views of divorce of course.). The bottom line is about commitment and trust and self-respect. As well as your personal values.
2006-12-25 17:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because its not always about being bored with someone. if that is the reason a man got divorced from his wife, i'm definately less likely to date him. but to date a married man, there is too much sharing, too much secrecy, and no commitment whatsoever. and it hurts more. single guy is a lot easier to get over than a married one... ironically.
2006-12-25 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by orange blossom honey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 17:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't answer this question without morals in mind, if someone is married to someone else its for a reason, the two people are in loved, not one person loves another person but gets married.
2006-12-25 17:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bruce T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋