we've made NO COMMITMENT with each other but I'm falling for him bad. I want him to know that, but i don't know if he gets it.
He calls, but only when i ask him to.
He seems to like hanging out with me, but he also likes hangning out with everyone else.
We're close , but not that close.. what can i do to bring us closer?
should i only make him hang out with me? or should i try and let him hang out with other girls? with me coming?
i know that if he likes me.. nothing will change that, but im afraid that if i let him hang out with this one girl, she'd make him fall for her. the thing is i know she likes him.. but i dont know who HE LIKES. i know though , that he likes someone, he just didnt tell me. Everytime I mention this topic, he gets stuttery and doesnt want to talk about it.
2006-12-25 17:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ah yes teenage love.........leave him alone about his friends....let him pick who he wants to hang with...males do not like being told what to do (by female companions)........learn this now and save yourself major headaches in the future by not trying to change a male into what you want.
2006-12-25 17:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by slick chik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two are meant to be together you will be. If you try to control him and keep him away from his other friends, male or female you will loose in the long run. When you like someone you have to accept them as they are and be ready to accept their friends and family into your life just as you expect the other person to accept yours. You need to wait and see what he is going to do since he won't talk to you about who he likes. You can't force someone to fall in love with you or not fall for someone else. A person's feelings are their own. Be careful and don't make any stupid mistakes like getting pregnant to keep him. That will also drive him away. Good luck.
2006-12-25 17:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are wasting your time with him.
They are heaps of women like you on this website who seem to think that they can force a man to fall in love with them.
You are either in a relationship or you are not. There are not two way about it. If you are sleeping with someone and still going out with other people... rather than spending time with each other... you are just fooling yourself into believing that you have any future.
If you love someone and go to bed with them... the sex act is what seal your relationship. If it does not... it is nothing more than a one night stand.
2006-12-25 17:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves being in the middle and would probably try you both. he won't decide as long as he know both of you like him. don't do anything. If he doesn't already like you enough for who you are, then he's not worth the effort. Why should you have to go out of your way?
2006-12-25 17:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an eternal and spontaneous bonding between two living beings
2006-12-25 18:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will hate you if you try isolating him from anything. does he know how you really feel? if so and he doesn't change his actions, then you need to start over with someone else. do not boil the rabbit.
2006-12-25 17:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not okay. It's controlling and jealous.
If he really wants to be with you, he will. If he wants to be with this other girl, than there's nothing that you can do (and definately nothing you SHOULD do) to stop it.
2006-12-25 17:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋