I've been intimate with my ex-boyfriend for 6 years we both have been in other relationships, but he has a new girlfriend that he really loves but he say he still loves me too and we've even had sex since he's been with this girl. He takes her to visit his family and planning on moving to Texas with her but he says he still loves me. Is it love or still lust after six years?
2006-12-25 18:02:42 · 19 answers · asked by Kiki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since that is a bit of time to be with someone, I'm pretty sure he still cares about you. He can love you, but not be in love with you. He is in love with the other girl. You two could be friends if you both can handle that.
2006-12-25 18:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better for you to move on.
You can clearly see he's playing. I mean, If the guy REALLY loves you then he'd only have space for you in his heart. And if he already broke-up with you that only means he doesn't want you back. Stop hoping for a fairytale with him. Find another man who'd give you his everything than stay with someone you treats you as a second fiddle.
You don't wanna end-up in The Jerry Springer Show right? Lol. Anyways, It's all up to you. Hope Everything will turn out fine.
2006-12-26 02:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by heartshapedbox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men can... they love something about different women and are possesive of them. Back in biblical days (old testament) they had many wives & concubines. I bet polygamists are in LOVE with all their wives.... yuck!
Shee-yah! If he has a good thing going on, he wouldn't have to use her. Wants everything he can deviously get away with & I wouldn't say he's more in love with either one or he wouldn't be two-timing. :)))))********
Yep, for some guys it keeps it interesting when they have different holes to poke. Sorry to be crude but their rudeness warrants it.
yes, talk to him, I'm sure you'll get some honesty out of a two-timer! ha
2006-12-26 02:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on with your life!! Sorry but it's true if he's just telling you that he loves you pretty much just to sleep with you it's not worth it. You don't need the hearbreak and then you don't want to be the home wrecker either. Just tell him to choose he either loves and stays with you or he sticks with his girlfriend!! Good Luck
2006-12-26 02:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely a NO..!! sound more like lust..
True love involve 3 people always a pain!! and if thats really true love, he should know that..and do the best for all...either pick one or neither...
sound more like lust..
2006-12-26 03:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely lust . You don't sleep with other people when you're in love.He's got a good thing going and he's using you (as well as disrespecting you)
2006-12-26 02:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can two people can travel, on one ticket. Just think whats up in is mind. Keep judging & one day you might have to take dicission.
2006-12-26 02:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can love in many different ways. I don't think you can simultaneously love two people in the single the way you suggest.
2006-12-26 02:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by helplessromatic2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even think of this guy. Has he ever taken you to meet his family?It is only lust, and nothing else. forget him.
2006-12-26 02:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a broad word, you can love many people, but only have one "True Love" It sounds like he loves many people...sorry
2006-12-26 02:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by gueroslaptop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋