Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

I'm crushing bigtime on my neighbor. He knows that, but hasn't made any move so far.

Another neighbor of mine said that my crush confided in him about me. My crush said that the reason he hasn't asked me out yet is because of our age difference.

Thing is, I'm 13 and he's 16. Does it make much difference?
Even if he wants to wait, we'll still be 3 years apart, no matter what. So should I just forget him?Or give him a piece of my mind?Or what??

2006-12-21 01:17:12 · 21 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Singles & Dating

“When will you get married???”

It was a family gathering, all my families and my parents’ best friends were all there. Well, They asked me for the 100th times the same question “when will you get married? don’t be picky… your mom and dad can’t wait to be grandparents.. you’re the only one they got….. get a man and get married… people gets old.. Carla.. blah blah..”

So, they kept asking…

And nagging…

And asking...

And nagging…

So, I decided to stand up and I said “Stop asking me that question again! I mean, I’m not ready to get married and yet no one wants to marry me either! I’d inform y’all if one day I got married! So, pls stop asking.. I so need a break! Ok? Thanks!”

Then I left.
I looked back, I saw my mom staring at me.. she looked disappointed and was shaking her head. Well, I know I sucked, didn’t I?

2006-12-21 01:17:01 · 33 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

He is 46 i am 16 and yes, its legalint his country.
He says he cant stand the secrecy and wishes i was older so we could be togeher properley and I know i sound niave but he really isnt a pervert, i am mch more than just a booty call to him because he has way too much to lose, including children (both older and younger than me)
But I realy love him and cant imagine life without him he is kind, affectionate, generous, genuine and lovely and I want to be with him properley and I can't be and its breakng my heart.
Please help.

2006-12-21 01:16:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was little, I always believed that there was ONE person out there just for me. Now, here I am twenty something years later, - gone through a few 'potientals' but still single.

I just don't know if I believe in there being one person anymore, or if there are alot of people who come along at different times in life when you need them the most and the one you can stand to be around the most is the one who wins your heart.

Maybe I am just bitter.

So, my question is, do YOU still believe in soulmates?

2006-12-21 01:15:39 · 27 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it actually possible for a man/women/animal , to die from extreme lonelyness basically a broken heart?

Lets say a 60 year old man , lost his father, mother , aunts uncle due to old age , and then his partner dies? Can he die from lonelyness/broken heart?

2006-12-21 01:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by D.O... 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A difference of two years?

2006-12-21 01:15:00 · 6 answers · asked by coldblooded 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, this is fact. However it is stupid. Fall in love in less than a week? haha
Well look at The Bachlore, there are 25 women on the show and majority of them fall in love with one sausage knowing that in the end they are going to get their heart broken. Chicks, Why don't u lock ur hearts and throw keys in the ocean?

2006-12-21 01:14:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl whom I really like is having her birthday next month. Okay, let me tell you more about her first. I have told her my feeling one month ago, and sadly.. she said she just wants to be friend.

However, I refused to give up yet I do not want to be a stalker. i just want to be a best friend of her first. How can I do something special for her on her birthday which is not annoying but will leave a memory for her?

We are 14

Thanks!

2006-12-21 01:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Friends

2006-12-21 01:13:48 · 19 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

Money is such a stupid thing to argue over but its the one thing that can create a big argument.Well I earn just under £200-00 a week and my other half earns just over £300-00, now he gives me money contributing to the bills and stuff but he keeps back bout £100-00 a week for himself.since we have bought a house our bills come up to well over £1200-00 per month.I pay for the groceries, and everything else we need but I dont have money left over.I also pay for petrol as my other half doesnt drive.I think this is a little unfair when he can go out and spend and I have to struggle with money thinking Im going to go overdrawn and this causes alot of arguments between us and it is bad!

2006-12-21 01:13:17 · 17 answers · asked by kez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I were having a long distance relationship. in the first month he was ok. He emailed me and contacted me. I thopught things were all ok. However a month later, he started having less contact. I was not able to get hold of him at all. He is a grad student and his father is sick so he is extremely busy with his life. Before I left, he promised me everything but things have all changed now. I was hoping that he would call me but he never did. Today he just wrote me an email to tell me that he has been feeling alone since long ago. He feels neglected and he is extremely depressed. He thinks the relationship is like a job that he was not doing thing he was happy with. In the email he decided to be open to me for the first time that he is depressed and he's been feeling alone. He doesn't feel the same way anymore, he thinks we are too different people. He is moving on and I was shocked to get this....I don't know what to do and please help!!

2006-12-21 01:13:04 · 6 answers · asked by Citychick 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 01:12:43 · 8 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

I went out with on a blind date set up by my friend while i was seperated from my on again off again bf . His name is Anthony and he goes to the school i will be transfering in.I really liked him and we went out on a number of dates.He is very sweet and nice to me even offered advice on classes.We email each other still and he is single still my friend says he is looking for a gf?My bf and i broke up again.Would it be okay for me to ask this other guy to hang out?

2006-12-21 01:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by Miranda W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 01:12:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They have a kid and he has told me that he is gay and wants to come out of the closet, how do i help him do this, this is weird cause i didnt know that he was gay....should i encourage it and take his wife, because she is hot and i have gotten vibes from her before. Please give me some good advise, cause i hate the news that my friend is gay, but then again if i have a chance to comfort his wife then maybe something good will come out of it for all of us

2006-12-21 01:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is changing... crying everyday... leaving her friends behind... even her own best friend... isolating herself from the world... i cant just leave her behind... all of my friends and i really care for her and dont want her to go through life regretting things she's doing now... we want her to go back to her old happy self again... please help me help her before its too late... it will be ok if you email me as well

NOTE: NO NEGATIVE REPLIES WILL BE ENTERTAINED...

2006-12-21 01:11:27 · 9 answers · asked by --?-- 2 in Friends

Any suggestions?

2006-12-21 01:09:58 · 33 answers · asked by ANTI-STALKER QUEEN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why does he say that? & what does it mean coming from a man

2006-12-21 01:08:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is 42 yrs old and has spent the last 15 yrs bumming around the country with a drug and alcohol problem. He recently came home for the holidays and had a HUGE fight with our mother. Appearantly there were some extremely harsh things said and my mom felt physically threatened by him. My mom has since canceled the family get-to-gether. How can I help him and try and salvage our holiday?

2006-12-21 01:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by DitziD 2 in Family

This person is far too intelligent for simple apologies.

2006-12-21 01:07:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what does it mean when you talk to a guy that you like (and others think he likes you too) and at the end of the conversation he says 'talk on msn' but doesn't turn up on msn for the next few days? and also, his personal message says 'Iran' when he told me that he wasn't going anywhere... what does this whole thing mean? I really need some help with this, i'm really confused, and please! no smart *** answers.

2006-12-21 01:07:13 · 9 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

to have oral sex before a first kiss ? ^_^

2006-12-21 01:07:06 · 10 answers · asked by Matthew K 2 in Singles & Dating

they have only then togather for a little over a month and on their frist date he wonted to kiss her and hold her hand but she does not no how to let him no

2006-12-21 01:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by jessica d 1 in Singles & Dating

We were dancing together. He asked me to find a light for his cigarette... I turned around to get one and when I turned back he had gone. I saw him dancing with someone else later on, but I left because I didn't know what to do. He says he's not my boyfriend and he can do what he wants. I think he shouldn't do that to anyone, boyfriend or not. What do you think?

2006-12-21 01:06:30 · 4 answers · asked by Zander 1 in Singles & Dating

she farted, what a turnoff!!!!!! I didn't expect that from a chick.

2006-12-21 01:06:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many girls assume a guy has a gf because he is too cute? Do some girls jump to the conclusion that a cute or handsome guy is always taken?

Do 'too cute or too handsome' guys intimidate girls in general? Do these 'too cute/handsome' guys give you goosebumps; make you feel nervous; or afraid to approach them?

2006-12-21 01:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex wife is behind on child support 8 weeks now, she just started a job this week and child support is gonna be taken out of her check, what am i suppose to do about the back pay?

2006-12-21 01:04:32 · 18 answers · asked by bshelby2121 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 01:03:25 · 15 answers · asked by zoey z 2 in Singles & Dating

if u all ready have a gf and dreamed you had sex wit a boy do dat mean u gay? will that come true in real life

2006-12-21 01:03:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Each year we spend Christmas Eve with my (large) side of the family, then we spend Christmas morning with our immediate family (me, husband, sons)...then, Christmas afternoon, we travel to In-laws to spend a few days with them.

Well, this year, my mother-in-law sold her beautiful home for a home too small to accomodate our family (more expensive home, nonetheless). She is expecting to come to our house this year and be here while we celebrate with my side of the family, etc. Like always, my husband is siding with her.

Now, I know She and her husband are family, but, It's hard to be happy about inviting someone who tries to control everything all the time. Additionally, she has always chosen to celebrate holidays with her friends over family. This year, friends are not around, so she is trying to push her way into our plans. I am a little disgruntled to say the least.

How would you handle this?

2006-12-21 01:02:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family