Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

2006-12-21 02:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 02:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by lorilie 2 in Family

2006-12-21 02:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by sandra 1 in Friends

2006-12-21 02:01:53 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well it's just a simple relationship question really. haha and an ancient one i might add. is there a cure for it?

2006-12-21 02:01:50 · 2 answers · asked by maryam m 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like lately I always see black guys and white girls together. Is there something black guys have (besides being bigger) that I dont know about?

2006-12-21 02:01:47 · 17 answers · asked by Hanna J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 02:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by nico g 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married at the end of June, and need a reasonably priced location for our beach wedding.

2006-12-21 02:00:19 · 15 answers · asked by sdubsdub 2 in Weddings

2006-12-21 01:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, this little 7th grader has asked me out like 5 times and i am an eighth grader and yesterday he wrote me two letters asking me to go out with him and then he came up to me after school and asked me what my answer was. but i didnt know what to tell him because i dont want to hurt his feelings. if you have any advice please let me know. thanks!

2006-12-21 01:59:05 · 7 answers · asked by cheerleader for life 1 in Singles & Dating

Throughout a marriage there wil be spits and spats between couples like me for example I make a big deal out of something that isnt work arguing over then it turns into something big and end up talking about getting divorce. My husband is a good guy and I now I have made look like a bad guy but I dont know how to leave something alone wihout getting mad about it that gives me the opportunity to talk about it. Everyone is different and I just want to now how all of you couples have held on to each other for so long and maybe give me some advice on how to keep it strong.

2006-12-21 01:58:56 · 16 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 01:58:01 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

These are the types of e-mails that I receive from my ex-husband. I don't know what to think.

In my mind, they are projection because he is saying all of the things that he does wrong are my fault. He routinely comes home late and leaves the child alone for hours on end.

You have NO idea of the amount of damage you have caused the child.

I will NOT let you just walk away and do other selfish things. You will NEVER be happy. (He found out that I was thinking of moving on and getting resettled.)

Today the child was crying...

I wish I was never born. My best gift is if I die. I am a neglected child...for whom nobody cares...

A selfish person like you does NOT deserve a child....Only money is important for you and your family....

You are a enemy of the house... and the child...

I feel sad because of the situation. The child does not want to move to live with me. I live in another state.

What is the best response to this other than feeling bad?

2006-12-21 01:57:17 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a great kid, quite , responsible and accountable. For the most part no problems. Last night a young girl called and left a crazy message on the phone yelling for him to pick up the phone, he was sleep in bed at 10pm. I quickly picked up the phone and told her to "NEVER CALL AT THIS HOUR AGAIN" This morning I had him listen to her message and disscussed it with him. I told him I can't choose your friends, but be careful of the friend you choose, he or she represents you and also told him to handle it. This is his first experience, that I know of anyway, he never gave me any reason to distrust him.

2006-12-21 01:57:01 · 13 answers · asked by cathymyres 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 01:56:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am just reflecting today.... You know, being so close to the Xmas season.

I broke up with my ex a few months back as he had expressed an interest in wanting to be in a 3some with me and another man. He wanted to suck, taste, and feel another man with me. We went as far as to dress him like a woman, in which I took him from behind to see if he would like the feeling. He did. I got scared and left..... what would you have done??????

Honest answers please.... is it normal for a guy to crave another man like that? I mean, wanting to be dressed like a woman and treated like one??

2006-12-21 01:56:35 · 23 answers · asked by FILLME 2 in Singles & Dating

Look, I am aware that a girl can change her emotions and feeling towards a boy whom she once rejected. But, what can cause her to do so? Kindness? Attention? Thank you

2006-12-21 01:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged for three years to a man that lives 2,000 miles away. He just moved there and is not moving here. I am scared to leave my job, my family, my friends to go there and be with him. He says that is the only option. He offered to move here once, but I could not ask him to do it at the time. He has a good job now, but he had problems holding a job in the past, that's why he moved to his new location. My family is extremely important to me and my mother is my best friend and they live 5 minutes away from me. Neither she nor my father are in the best of health and there are no other family members are here to take care of them when they are older. I can't eat, sleep, deal with this. I am in love with him and he is in love with me. Is love enough? I am 35 years old. I've never been married and I'd like to have children. I have known my fiance for over 10 years and know that he is very much in love with me. It would not be easy for me to come home very often.

2006-12-21 01:54:46 · 23 answers · asked by SelfGrill 3 in Singles & Dating

i moved to te Uk the same time as some of my friends from back home. theres a site where people keep in touch and put up pictures of themseleves. when i see my friends with their new friends i fell jealous because blended in easily. they go out and have loads and loads of friends but i hardly go out with friends.
i hang out with them at school - they are really nice but how do i get them to go out with me outside of school to the pictures or something? how do i stop being jealous of my old friends?

2006-12-21 01:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Before his company dinner ,he informs me dont kiss on me or anything it will embarass me!

2006-12-21 01:53:59 · 12 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 01:53:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a very untrusting person by nature because of the life I have lived so I make people earn my trust instead of give it and then get crushed when you find out you cant trust them. Well I did this with my girlfriend who I love very much, I behaved as though I couldnt trust her and she has done some things to test my trust which I cant stand to be tested. I guess I dont like my own medicine. Well recently I did something to break her trust in me by logging into her ex b/f account, I tell myself its not because I wanted to see what she is still talking to him about but how there relationship was in the past and I told her I did it. I did it because Im insecure. She never talks to me when we have problems which always made me think she was hiding something but thats just the way she deals with things. My question is, is it possible for me to start behaving like I trust her to show her I do or is it to late? How can I show her I trust her so she will know it.

2006-12-21 01:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

from past few days I have seen her watches me wether i am in the class or not.and when i look at her she turns her face

2006-12-21 01:51:53 · 17 answers · asked by meet_adnan_786 1 in Singles & Dating

I am happily divorced, but the Holidays make me feel like I am missing out on some loved-up dreamy "couple life" that probably doesn't even exist. What is it about Christmas that does this to people???

2006-12-21 01:51:15 · 26 answers · asked by Its Scarlett 2 U 1 in Singles & Dating

meaning talking just about them

2006-12-21 01:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by joi r 1 in Singles & Dating

i already have all the basic ones like ED, EDDY, EDSTER, etc etc.. but neither one is GREAT enough

2006-12-21 01:50:56 · 5 answers · asked by yeahyeahlove99 1 in Friends

I divorced at a early age which is typical now a days. My ex-husband cheated on me. I have dated married men, mostly because I knew where they went home to every night. And if they said they were going to do something they did it. They were men of there words. Mostly older men. However all the single men I have met have someone else and are trying to talk to me at the same time. I don't believe in this internet meeting, and the bar I hang out at is full of males that are dogs. I have become good friends with all of them and I know there wives and girlfriends. But i'm still left all alone. I'm 29 years old and I have almost given up on meeting someone that can be to one person and has his life in tact. I grew up at an early age, and many have told me since I was 17, im more mature then the average person my age. Christmas is really taking a depressing toll on me and my family is 12hours away. What can I do to get out of this depression.

2006-12-21 01:49:51 · 20 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Singles & Dating

i plan on throwing my wife and kids out of my home so my girlfriend can move in with me . the problem is should i do it now or waite until after the holidays my girlfriend is younger and better looking than my wife. and really wants to move in asap. so should i do it now or waite until after the holidays any help??

2006-12-21 01:48:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 01:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by Rogernyc 1 in Singles & Dating

It all started in July when I & my gf had s3x. It was my 1st time & she said it was her too. When I later realised that she's cheatin on me, I decided to end the relationship. But I couldnt spot the storm that would screw my life up. In Aug, she calls me up & says she's probably pregnant. I was shocked when she said this as I had not c*mmed in her. After her call, I seriously thought abt jumpin off my balcony. I couldnt face myself. After the tests, she called me up & said she's pregnant & that she needs money for abortion. I told my Mom abt it & she said she was just tryin to get the money & she cant be preg & stuff. I broke off all ties wid her & she screwed my repute among all my net pals.
But since then, I feel scared to goto her city as I think I'll get screwed up if we meet again though it wasnt my fault. My Mom says life doesnt stop for no1 but everyday, I live under the fear that what if she sees me somewer?

2006-12-21 01:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating