When I was little, I always believed that there was ONE person out there just for me. Now, here I am twenty something years later, - gone through a few 'potientals' but still single.
I just don't know if I believe in there being one person anymore, or if there are alot of people who come along at different times in life when you need them the most and the one you can stand to be around the most is the one who wins your heart.
Maybe I am just bitter.
So, my question is, do YOU still believe in soulmates?
2006-12-21 01:15:39 · 27 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I do, I've been married to my soulmate now for 10 years.
2006-12-21 01:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear you!
The problem is that many confuse, soul sisters and soul mates.
Sometime you meet your soul mate but as it is a soul question, it may not become your partner, father of your children...
What you speak about is some alter ego who should and would be complementary...
I am far older than you are and if it can comfort at your age there is always a kind of despair to be in a good relationship.
Later, when it happens and it can happen only if you try to see the positive aspects, as you do now, as a growing process, you will even better understand why it took so long...
Try to understand what you did in those relationships and to understand what attract you in this persons to know yourself better...
Knowing yourself is a key to all kinds of success...
And yes, I think people can find partners at all age and also peace even if they don't find the ideal charming prince!
2006-12-21 01:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 30. And I believe in soulmates. The bitter thing is when you find that exact person, he never gets to be yours. Because you want him too badly. Or by the twisted luck, you found him already taken by someone else. That's my experinece. But I hope to believe there are good one's too. I wish that everyone may have the chance to live at least a period of a lifetime with thier soulmates. No one shouln't be so cruel for not to deserve this, I hope!
2006-12-21 01:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do believe there is such thing as a "soulmate", but I can also tell you that more than half of the people in this world never meet theirs. Sometimes when you search too hard for the perfect one, you will not notice that the right one is right in front of you. I mean, don't give up, but when you find someone that makes you happy already, wouldn't it just be better if you stayed with that person?^-^
2006-12-21 01:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♥クロミ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think there is a soulmate for everyone. I think many people end their search early though, and end up with someone slightly less perfect than what is intended. I think this is true because of our own ambition more than anything else. You have noticed a trend with yourself, and that is people will come and go as you need them, but they usually are not permanent. When you find your soulmate you will know quickly and it probably will not be the who you can "stand" the most.
2006-12-21 01:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do have faith in soulmates - i chanced on mine yet i won't be in a position to be with him in this lifetime. i think of once you do meet your soulmate something only binds you collectively and no count number what happens in existence you get even though it as a pair and could by no skill even entertain the assumption of leaving them. they're like the lacking piece of you and are a great motivating rigidity interior of your existence (hear to Aaliyah- permit me be responsive to). Nothin or no-one will take you faraway from their love and you desire to supply them each little thing whether you go through. you do no longer probable be responsive to that theya re your soulmate until some years down the line and you have confronted lifes trials. Thats a soulmate and your existence is plenty richer as hence of the being with them.
2016-12-18 17:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by dunnuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on the verge of turning thirty. I know this much:
In my twenties I was amdly in reciprocal love three times. These relationships were excellent and just closed for logistical reasons (i.e college, work, travel, etc).
I believe these girls were my soulmates. The relationships were magical. They are still my friends.
I believe that there are people for everyone, more than one, but definitely a small fraction of the people you meet and date.
As of know all my beliefs have dissapeared (Religion, Good Humans, etc) but I still latch on to romantic, passionate love as something that's almost to ethereal to be real, but real nonetheless.
2006-12-21 01:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by malingenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 and I'd like to think that there's someone special out there for me...
I'm not sure if it's plausible because there are billions of people on Earth and it's nearly impossible to find that one person but it's a nice fantasy...
2006-12-21 01:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure do. Keep looking, when you find your soulmate, you will know it. Anything worthwhile takes time. It's just a shame we hafta get burned along the way. You are not bitter.
2006-12-21 01:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe in soul mates but i believe most of these people out here never get to meet their soulmate...to me i see u love the person you married even if you do spend of your lives together but there can always be someone out there who is better for u
2006-12-21 01:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋