They have a kid and he has told me that he is gay and wants to come out of the closet, how do i help him do this, this is weird cause i didnt know that he was gay....should i encourage it and take his wife, because she is hot and i have gotten vibes from her before. Please give me some good advise, cause i hate the news that my friend is gay, but then again if i have a chance to comfort his wife then maybe something good will come out of it for all of us
2006-12-21 01:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by olzap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know it may sound like i am being selfish, but thats not the case at all. I just see an opportunity with her thats all, and i cant help my buddy is gay!
2006-12-21 01:19:50 · update #1
Tell the wife, then hit that hot ***!
2006-12-21 01:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Doofus B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do sound selfish and what descent man would want to sleep with his friends wife, gay or not? If you friend is gay then yes, you should help him come out and explain to his wife that you (even though you are his friend) didn't know he was gay and lend a shoulder for her to lean on. That's it.
2006-12-21 09:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Something good will come out of it for all of us"
That's an amazing statement. How is something good going to come out of this for his child? Divorce is traumatic for children. It is very difficult to grow up in a split home; especially when the adults are acting like children. In our culture, sadly, homosexuality is still looked down on. Imagine how that kid is going to deal w/ the stigma of a homosexual father. Imagine how difficult that child's adolescence is going to be. Imagine how painful and humiliating it is going to be for his wife to deal with this. Imagine how much she will hate you for knowing that he was talking to you about this situation before he blind-sided her with it. You are not going to be able to step into that family and slide right into her bed like this is some 30 minute WB sitcom. Real-life is painful and messy.
Your friend made a commitment to a woman and has a very serious responsibility to his child. His responsibility is to raise the child and model good behavior. He does not have the option to follow his penis out the door w/ the first attractive person (of either gender) he sees. Leaving a marriage because he wants to explore his sexuality is an extremely selfish and shallow reason. Shame on him. And shame on you for seeing this as an opportunity to get laid. You are both pathetic.
As his friend, your job is not to poach his family. It is to help him be a man and stick to his responsibilities and commitments.
2006-12-21 09:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now how would a MAN help another MAN prove he was gay- hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Some good advice would be to ask yourself WHY did you not KNOW he was gay.....
most men can sense these things....
maybe she would be jumping out of the frying pan and right back in that fire
maybe
2006-12-21 11:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friend would "take" his wife. You sound like a low life
2006-12-21 09:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
open the closet door
2006-12-21 09:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. no one will be happy this way and you are not too sure of your friend.
2006-12-21 09:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him he is not fit for you.
2006-12-21 09:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋