Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

I don't know what to do. I've been avoiding my best guy friend for two or three months, ever since we slept together. My boyfriend, who I've been with for about a year, doesn't know. It was my first time ever having sex. i haven't told anyone that I'm pregnant. my parents will freak if they find out. I'm too young to be a mom. maybe i shouldn't tell them. maybe i should just get rid of it.

2006-12-20 16:15:03 · 19 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 16:14:49 · 13 answers · asked by kk 1 in Singles & Dating

Im so confused!!!

This is me being honest.... I'm in the 11th grade at a pretty small Public school... like.. only 1,000 kids...well... it seems like im always the source of drama!!! I mean ALWAYS!!! some stupid little girl heard I called her a slut and shes all in my face at lunch.....

Ok, yeah.. its wrong to talk bad about people... but if its true.... then OMG... it needs to be said...

Its like.. I can say "Jessica is a dirty whore" in 2nd Period... then on tha way to 3rd period.. shes like.. calling me out... I dont get it.... everyone talks ****... why am i always the one who ewnds up with the drama!!!...

2006-12-20 16:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by kay H 1 in Friends

So I love my bf but he ALWAYS has girls all over them. ( he doesnt lead them on..dont worry) and he gets upset that i get jealous. so how can i not be so jealous all the time? I mean i trust him and everything i just hate freakin girls all up on his nuts all the time! and i DONT want to push him away..and i know he loves me. i KNOW he does, and i know im the only girl he wants to be wiht. but i cant help it. AHHH

I need help.

Please..

2006-12-20 16:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Singles & Dating

well we had to handle some business (me and my ex bf) and well we broke up in a good way but i had not seen him in like 2 months and well we lived together and things were great until any other realtionship we got tired of each other and fought too much so HE broke up with me and I had no choice but to move on. Today we saw eachother and i was trying to be strong and act normal, but he broke down saying he missed me and he hugged me alot, he had teary eyes and just said how rough it has been lately.That broke me inside and i just gave in too. one thing led to another and we had sex. i know we will never get back together if it was up to me we would be. but obviously he doesnt feel anything because he just said that it he had made a choice and that he had to be strong and stick to it. I didnt try to and act out how i really felt but I cried when i drove him back. now i feel crummy like i am back to the beggining of the break-up. How can I get over this one now? I am completely confused

2006-12-20 16:13:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any singles, dating, social groups that get virgins together that are waiting for marriage? I am a male virgin and it seems like i think i will connect best with a female virgin thats also waiting for marriage. Im tired of holding it in but this is how i feel.

2006-12-20 16:13:06 · 13 answers · asked by virgin 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and his mother have a really bad relationship. She strung him through a series of abusive husbands and a horrible family life. We have a 3 month old now, and she's only seen him once and has no pics of him. On the other hand, she has only called once about him and seems pretty obsessed with making her current b/f happy, although he's pretty abusive to her too. I agreed not to let her have the baby alone at her house (don't trust her b/f, and she is a little off) but I still feel bad about not taking the initiative to invite her over. Although she and her former lovers did a lot of really bad things to him in the past, should I call her or leave that to him? My family and I are pretty close, and I wouldn't know how to handle this situation. He thinks she will give him a lot of bad ideas because she does tend to lie a lot and distort what happened to him as a child, and I've heard these things about her from a lot of other people so I don't think it's a biased opinion.

2006-12-20 16:12:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex-husband wants to move to another state because of a new job. He currently has custody of our 14 year old daughter. I asked him to send her to me and then he can move. I live in another state.

This was his response:

You have NO idea of the amount of damage you have caused the child.

I will NOT let you just walk away and do other selfish things. You will NEVER be happy. (He found out that I was thinking of moving on and getting resettled.)

Today the child was crying...

I wish I was never born. My best gift is if I die. I am a neglected child...for whom nobody cares...

A selfish person like you does NOT deserve a child....Only money is important for you and your family....

You are a enemy of the house... and the child...

He is the one neglecting the child by leaving her alone for hours and not spending time with her. He does not return from work until late in the evening.

I feel sad when I read this. I don't know how to respond though.

2006-12-20 16:12:02 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

talk dirty on the phone, but i'm really embarrassed and don't know how do do it! Help1 what do guys want you to say?

2006-12-20 16:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

nxt means next, e.o means eachother, and i KNOW it sounds stupid for teens to fall in love over the internet, but i need help with this one.

2006-12-20 16:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by MD 2 in Singles & Dating

should i give her earings

2006-12-20 16:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my parents are divorced and my father is married again, but the thing is that the woman is really mean to me when my dad is not around. They live in another city and my dad wants me to go and vsit them for the Holidays, I wish I could say no, but he is so excited about my visit that I just can't do that to him, but his wife is just hideous what do I do????

I'm really nice to her but she keeps being mean, they used to live in MIAMI and they moved, now she is blaming me for that and won't let him spend a penny on me. On my last visit I got sick and the bi&ch won't let him pay for my medicines!!!!! I did't WANT him to pay for them 'cause I'm an adult and quite cappable of paying for anyhting I could need but the attitude is what bothers me.
Besides I don't think she treats him very well...

2006-12-20 16:09:21 · 2 answers · asked by nobodysfool 4 in Family

Just wondering if I should build up my muscles a bit

2006-12-20 16:09:04 · 16 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 16:09:01 · 8 answers · asked by casstagia b 1 in Singles & Dating

and that youll just go home if she comes- but he still invites her, wat is that saying about your friendship? he knows i dont like this girl we have many issues, old roommates, that explains it all!

2006-12-20 16:08:46 · 2 answers · asked by getoffmyback 2 in Singles & Dating

She is a very good friend of mine and has been having a difficult time with some terrible marital issues as well. It seems like she has been bombarded as of late with some horrible situations, and I feel for her. I don't want to be the friend that gives cliche or meaningless words or advice. Any thoughts?

2006-12-20 16:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by vh360 1 in Friends

2006-12-20 16:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by kk 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-20 16:08:16 · 16 answers · asked by melissa 1 in Friends

My daughter's Kinda shy and doesn't have many friends, I am concerned about the influence a 25 year old girl who is dating guys can have on a 17 year old girl, who hasn't had a boyfriend yet. Please share your comments..

2006-12-20 16:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by Rsand 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to spend new years eve with him. He has been gone for a week and wont be back till christmas and then he wants to leave again to see some people that he just saw last week. Im hurt, how can i tell him that i want to spend that holiday with him without him calling me selfish or bossy. I dont think im being unfair but im scared he will get defensive and we will get in an arguement :(

2006-12-20 16:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my husband for 2 years and i'm his second wife, i'm also the 40th women that he has slept with, every time i think about it i feel dirty and cheap. I have only slept with 4 men, i really need help figuring this out, Please help.

2006-12-20 16:07:33 · 33 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you tell me if my friends sister wants to go out with me?
Are these signs that she wants to go out with me:

1. she always comes to talk to me even if I'm not walking in her direction at all.
2. she always yells, "Hi, Josh!" whenever she sees me in the halls(that's my name).
3. She never talks down to me, ever.
4. she asks me to help her with stuff when she doesn't even seem to need help with them at all. (Example: she asked me to help her find her brother, but when we found him, she just walked away without saying anything to him.)
5. when I do something stupid with her two brothers and she yells at us and stuff, she NEVER looks at ME.
6. she has become friends with all of my friends.
7. she looked away sadly when I gave one of her female friends a friend-to-friend hug.
8. she got mad at her brothers for something she thought THEY did, but actually I was the one who did it (i called her while we were both watching a talent show for school). I told her I did it, and she just walked away.
9. She put her cell # in my cell phone herself.

10. She came into my house a (long time ago) and started going through my laundry while I wasn't there.
11. She always invites herself into my games of hacky-sac, which she isn't very good at. She will just keep playing until I quit.
12. She held my wrist(NEAR my hand, but not quite) to sneak me into an R-rated movie while saying, "He's with me!"

2006-12-20 16:07:30 · 1 answers · asked by EK Music 2 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my friend ger in to small aruments but after like 5 seconds we are totally fine! and we are like best of best friends ever and we do everythign together

2006-12-20 16:06:52 · 5 answers · asked by mystery_girl 1 in Friends

when she was a kid her parents had too tie a lamb chop around her neck so the dog would play with her...who,s got any rough ex partner stories..........

2006-12-20 16:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by dave the rave 1 in Singles & Dating

he was flirting with the pasyor's daughter is something going on between them

2006-12-20 16:06:34 · 17 answers · asked by Samanta F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is most favourable position for a married woman?And what is most enjoyable position for an unmarried girl?

2006-12-20 16:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wanted to know what guys find attractive in girls.
From a cute blond

2006-12-20 16:04:38 · 14 answers · asked by unkonwn person 1 in Singles & Dating

What about people who find true love and then lose it? Is that it? Is it over for them?

2006-12-20 16:03:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in law lives 20 minutes away and never comes to see her grandchildren or call to see how they are. When they do see her, which is problely once every six months, she showers them with gifts and lectures them like she has actually been there for them and cares.

2006-12-20 16:02:58 · 19 answers · asked by goodgrlelectric2 1 in Family

A lot of adults think we are kids and we dont know what love is she is only 11 and im 14...When she was in 2nd grade she got raped and ever since,some things heve been happening in her life that no one would want to happen to them.She called me this morning and told me that it was over because she needed some time because she was going thrue a lot but i asked her if there is hope that we would get back and she said most likely not but she still loves me a lot.I have never loved anyone like I love her she is the perfect match for me and I beaged and cried all day to her by phone so she would get back with me.I thought about suicide but I realized that if I did it, I would never have a chance to be with her and im still here.She is the love of my life and im loosing her.im not like most guys that they are after 1 thing and one thing only witch is of cource...Guess? yeah you guessed it Sex,I dont think of her like that ever i swear.People please tell me what to do to get her back.Please!!

2006-12-20 16:01:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships