my husband is looking at other women and calling them then say it's his friend's is he cheating?

Question

he was flirting with the pasyor's daughter is something going on between them

Answer 1

If he is lying to you about it, then he is cheating. If there was nothing going on, he would have nothing to lie about. Plus, any man who is worth having as a husband would never talk to another woman behind his wife's back. Most would not even talk to another woman, period. Why would he want to risk his marriage if it were really innocent? He would not want it to even look like he was cheating. So, it sounds to me like it is time to move on to someone more honest and trustworthy.

Answer 2

Do you have any evidence of him cheating? Did you catch them in the act? Has he kissed or touched anyone? Is he sleeping around and others know it? What is your definition of cheating? Is it telling another woman that she looks pretty? Is it simply looking at another woman? That isn't cheating. You know that, right? Are you assuming that he is cheating? Are you taking your friend's word for it? Have you seen anything with your own two eyes? Has he cheated before? Has he cheated in other relationships? Looking, as long as no touching is involved, is quite normal. Friendly flirting is also very normal. In some cases, it's called being nice and sociable. Maybe his friend is cheating. Do you know his friend? Have you asked his friend? How do you know he was flirting with the pastor's daughter? If she is very young then that's a huge problem by the way. Did you see them? Or, did some other female friend come up to you and tell you this bit of gossip? Do you trust your husband? Evidently not since you are posting this online. Sounds like you may want to think about this and talk it over with him.

Answer 3

I believe you have the right to find out if he is. His behaviors would say something is not right. Or he could just be one of those kind of guys who flirts with everyone (we have a name here for men who do that - we call them Paul) and none us takes him seriously.
If it is bothering you that much then ask him how he is feeling about your relationship - maybe that is the root is there are issues that need looking at. Even go to see a marriage counselor - even if it's just one session. It could help find where the issues are. I feel bad for you - I have had a suspicious mind forever (born with green eyes) but I have come to learn that it says more about my own insecurities than anything.

Answer 4

no that is flirting and it is not accepted behaviour for a husband .
if he made out with some body behind your back it would be cheating ,which is even more unacceptable.

Answer 5

Go to the source--The Pastors daughter--ask her--ask his friends what he is saying heck get he and his friends together and ask them all---put him on the line--don't be a doormat to any one its not fair to you --and to play a fool only makes you look bad---

Answer 6

it depends. but there is such a thing common friendship and just being nice. If he has to have affair with the pastor's wife thats low and u should not be with him. trust ur insticts.

Answer 7

no he is not cheating! it is perfectly normal what he is doing. are you getting what you want? does he be stroking it good! cause if he aint then talk to him. tell how to stroke it to the east and sgtroke it to the west tell him how to want him to stroke it best. he be stroking it. and so long as he stroking it good for you leave the man alone for god sakes woman?

Answer 8

sorry to say this but he is most likely cheating on you.

Answer 9

If you are uneasy about it, tell him. But it is not what we think, it is what you think. If he loves you, he will stop. But if he downplays it and tells you that you are being paranoid, then you are on the money.

Answer 10

You better believe it. Kick the bum to the curb