Im so confused!!!
This is me being honest.... I'm in the 11th grade at a pretty small Public school... like.. only 1,000 kids...well... it seems like im always the source of drama!!! I mean ALWAYS!!! some stupid little girl heard I called her a slut and shes all in my face at lunch.....
Ok, yeah.. its wrong to talk bad about people... but if its true.... then OMG... it needs to be said...
Its like.. I can say "Jessica is a dirty whore" in 2nd Period... then on tha way to 3rd period.. shes like.. calling me out... I dont get it.... everyone talks ****... why am i always the one who ewnds up with the drama!!!...
2006-12-20 16:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by kay H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like because you are causing drama...I mean, especially in a small school, it's not going to take long for rumors to get back to people, jeesh...
2006-12-20 16:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by simplymichelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your the escape goat?.people like to blame drama-bad mouthing on, and it also seems to me that your guilty as well for the drama-you talk shiit too, and this has got to stop. I learned to keep my mouth shut-but my ears and eyes open long ago, when I realized gossiping isn't a good way to become liked. Yes, forr minute everyone will want to hear what you have to say, but for the rest fo the time, they'll know you gossip and probably keep you out of things because they'll say all you do is talk shiit, which will hurt you-cuz you'll find out who your real friends are. Iearned the hard way, and I still can't believe I was that naive, but I am glad I learned. Now, I keep my mouth shut and my ears and eyes open, and it's wonderful. Now, people know they can trust me, and it makes me feel good. When ever someone gossips about someone else, they'll say it in front of me instead of hiding it , because they realize I won't say anything-I can be someone they can trust, and even allow me into their conversations-but even when invited-I don't gossip, I just say -"yeah, OK uhuh...".-so they know I don't like that person, but don't hate them either. You definitely need to change your attiude if you won't this drama to stop, don't act immature just cuz everyone else is-people will only think less of you, and make your reputatione even worse. This doesn't mean, however that you can't defend yourself, if someone says something-make sure it;'s true**, don't just assume and then confront them, get your facts staright, and then go for the goal-they'll look stupid-trust me.
2006-12-21 00:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ever talk bad about someone, GUARANTEE it will come back to haunt you in some form. NEVER failing system. To talk bad about another person is to talk bad about yourself, kid. You are no better than your worst friend.
2006-12-21 00:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by jdd's_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up 4 ur self and good luck!!!
2006-12-21 00:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luck
2006-12-21 00:24:32 · answer #5 · answered by curious115 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut your mouth
2006-12-21 05:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋