nxt means next, e.o means eachother, and i KNOW it sounds stupid for teens to fall in love over the internet, but i need help with this one.
2006-12-20 16:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by MD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. DON'T BE LAZY!!!!do NOT use the stupid abreviations!
2. online relationships do not work out 99% of the time. Be friends. Have cyber sex. Have phone sex. Leave it at that!
2006-12-20 16:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me with a girl from a different country when I was 17, and now we're studying at the same university together and have been dating for nearly 2 and a half years. Swap mobile numbers and txt / call eachother (if things seem more promising then call for more often) after about 2 months of getting to know eachother well you might suggest meeting for coffee sometime in a descant friendly place (during the day). If distance is an issue the time you keep in touch will need to be longer (like 3-4 months of getting to kno one another) then when the time is right (and if your sure you want to travel some way to see her- it's a slight gamble with the possibility that she could chicken out and not show) u can meet up with her in a town/city close to both of you, and preplan stuff to do when you're there.
This brings me back.. Good luck mate!
2006-12-20 16:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you 'known' each other?
I don't need to tell you to be careful--the internet hides what people really are like. I'm not saying she's a psycho stalker but rather that the things she doesn't want you to know can easily be disguised.
I recommend talking more... Not that i'm advocating meeting, but if you insist on meeting make it a public place, and make sure SOMEONE knows where you will be going.
When i was younger I "fell" for a couple people on the internet and ended up meeting one, but honestly he wasn't really like he was online. And this wasn't total stranger type internet dating, either.. a real-life friend of mine knew him so i knew he was genuine.. we just didn't end up meeting for a long time and always chatted on msn.
You're falling for an image of the person, not the actual person, so just be careful and don't be disappointed if it doesn't quite go the way you want it to.
2006-12-20 16:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm wondered as to why your human beings would doubt that adult males were drawn to you. Are you extra acceptable than them and they are being jealous or what? nicely with the first guy he gave the impression of he replaced into fascinated, yet you acted like you weren't so he moved on. i imagine you're too shy and that receives you each and every time. to attempt to boost your self belief try issues with random strangers that you'll likely under no circumstances see back. bypass as a lot as random adult males no matter if you locate them acceptable or not and praise them on some thing, some thing. Doing this in a fashion which couldn't have any detrimental lengthy time period repercussions would develop your self belief for human beings you would actual favor to have interaction with. you may also try transforming into a member of diverse golf equipment to satisfy human beings, adult males and women, to develop your circle.
2016-12-01 00:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be serious. Go to school and find some one there you are 15 have 10 different girl friends if that is what you want but "computer love " just don't work. If it makes you feel better say she is your girl friend what else do you think you can do.
2006-12-20 16:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting is dangerous. Stay online friends, is the best advice I can give you. Possibly when you both are older and more mature, even more aware of the dangers of meeting in real life-you can figure out your next step. Good luck.
2006-12-20 16:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, how old are you? ---dont just meet, talk on the phone for a LONG time and then discuss and get to know each other really well beofre making a stupid decision, but thats just me with my trust issues talking-you never relaly know someone until they wrong you dude!
2006-12-20 16:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by getoffmyback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15. Are you sure she is who she says she is?
Consider the cyber-dating training for the real McCoy.
Now go find someone REAL!
P.S. Principessa, was that you? Sorry I wasn't who I appeared to be online. I really wanted to be that great guy I presented myself to be. It's just too hard to be him in real life.
2006-12-20 16:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to send you a pic of her holding 3 fingers anda pencil or something. Just to make sure "she" is not actually a middle aged fat man in his underwear. Then when you decide to meet, call the police and tell them.
2006-12-20 16:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by JIMMY j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont meet up with eachother though. have her give u her parents number so your parents can call hers and then u might be able to see eachother and have a closer relationship
2006-12-20 16:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by SpongeBobCoolDude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋