So I love my bf but he ALWAYS has girls all over them. ( he doesnt lead them on..dont worry) and he gets upset that i get jealous. so how can i not be so jealous all the time? I mean i trust him and everything i just hate freakin girls all up on his nuts all the time! and i DONT want to push him away..and i know he loves me. i KNOW he does, and i know im the only girl he wants to be wiht. but i cant help it. AHHH
I need help.
Please..
2006-12-20 16:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just join in but push the girls away.
it always works.
don't get jealous because it's good that your boyfriend loves you but just be thankful that someone loves you.
it's alright.
if you know if he'll never be unfaithful then your all set
good luck.
2006-12-20 16:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Millie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he shouldn't be letting girls hang all over him. If he needs that much attention from other women, he isn't ready to commit to you.
How do you think he'd like a bunch of guys hanging all over you? Why don't you try it and see what his reaction is? I'm guessing he wouldn't appreciate being on the other end of this.
As far as you being afraid of pushing him away...if he dumps you because you set some reasonable standards for what you want in a relationship, kiss him goodbye and find a guy who respects you.
2006-12-21 00:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about it and hopefully he can work out a way to get the girls attention away from him..this is disrespectful to you if you are with him when the girls are over him..does he say anything like "i have a girlfriend,sorry girls"??? because if he doesn't then he is obviously is enjoying all the attention from the females..and hopefully he does not forget about you in the meantime..good luck with this one :S
2006-12-21 00:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jonte` 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it if you trust him. Or, instead of trying to push him away, get closer. Sit next to him or hold his hand- make little gestures every once in a while. Just put up a clear, but subtle sign that he's with you. Don't go so far as to look clingy or possessive though.
2006-12-21 00:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
then chill out. You just said that everything is fine. Dont be such a type A personality. If you keep up the drama, say good bye to mamma!
2006-12-21 00:16:22 · answer #5 · answered by sk20007623 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he is not discouraging other girls from being all over him ,especially in front of you ,then he is direspecting you .
have more confidence to talk to him.if you push him away,too bad,hes not worth it.
2006-12-21 00:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax! Just as long as you know you're boyf is true to you, you have nothing to worry about!!
2006-12-21 00:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by Queen of Scream Fan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dd ump bad ly girl i know him tell him that we cant be together
2006-12-21 00:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by casstagia b 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋