Family & Relationships - 19 December 2006

I don't know what to ask my boyfriend for christmas and he refuses to take the 'surprise me' answer because the last few things he was thinking about getting me i already had, or they were games i've already played/beaten.
I'm 19 years old. hobbies are art, photography and some gaming. I have a 50 dollar cap because we both decided not to excede that this year for gifts.

I'm very bad about asking for things because i was raised poor and learned not really want anything, so i have NO ideas.

I really wouldn't mind something sweet/corny/romantic from him but can't think of anything haha.
Any ideas would be great.
Please nothing sexual this is christmas afterall.

2006-12-19 20:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

as his granddad is ill. This is fine & understandable.
Anyway, he isn’t happy about me going away as it’s our first Xmas together, there are many reasons 2 why I’m going – I wont go into now, & he thinks I will just forget about him when there. Last night we started 2 argue in the pub, & he walked out, I followed him all the way home, as he wouldn’t get in the car.
We argued in his driveway 4 about an hour, & I told him I was going, as I couldn’t feel my toes anymore. Everything is two sided, but I do feel 4 most things I haven’t done anything wrong, I didn’t bring up Wales, I went over 2 him loads & gave him kisses & cuddles, but never really got any back. He is saying I couldn’t stop talking about going away, & that I just left him all night. His words “I forgot about him”. He also said it feels like I don’t need him in my life, I replied “no I don’t need u in my life, but I want u in it” & said that no1 should “need” someone, they should only want them.

What do I do?

2006-12-19 20:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by Jelly 2 in Singles & Dating

"dont leave the one you love coz of the one youe like... coz the one you like may leave you coz of the one they love..."

what if the one you love, loves another?

hhmm...

if you have a crush... and that guy doenst like you...
but talks to you a lot...
so the thing is.,..
you..i mean "i" fall deeper for him..
what will i do??

i have this guy..
who likes me..
but...
he has a gf..
his friend..
WAS my bf... EX in short..
what am i gon do with him?

and i have this friend...
who's soooooo cute...
we talk...
we seem to connect..
but we really dont open up anything bout havin any relationships....
what's with us?
i just dont know....

2006-12-19 20:24:17 · 3 answers · asked by FiLipina Lass^^ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i loved my bestfriend. and hes aware of my feelings for him until such the time that we shared the same feelings. we were happy doing the things that a lovers can only do until such the time that hes avoiding me yet he told me that he loves me but i know b4 that hes really a playboy..i dont know the reason why hes avoiding me

2006-12-19 20:22:59 · 3 answers · asked by ms_wholehearted 1 in Friends

2006-12-19 20:22:52 · 16 answers · asked by sugarbabe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mine was "As long as you hold me" By Kristy MaCcoll

2006-12-19 20:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Singles & Dating

What are the other reasons ????? I asked the guy,he said why would it be ???? We, know the first answer SEX, but what are other reasons ????

2006-12-19 20:19:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my best best friend and we are almost sisters has a cousin. he likes me and i like him. we were together but we broke up becuase our parents would find out and we would be in trouble. we have eachothers email and were best friends. ive been to his house alot and hes been to mine, but why do i feel so weird for likeing my best friends cousin? me and him have alot in common and we were also born a few days apart which is weird lol. but please why do i always think about him and dream about him? is there still hope?? im 13 and so is he incase your wondering

Thank u so much :D

2006-12-19 20:14:46 · 9 answers · asked by cutesoccerchica2006 2 in Singles & Dating

that I reached this age without "baby mama drama", but I also feel like I'm missing something. It's like sometimes I see guys younger then me who already have kids and I say to myself "sigh, good thing I didn't have kids young" but there is also a side of me that wishes I had a wife and kids. Why do I keep contradicting myself so much?

2006-12-19 20:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by AL IS ON VACATION AND HAS NO PIC 5 in Family

2006-12-19 20:14:20 · 7 answers · asked by lover_boys115 1 in Singles & Dating

I've not celebrated my b day since I was 18 cause I had no friends or boyfriend to celebrate with. It looks like it's going to be the same thing next year expect that I have a young child.. How do I make it memorable?

2006-12-19 20:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by eiyti g 1 in Friends

There is this guy around town.I once met him when I went to collect something for my dad.He helped my father fix his tyre when he was stuck next to the road.I've seen this guy around for quite a while.Usually when he sees me his head turns and starts talking to his friends.I can't help noticing each time he looks at me.I greet him each time I see him.Like you know lift the hand kind of thing and wave.Should I be concerned or pay attention as such with this kind of messages?He looks kind of old don't know his age though.

2006-12-19 20:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by cotto96 1 in Singles & Dating

a relation turned into a long distance one since we moved back to our different countries, and then he found someone his side and decided to over on as could not wait for us to meet…and now he wants me to forget everything and he also only remembers my faults and only criticises me – probably as a way to get over me….but is it possible that he may not actually be able to forget me completely and he may still feel something if we happen to meet again?

2006-12-19 20:11:47 · 7 answers · asked by duddette 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a stepmother who insists on controlling me in any situation, restaurants, etc. I always end up looking like the bad one. She has my Dad eating out of the palm of her hand and can persuade him quite easily. He divorced my mother twenty years ago, and I have been feeling without a Dad for so long, and I am sure that it is because she talks badely behind my back. She is a Doctor, so she has alot of money and power with my Dad, and she just makes me out to him as a loser and a loser mother (who is his ex-wife.)

2006-12-19 20:10:53 · 15 answers · asked by Serious 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here's the facts. i'm an 18 year old girl. black/filipino and very pretty i'm told. i've got low self-esteem and not alot of people around to support me so i stay that way alot. the only boyfriend i've ever had was a guy i met online, we broke up nearly 2 years ago and it majorly dropped my self confidence. i'm a very nice person and affectionate almost to a fault. i worry that i'll scare guys off cause i'm clingy. i'm not like a stalker or anything but i have a child-like quality to me. my main problem is i'm VERY shy. i open up after a while but no one takes the effort to try to get that far and that sometimes makes me worry if i'm not good enough. i like making people happy and sometimes people take atvantage of that and it messes with my emotions. any advice on what i should do would be greatly appreciated. thank you for your time :)

2006-12-19 20:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes i feel lucky to be free from commitment but i envy my friends who have their relationship working even they encounter many problems..

2006-12-19 20:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by pao 1 in Singles & Dating

So i got this girls numbe through a class.
So since the semeseter was over, I decided to giver her a call.
I called her to see how the exams was for her..and was about to ask her out.. but she told me sorry Im with some friends right now...
than i told her to call me back this weekend, but she didnt at all...
what do i do....i assume she is not interested than since she didnt call back....but damn she is hella cute... what do i do i want to get to know her more.....any suggestions?

2006-12-19 20:07:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was born on 26 sept 1974, please help!

2006-12-19 20:06:10 · 8 answers · asked by Cu 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm white American and my GF is Korean. I allow her freedome to hang out with her Korean friends. That's good. Tonight she was telling me that she forgot how affectionate Korean guys are. She said her Korean guy friends are always touching her hands and her hair and all that. I think they are hitting on her and she insists that its only a cutlure thing. I'm not jealous. They have nothing on me, but I want to know if its true that Korean guys touch and feel as part of thier culture. That would mean they touch and feel girls as much as guys. Can any Korean's offer an opinion ??

2006-12-19 20:04:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had recently been contacted by my first love that I haven't heard from in 8 months. We had dated for 3 years. His father passed away and he asked that I'd come to the wake. I went to pay my respects, and I found out that he is dating someone new, I am single, but it never bothered me until now. We ended our relationship on good terms and I'm not sure if I should try and keep in touch with him now, because he most likely will be depressed for a long time. He lived with his father his whole life, until now. He did break my heart however many times, but I still care for him. What should I do? Please help me?

2006-12-19 20:03:29 · 8 answers · asked by Lunita 1 in Singles & Dating

well... i have this friend... who is a total fashionista..
hmm... she's the first person in oiur group who's got the latest trends... well... coz what she wears is the new trend.. i intedn to buy clothes (not really similar) which somewhat looks like hers...
but i wear it my way.. not like hers... i just really like the clothes...

you think im trying to copy her or something?

2006-12-19 20:02:37 · 9 answers · asked by FiLipina Lass^^ 2 in Friends

In other words, would she only wear a G-string if she knew that somebody would see it, or hoped to show it off, at least?

2006-12-19 19:58:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20. and i am having problems with girls
Last time i liked some female friends
Well ...
there were like 4 or maybe 5 ? All of them ended up badly
All of them became my enemies ...
One of them even tried to threaten me by saying that she would commit suicide?Just because i tried to be honest with his "boyfriend" and tell him i liked her, and suddenly his Boyfren just went "poofffff" gone without a trace ...
That rocked my confidence real hard and now i hate female/gals more than ever
LOL i know this is sad
Even with my own neighbour, i also became enemies
The only thing i am good at is school stuffs ... Studying, stress the hell out of myself and get good marks ... thats all i can do

And i had strong feeling that those female friends of mine just wanted to borrow my brain? Besides its real hard for me to talk to them other than discussing school subject materials

2006-12-19 19:58:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone know 100% free online dating ?

2006-12-19 19:58:44 · 7 answers · asked by leandar 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-19 19:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by bugabooo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and I broke up 6 months ago.I very much still care for him but not sure if he does.He does things a bf usually does and it seems like he cares alot for me as well.We never used to fight when we dated but now we can't stop.He dates another girl back in the Phillipines and I'm not sure whether she really exists cause the way he goes about with me it is like he is cheating on her.He once invited me to go with him and when I asked him where we going he said he is going to buy an engagement ring for his girlfriend.Is he worth it or just a scam?

2006-12-19 19:50:57 · 18 answers · asked by cotto96 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello.I have a very close friend who I work with. I am also gay and with someone. For years my feelings for her have gone up and down - I have struggled because I do not want to risk loosing what we have. At times I feel it is mutual - other times I am not so sure. She also has a partner (husband) This is not purely sexual, it goes deeper then that .Whos to say I am not confused! If you know how I am feeling - and you have a way of helping me out I would be thank full.

2006-12-19 19:50:04 · 11 answers · asked by tracie100star 1 in Friends

why most of men lie and women cry ?

2006-12-19 19:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Egypt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years, we have had a rocky relationship and he cheated on me 3 years ago. I cant forget it, I think about it and I get angry with him. We are in a good place now and I cant seem to stop thinking about our past problems. I get angry with him when I think about it. I made the choice to take him back, sometimes I ask myself why I would do that, because I am always affraid that it will happen again. I am a depressed person, so maybe it is me wallowing in my on self pity that causes these feelings. I just cant talk my mind out of thinking about it. I am not any meds because they make me like a zombie. Does anyone have an suggestions?

2006-12-19 19:45:14 · 22 answers · asked by Wendy M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They tell me right away I LIKe your boobs, can u show them to me ? WHY ? that's ALL they see in me ???? ARE all men the same ????

2006-12-19 19:44:56 · 18 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Singles & Dating